Eagle, your mental health is important. I went through a similar situation with my situation when I was in my twenties, (im 31) and I stayed because I had step kids.. being in a toxic relationship because of one thing or another isnt healthy girl. Fight for your cats and your stuff. I had to fight my ex over my cat (he said he was taking her and I said over my dead body.. and he knew I was crazy LOL).. but you have to put you first in situations like that.
I have 3 and I have 2 that I know I cant live with out. the 3rd its technically his but icdoclove her. But I couldn't take more than one because of the living situation I'll have if I do move
I wish it was that simple. So much guilt and manipulation. Plus we have cats and I don't want to loose them or have to fight over them. And all the crap I own. Never move in with someone (even it you know them) after a month of dating ... Ive known him for 16 years and been with him for 5 and it's ugh bad
Then he says it's not the same because I work pt and he works ft And I know but it's really hard for me to just leave I'm trying to figure out but it's getting hard ugh.