Willow Gate Farm |
DD Thanks, lol |
Wispwillow Villa |
I was being heavily pressured to do a lot of traditional things that don't align whatsoever with our personalities and lives. The whole church in the bride's hometown and a big guest list for all my mother's friends and associates. There was 0% chance of it happening and she couldn't deal |
Looking Glass Stable |
I've decided that if I ever were to marry, I'd like my mother to walk me down the aisle, for many reasons. Unfortunately though I know it'd cause major drama in the family, since my father's assumed his whole life that would be his role. 😅 |
Rising Stars Stable |
DD Oh! XD Not yet, lol I was talking about the future, but thanks anyways, lol |
Dash and Duchess |
Willow, Ooo congrats on the engagement!! I would say just make sure to stand your ground with her, and not let her walk over you with her demands <3 |
Rising Stars Stable |
DD I'm worried about my mother doing that. I'm fine with getting ideas from her, but in the end planning should be for me and my soon to be husband |
Dash and Duchess |
Ven, ugh! that sounds awful, i hate when people try to make everything go their way, despite it not being about them |
Wispwillow Villa |
We eloped well before the planned ceremony because my mother was so insufferable about the whole wedding thing. Trying to make demands and police the guest list etc. |
Dash and Duchess |
Ven, oh yeah i 100% get not telling your parents with being no-contact |
Wispwillow Villa |
Technically I did have a small "wedding" but no one knew we'd already been married. |
Dash and Duchess |
Ven, agreed, if there was an iffy relationship dynamic i get that, but it does seem odd for a usually good relationship |
Wispwillow Villa |
And I say that because I got married without telling my own parents, and I had serious issues with both, being noncontact with my father and on the fence with my mother. |
Wispwillow Villa |
I'll admit that if my son got married and didn't tell me, and we had an otherwise good relationship, I would wonder why I wasn't trusted with that information |
Rising Stars Stable |
15+ Map on capture day All my other 15+ ones were SSS |
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Wispwillow Villa |
I was being heavily pressured to do a lot of traditional things that don't align whatsoever with our personalities and lives. The whole church in the bride's hometown and a big guest list for all my mother's friends and associates. There was 0% chance of it happening and she couldn't deal |
Looking Glass Stable |
I've decided that if I ever were to marry, I'd like my mother to walk me down the aisle, for many reasons. Unfortunately though I know it'd cause major drama in the family, since my father's assumed his whole life that would be his role. 😅 |
Rising Stars Stable |
DD Oh! XD Not yet, lol I was talking about the future, but thanks anyways, lol |
Dash and Duchess |
Willow, Ooo congrats on the engagement!! I would say just make sure to stand your ground with her, and not let her walk over you with her demands <3 |
Rising Stars Stable |
DD I'm worried about my mother doing that. I'm fine with getting ideas from her, but in the end planning should be for me and my soon to be husband |
Dash and Duchess |
Ven, ugh! that sounds awful, i hate when people try to make everything go their way, despite it not being about them |
Wispwillow Villa |
We eloped well before the planned ceremony because my mother was so insufferable about the whole wedding thing. Trying to make demands and police the guest list etc. |
Dash and Duchess |
Ven, oh yeah i 100% get not telling your parents with being no-contact |
Wispwillow Villa |
Technically I did have a small "wedding" but no one knew we'd already been married. |
Dash and Duchess |
Ven, agreed, if there was an iffy relationship dynamic i get that, but it does seem odd for a usually good relationship |
Wispwillow Villa |
And I say that because I got married without telling my own parents, and I had serious issues with both, being noncontact with my father and on the fence with my mother. |
Wispwillow Villa |
I'll admit that if my son got married and didn't tell me, and we had an otherwise good relationship, I would wonder why I wasn't trusted with that information |
Rising Stars Stable |
15+ Map on capture day All my other 15+ ones were SSS |
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