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Sassenach said: Hey, I'm cis so like Medi and Ven said, I will never fully understand your situation. If possible, would you feel comfortable in board shorts and a sun-shirt? I've seen them be quite fashionable in water parks and round outdoor pools with everyone, no matter gender. Or if your mum really insists on a suit, I don't know how comfortable you would be, is a boyleg swimsuit as competition swimmers wear? The legs are similar to male competitive swimmers shorts and you could still put a sun-shirt, t-shirt on top. I don't know if my suggestions will help in any way but I wanna offer you support in any way possible, even if it's just a virtual hug and to say my inbox is always open <3
I was just about to suggest a sun shirt as well. If any questions arise just say you don't want to sunburn. Same with wearing longer shorts, you're trying to avoid sun damage.
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I saw on another post of yours that you have a sister? Well, if she's understanding and old enough to be helpful, talking to her could be helpful, as well and asking her for advice about dealing with your parents as she knows them pretty well to. The longer you out if off, the worse it's going to get, and the more uncomfortable your going to be come. Do you have a good friend you could move in with for a little while, to out some space between you and your parents, either before or after you tell them?
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aw mate, your in a really tough situation <3 i totally get you with not wanting to go swimming/walk around in girly things like dresses and bikinis. Im straight (i think?) but i still dont want to really wear that kind of thing. i suggest maybe go for the surfing suit/top thingy. i really feel for you hun, its a sticky situation to be in. message me anytime for a rant or a chat, my mailbox is always open <3
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Thank you all for the advice and help!! I will look into all the suggestions. I do have a pretty good excuse for wearing some sort of swim shirt. I burn very easily sunscreen or not, I could use that in my favor. (: I now have a more positive outlook and it's not as worrysome.
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