Westwood
07:58:39 West || Turnip
I will beat you misha...
I will.... >:)
Pony Paradise
07:58:07 Pony || Ducky
My Accountant flat out hates me. I spend too much lol
Ladybird Estate
07:58:04 Rockbirdeth Of HEE
Moon
Which art?what?when?how?
Sunset Grove Farm
07:57:58 gertrude
You can doo it mish
Star Catcher Estate
07:57:47 Fleursie|Felru|Flav
Thank you my dearest Spawn <3
Amhain Dull Liath
07:57:20 Blonde Boy Zone
Well... I would bring you the jackpot if I wasn't a major fucking dumbass. But I will try for my dearest amoeba
Star Catcher Estate
07:57:16 Fleursie|Felru|Flav
lmao I'm just saving up for arts
XD
My accountant is glaring at me right now. He's guarding my savings account with his life
Moonland Ranch
07:57:15 Moony, Moon.
Ladybird, Your the one who did my art and I honestly think it's stunning
Ladybird Estate
07:57:10 Rockbirdeth Of HEE
Moon
It's meh
Pony Paradise
07:56:58 Pony || Ducky
33k
I need 80k before RO
I'm failing RO this year 0-0
Sunset Grove Farm
07:56:53 gertrude
Hmmm to do see to trivia or not too...
Mebbe a horse avatar or stable set
Amhain Dull Liath
07:56:44 Blonde Boy Zone
I will bring you the jackpot >:)
Westwood
07:56:05 West || Turnip
Your broke? 597k??
Try 30k with RO broods and a premium renewal
Sunset Grove Farm
07:56:01 gertrude
Shit I forgot abort trivia too

Im thankfully on with ebs though. Just need 400k more on ro
Pony Paradise
07:55:44 Pony || Ducky
I'm debating on it. Art or trivia lol
Ladybird Estate
07:55:36 Rockbirdeth Of HEE
Does anyone want to seriously feel out over marvel?
I know what s.h.i.e.l.d stands for of by heart :)
Star Catcher Estate
07:55:12 Fleursie|Felru|Flav
Lol I can't go to trivia tonight ;-;
Mishy you better win something for me lmao
Moon Shadow Ranch
07:55:03 Moon | TB + X
I paid off everything for RO and realized I'm broke now. I'm at around 597K :(. I logged into 975K today.
Moonland Ranch
07:54:54 Moony, Moon.
Ladybird, Your art is definitely worth a lot
Westwood
07:54:50 West || Turnip
I depend on Trivia for my income. Hopefully I can snag 100k for a premium renewal
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Why are some people so fake? October 25, 2019 09:03 PM

Viridian Meadows
 
Posts: 354
#474532
Just to clarify, the person I’m talking about is NOT a player of this site as far as I’m aware.

I was friends with this girl ever since we were both in Kindergarten, she’s 20 now and I’m 21 just to give you a perspective of how long we were friends for. We’ve always had a very rocky friendship if I’m being honest but we, or at least I thought, had good times as well.

When we were younger, we’d always have arguments over the stupidest of things, but as we hit high school we Matured and rarely argued but we still had our moments.

It wasn’t until the end of our Junior year that she just completely changed. I noticed how if I started to get into something that she wasn’t, she’d all of a sudden decide to like it as well. Or if I cut or dye my hair one way, she’d do hers the same way too. Even my makeup she’d copy. I thought nothing of it until both my mom and my other friends pointed out that it seems like she’s doing it because she wants to be “better than me”. But because I’m such a kind hearted person, I just shrugged it off and never really worried about it too much.

My mom had always told me how fake she seemed from the way she smiled and talked to people. But I was a stubborn teenager and thought my mom was wrong, it wasn’t until about last year that I really started to notice how “fake” she was. I noticed the fake enthusiasm when she greeted me, and how she only really wanted to hang out with me was when she had boy drama and the whole time we were together that’s all she’d ever talk about. If I’d talk about what was going on in my life, she’d just look around the room or be on her phone as if I wasn’t interesting enough for her. Even though I was aware of the situation, I still didn’t want to believe it because deep down I was hoping she’d change.

Yeah that never happened.
She just recently moved states to go to college, that was 5 months ago and I haven’t heard from her once. Not even when my birthday passed, she’d at least tell me happy birthday but this year? Nothing. Not a text nor a call.

Of course there’s a lot more to the story of our friendship (that’s now over by the way.) but it’s not things Im willing to openly talk about.

So.... yeah! That’s the thing I needed to badly get off my chest as it’s been bothering me for a while now.
Why are some people so fake? October 26, 2019 02:00 AM

Coruscant Farm
 
Posts: 439
#474635
I understand it hurts and that you had a long friendship but unfortunately people do change and it's not always for the better. One of the hardest pills to swallow in life is graduating school and going your separate way from people you've known your whole life, and losing that bit of a social safety net/comfort zone. For example, my childhood best friend and I were like sisters growing up but similar to your friend, my friend also went away to school. The distance combined with some other stuff (I found out she'd been making fun of me pretty badly to her new friends, amongst other things) really strained our relationship to the point we didn't speak for a handful of years. We're Facebook friends now and see each other maybe once a year but you know what? That's okay. Our time had come and gone and even though it hurt, life goes on.

And life fixes things sometimes, too...one of my other childhood friends I wasn't as close to growing up but still good friends with ultimately became my new best friend. We've been like sisters for years now and our friendship is so pleasant and easy. And you know what? I wouldn't trade that friendship for anything...not even to get back my friendship with my childhood best friend. So hang in there, it does get better. Good things are coming!
Why are some people so fake? October 26, 2019 01:38 PM

Viridian Meadows
 
Posts: 354
#474807
I have a new best friend, in fact in Junior High my new best friend used to hate me.
One day she called me these horrible names, I was so upset I went to the schools counselor who my family is good friends with outside of school so I just felt comfortable pouring out how upset. She ended up bringing her in with us and sat us down. After we talked it out, and she realized how hurt I really was she apologized and ever since then we’ve been besties. It seems she the only one of my friends that ever really cared.
To this day she still apologizes to me and still feels awful about it no matter how many times not to worry about it that it was in the past.

So I’m thankful I still have her.
but I fear she’s going to stop talking to me as well as she’s in her Junior year of college which is 5 hours from here. Shes studying in business management and finances plus she’s the president of one of her organizations. I’m very proud of her don’t get me wrong and I’d never be that person to be mad at her for going after her dreams. I’m just terrified that life’s going to get to busy for her and she ends up forgetting me like all the rest.
Why are some people so fake? October 27, 2019 12:58 PM

Flipperruby30
 
Posts: 2382
#475332
It's just life?
I've left school now and I have spoken to 1 person because we go to the same college now.Alot of the time people change - We dont notice but we change too.Perhaps she loved how you changed - Each time you changed hair or make-up or clothing she thought wow.And if she was struggling on her own side over her changes,Copying you seemed the safest option for her because you were always so cool and calm with everything around you!
So dont take it too harshly - people do drift apart.And think into things too deeply.What happens does so for a reason, And life finds a way to make everything dandy again sooner or later.
Just hope things lighten up - I hope I'm not too harsh too.Its just one of those things that shape who you are. <3

Edit -
I used to struggle with fear of being forgotten,That people didn't need me as much as I thought I needed them.Turns out now I'm actually better on my own - My anxiety has kicked down a couple of notches,I'm starting to love me and who I am as a person.And once I've figured out who I am - And love that person I'm sure all the friends I need to support me will follow.I suppose i realised it's hard for people to know me well if I don't know myself quite yet.
You'll figure it out I promise ;P

Edited at October 27, 2019 01:02 PM by Flipperruby30

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