Aussie Stables
12:02:18 Aussie - Golden
no problem Sweet - i like matching.
Sweetwater Creek
12:02:00 Sweet/Trash Panda
I do live in a rural area and faced bullying in school now I get the occasional stare but it's not bad I just keep to myself
Sweetwater Creek
12:01:06 Sweet/Trash Panda
Thank you so much Aussie!
The Joker
12:00:17 Ari <3
People are pretty accepting up here, you do get the occasional bad egg though unfortunately
Aussie Stables
11:59:35 Aussie - Golden
Sweet - that WB mare is matched.
Lucky Ranch
11:59:28 luhckeigh
there's a couple old guys i know who keep telling me to move to Texas or Florida or stuff like that, my dad does too like y'all im not white passing enough for that! also I like having rights! also im pan! like guys this is a triple flop i think ill stay somewhere I can actually live my life 🎀
Sweetwater Creek
11:58:20 Sweet/Trash Panda
Grimm yep I felt the same way I am pan and trans the staring was no good
The Old Gods
11:58:08 Void Malign
Complete 180 from Oklahoma
The Old Gods
11:57:44 Void Malign
It was very weird being in Richmond. The three of us were just wandering down the sidewalk, holding hands.
Aussie Stables
11:57:37 Aussie - Golden
Sweet i'm sorry <3
Wicca Wilds
11:56:26 Grimm(us)
Sweet
Im pan and genderfluid, there were people that you would see that just made you feel like you were gonna get hate crimed lmao
The Joker
11:56:13 Ari <3
That sounds like an awful experience :(
Sweetwater Creek
11:55:28 Sweet/Trash Panda
I felt super out of place as you can tell I'm gay just by a glance safe to say I am not going back
Wicca Wilds
11:54:46 Grimm(us)
Lucky
We moved to basically the middle of nowhere last year and it's so freeing.

Pigeon Forge was hell.
Lucky Ranch
11:54:44 luhckeigh
sweet
eww im sorry that sucks people are so unhinged 😭
Dutch Manors
11:54:28 Ace/Dutch/July
im going to bed. good night!
The Joker
11:54:18 Ari <3
Oh wow that sounds fiercely unpleasant
Lucky Ranch
11:53:46 luhckeigh
i was considering Tennessee for awhile because its so pretty and so much more affordable but like
its also too insane for me lol
Wicca Wilds
11:53:23 Grimm(us)
Sweet
It's horrible :'3
Sweetwater Creek
11:52:53 Sweet/Trash Panda
I went to Tennessee and all over the ground there was these Christian pamphlets I picked some up for a read talking about burn the gays T-T I was very offended and wanted to go home lmao
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First Horse June 25, 2021 07:21 PM
Timber Canyon
 
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Posted about my first self-bought horse, a Quarter Horse named Zed, some time back.
Got him from a rescue = mistake #1.
He was diagnosed with arthritis very shortly after bringing him home. I had him on joint supplements, Equiox, got injections done, as well as a few other supplemental diet additions.
He was always a bit hot, but working QHs often are, and all my previous horses have been a bit hot, so that didnt phase me.
Well, turns out he was rideable because he was in pain. As soon as I got his arthritis under control, his true colors come bursting out like a bat from hell.
Horse was absolutely batshit - behavior ranged from spooking sideways, to running me into things, to even trying to drop mid-ride to roll on me. Then taking off as soon as I bailed.
Im upset - feel as though the rescue was not honest about him (shocker) and the horse is really gonna end up hurting someone. He was advertised as a "tried and true trail horse" and he constantly tried to seriously injure me.
It's hard to miss him because of how much danger he put me in, but it sucks this was my first horse-buying experience.
The search continues. And it won't be from a rescue next time.
First Horse June 25, 2021 07:23 PM

FirstLightFarms
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Ugh I'm so sorry it worked out that way. As wonderful as rescues can be, I've seen some seriously shady shit from some of them and it's hard to know which ones to trust. Hoping your next experience is a better one!
First Horse June 25, 2021 07:39 PM

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Oof! That's rough! Horse shopping is brutal. I had always looked forward to buying my own horse, but no one prepared me for how hard it would be to find the right one.

For what it is worth, I can share some tips I have learned from my horse shopping experience.

First of all, ride lots and lots of horses before deciding on which one you want. This horse is going to be your partner and friend. Firmly knowing what you want and don't want will ensure you get the right horse in the end.

Secondly, don't trust the buyer too much. This sounds really pessimistic, but unfortunately, a lot of people like to make their horse sound more appealable than it really is so it will sell. I would compare a lot of people selling their horse to used car salesmen. I drove 6 hours to Boise for this 'amazing OTTB that teaches kids how to ride' that turned how to be super unresponsive and stubborn. If the horse can't do what the owner says it can when you ride it first time around, chances are it can't at all.

Finally, if you think you found a horse you like bring someone with you to look at it too. Preferably this someone should be your trainer or someone knowledgeable about horses. I almost bought a horse without my trainer seeing it and when I showed her the video she said, "Don't buy that horse! He's bobbing his head becuase he's lame!" Having a second opinion is always great idea.

I'm sorry your first horse-buying experience was so awful. If you are patient the right horse for you will come along and it will be so worth everything you went through.

First Horse June 25, 2021 08:16 PM

Stormsong Manor
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I'm sorry Zed didn't work out. I'm sure you had really good intentions taking him from a rescue, but some horses just have too many issues that only come to light after you've put so much work and love into them. :(

Here's hoping the next one is a better fit for you <3
First Horse June 25, 2021 11:33 PM

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Man, I'm sorry your first horse buying experience ended up like that! That really sucks.

Silver Isle Eventing said:
Secondly, don't trust the buyer too much. This sounds really pessimistic, but unfortunately, a lot of people like to make their horse sound more appealable than it really is so it will sell. I would compare a lot of people selling their horse to used car salesmen. I drove 6 hours to Boise for this 'amazing OTTB that teaches kids how to ride' that turned how to be super unresponsive and stubborn. If the horse can't do what the owner says it can when you ride it first time around, chances are it can't at all.

Definitely all of this. This sounds bad, but go ahead and assume the owner/trainer/whoever is lying or ommitting stuff and check for yourself. I went to look at a draft mare two weeks ago to add to our herd, and I was pretty much sold on her (knew she wasn't super trained, needed a bit of weight, etc). I didn't commit without doing my own inspection and I'm glad because she turned out to be blind in one eye (a dealbreaker for me).
Another thing that I like to do if I'm going to try a riding horse for myself or someone else is request the horse (if possible) not be worked, caught, or otherwise handled on the day I'm going to look at it. That way I can see the horse'e behaviour when I get there, from how well he catches to how he stands to be saddled.
Best of luck to you in your hunt! I hope the next horse you find works out better <3
First Horse July 3, 2021 12:23 PM

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Always, always get a full vet check. Not the sellers vet, your own vet. Expensive but it can save a lot of heartache.
First Horse July 13, 2021 04:48 PM
Timber Canyon
 
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I did actually have a vet come out and do a PPE - the arthritis was missed and chalked up to a prior injury that was healing. Definitely won't use them again.

North Street said:
Always, always get a full vet check. Not the sellers vet, your own vet. Expensive but it can save a lot of heartache.



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