Eagle Pathetic? No. You have been elevated to the Adult/ Parent position because of "his" childish antics. He's visibly throwing a tantrum because he is devolving to a child. You would be taking the mature path, the right path by letting him go so that he can mature and find the right person for him. In that same instance so that you can do the same too.
@Glacier it was hard, but in the end, it was worth it. I had nothing with him, and now I can work (he didnt even want me to work because he didnt want to do anything for the kids) and i had no vehichle.. i have it all now. And no stress of a man cheating on me or being mentally abusive.. he knew better than to hit me lmao
Eagle, I get it girl, we have 3 aswell and 2 are definitely attached to me. Honestly If you need to, take them and run. You need out of this. We are all aging, not getting younger. It isnt worth it to waste your time or life on someone like that.
I know I have too. Stashing money sounds like a good idea and I still haven't told my parents I'm terrified they are going to get too involved and make it hard/ uncomfortable if he comes around with them knowing the situation. But I have to bite the bullet and tell them but I hate looking pathetic. And that's all I feel that I am right now Thanks for the pep talk (again) just having a rough night. Thank you <3
That's what people do when they don't want to leave a relationship do to ease of access issues with a person that is a "placeholder" aka victim, but don't want to do the right thing and exit the relationship.
Get out Eagle.. he is not worth the grief.. look at what he is doing to you.. it is unhealthy and can become even worse.. ditch him.. you deserve to be happy and treated with respect.. and nothing less.
I still to this day struggle with relationship and trust because of that situation, and seeing him loyal to another when he wasnt to me, and seeing the rock on her finger and being constantly reminded of him and their relationship (by ppl we both know) sucks- but I am stronger and happier because I decided to leave.