I agree with Fern, let's move on from the topic, it looks to be fairly late for you guy in the States, it would be wise to not end the night on a fairly heavy topic (my DMs are open if you need a place to feel safe or even just to vent)
How about we go for the weather? It is absolutely scorching over here in Australia
Fern, yeah... the churches are still covered in ribbons on the fences, a decade later. It was, and still is, horrendous. It all started back in the seventies