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starmutt
01:46:38 marsh 🌈
Wip yay :3 -Click-
Boulder Creek
01:43:34 
Going through my old (very slow and geriatric) computer - found a note outlining this idea:
-HEE Click-
Would love to have this!
SCF Sporting Chance
01:22:22 SCF/Gibbs
Dynasty... The Knot is a good planning source... it has all kinds of info and you can use it as your registry as well.
New Dynasty Stud
01:22:14 
There are HEWGQ shows once a week but your horses need to be in a futurity and level 8-9
New Dynasty Stud
01:20:32 
Dusty
I have trust issues with wedding planners after watching my mom’s experience lol. I’ll probably end up taking ideas from a lot of people and narrowing them down
Calela Eventing
01:19:59 Cali
Can someone explain the HEWG qualifiers? Do you get points for it by normal shows or are there special ones
New Dynasty Stud
01:19:33 
Roan
Love my in-laws don’t like how particular they are… overall they’re amazing and pretty accepting of me though thankfully! It’ll probably be smaller (50-75 people simply because both him and I have large families) so I also have to take into account any allergies since I wanted the wedding to be at my families ranch but many of them are majorly allergic to horses so that idea had to go out the window lol
Lucky Ranch
01:18:44 luhckeigh
my fiances family has driven several of them to mental health crisises already
Savannah Stables
01:18:06 Dusty
I think there are like professional wedding planners who could help
New Dynasty Stud
01:16:26 
Diva
His family is pretty well off along with him so that’s part of the stress because I need to make sure it’ll be something they’d approve of and something I also like
Foal Me Once Farms
01:15:44 Roan🦋⃤
Absolutely!! Don’t forget that you absolutely never have to do anything huge, unless that is something you like!!
I invited only close friends and family, since most of my in-laws are a bit uh.. yeah haha
Mooncreek Magic
01:14:34 Diva's fruits
I ve been married twice now, didn't do too much planning or such, found it quite easy actually. I guess it depends from circumstances and where you live as well
New Dynasty Stud
01:14:06 
Roan
We’re doing it about two and a half years from now (Going for an October wedding) so I’ll be finished with nursing school and my parents will be more accepting since they don’t want me getting married at 18 so I’m trying to take advantage of the time I have! Thank you so so much for the advice since I have no idea what I’m doing
Foal Me Once Farms
01:10:01 Roan🦋⃤
NDS
We planned ours over a lengthy bit of time we never had a set date for the marriage to happen on. I will say though, having some close gal friends and or guy friends that are willing to help, is so very helpful!
New Dynasty Stud
12:57:08 
If there’s any married folk on here how did you plan your wedding? I’m a little clueless and stressed over here lol
MK Sport Horse Yard
12:49:32 
if we want another account do we use the same email?
Blue Diamond
12:45:54 Bluey
Goodnight, everyone! Be back tomorrow! <3
Blue Diamond
12:45:41 Bluey
Ru
Especially with orders
Sagruesal
12:45:07 Ru
Artists are making a piece every several days, that's a tough schedule
Sagruesal
12:44:27 Ru
Good thing I didn't sign up for the rumble, I wouldn't be able to keep up

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starmutt
01:46:38 marsh 🌈
Wip yay :3 -Click-
Boulder Creek
01:43:34 
Going through my old (very slow and geriatric) computer - found a note outlining this idea:
-HEE Click-
Would love to have this!
SCF Sporting Chance
01:22:22 SCF/Gibbs
Dynasty... The Knot is a good planning source... it has all kinds of info and you can use it as your registry as well.
New Dynasty Stud
01:22:14 
There are HEWGQ shows once a week but your horses need to be in a futurity and level 8-9
New Dynasty Stud
01:20:32 
Dusty
I have trust issues with wedding planners after watching my mom’s experience lol. I’ll probably end up taking ideas from a lot of people and narrowing them down
Calela Eventing
01:19:59 Cali
Can someone explain the HEWG qualifiers? Do you get points for it by normal shows or are there special ones
New Dynasty Stud
01:19:33 
Roan
Love my in-laws don’t like how particular they are… overall they’re amazing and pretty accepting of me though thankfully! It’ll probably be smaller (50-75 people simply because both him and I have large families) so I also have to take into account any allergies since I wanted the wedding to be at my families ranch but many of them are majorly allergic to horses so that idea had to go out the window lol
Lucky Ranch
01:18:44 luhckeigh
my fiances family has driven several of them to mental health crisises already
Savannah Stables
01:18:06 Dusty
I think there are like professional wedding planners who could help
New Dynasty Stud
01:16:26 
Diva
His family is pretty well off along with him so that’s part of the stress because I need to make sure it’ll be something they’d approve of and something I also like
Foal Me Once Farms
01:15:44 Roan🦋⃤
Absolutely!! Don’t forget that you absolutely never have to do anything huge, unless that is something you like!!
I invited only close friends and family, since most of my in-laws are a bit uh.. yeah haha
Mooncreek Magic
01:14:34 Diva's fruits
I ve been married twice now, didn't do too much planning or such, found it quite easy actually. I guess it depends from circumstances and where you live as well
New Dynasty Stud
01:14:06 
Roan
We’re doing it about two and a half years from now (Going for an October wedding) so I’ll be finished with nursing school and my parents will be more accepting since they don’t want me getting married at 18 so I’m trying to take advantage of the time I have! Thank you so so much for the advice since I have no idea what I’m doing
Foal Me Once Farms
01:10:01 Roan🦋⃤
NDS
We planned ours over a lengthy bit of time we never had a set date for the marriage to happen on. I will say though, having some close gal friends and or guy friends that are willing to help, is so very helpful!
New Dynasty Stud
12:57:08 
If there’s any married folk on here how did you plan your wedding? I’m a little clueless and stressed over here lol
MK Sport Horse Yard
12:49:32 
if we want another account do we use the same email?
Blue Diamond
12:45:54 Bluey
Goodnight, everyone! Be back tomorrow! <3
Blue Diamond
12:45:41 Bluey
Ru
Especially with orders
Sagruesal
12:45:07 Ru
Artists are making a piece every several days, that's a tough schedule
Sagruesal
12:44:27 Ru
Good thing I didn't sign up for the rumble, I wouldn't be able to keep up

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I hate 2023. January 22, 2023 06:12 AM


Rivendell Steeds
 
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Last year was awful. Heck, the last 6 have been. But 2023 has only just begun. It started off good. I got a new (to me) phone for Christmas, and so I was finally able to play some of the games that my old phone didn't support. My brother bought me a Miku otamatone. So life was going pretty well. I made it through my first day back in school, and then-- I got sick. Again. Only lasted 2 days thankfully. But I come back to school, and I immediately have 4 packets worth of classwork/homework to do from a SINGLE class (and I'm still catching up). Other than that that week was fine. Started learning how to play bass guitar. Last week was decent. Nothing eventfull, but lots of makeup work. Everything was going normally. But Friday, I come home from school, all happy because I'd just gotten out of band. I walk into the house, and then am told that my parents have something to discuss with me. Basically, they told me that my best friend,(lets call him J), has something wrong with his heart, and has been recommended to a cardiologist. We had this whole talk, and then they were like "you should text him about it". I keep trying to word out what to say, but it's just no use. J is my best friend, but I think I'd just break down if I tried to talk to him right now. But the thing is I see him at school on Monday (I think, not sure if he's going). Is he going to be upset that I've said nothing? Or will he understand? Will it be just too awkward and silent? I just have no clue. Either way it's just painful to think that he could die. I've already lost one best friend, I don't think I'd make it through losing another.
I hate 2023. January 22, 2023 06:34 AM


FirstLightFarms

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I was mistakenly diagnosed with something that could lead to sudden death a few years ago. I don't have it, but for a few months I lived with the knowledge that I could die randomly and suddenly in my sleep. It's hard. There's going to be tears and crying, and there's no shame in that. My friends helped me through it in a time where I didn't even want my family to know, so don't be afraid to reach out and tell him that you're there for him and that you care, but let him tell you what he needs as a friend. Does he even want the extra care, or does he want you to treat him with some normalcy? Does he have any memories he wants to make fhat you can be there for? Open the communication and let him be in charge of how you're going to navigate the next few months, because it is going to be hard. Don't be afraid to cry. It's going to happen, and avoiding him just to avoid tears isn't going to help either of you.
I'm sorry you're going through this. It is really, really difficult. 💔
I hate 2023. January 22, 2023 10:07 AM


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Please please talk to him, you will regret it if you don't. It's going to be tough and there will be tears but its was better than radio silence for both of ye.
Like what puck said let him navigate the next couple of months but I am encouraging you right now to talk to him..even just a "im here for you if you want to talk" text
I hate 2023. January 23, 2023 10:18 AM


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I appreciate the advice very much, I'm almost certain he's decided to take the approach of acting like usual, and honestly, I'm kinf of glad. He's still going to school like usual, so I'm getting to see him everyday regardless
I hate 2023. August 13, 2023 01:51 PM


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Update into 2023 sucking: I've been having health issues since March and the doctors can't figure out why. I had to go to the ER in June because the pain was so bad. Then two weeks ago while having a sports physical for band the doctors found a heart murmur. Now, today, my uncle, who's been fighting liver cancer for three years, is in hospis. He's dying today. So yeah, 2023 still sucks.
EDIT: Updating on the friend, they found that whatever is wrong with his heart isn't serious. He was able to continue as normal.

Edited at August 13, 2023 01:52 PM by Rivendell Steeds
I hate 2023. August 13, 2023 02:20 PM


FirstLightFarms

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Oh, no. I'm so, so sorry. That's absolutely awful. Sending hugs your way ♡
I hate 2023. August 14, 2023 01:11 AM


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FirstLightFarms said:
Oh, no. I'm so, so sorry. That's absolutely awful. Sending hugs your way ♡


Thank you. Hugs are much appreciated right now. On the bright side, I've found two things to look forward to this week that might make it become less sucky-- 1) I'm getting a gecko either tomorrow or Wednesday. 2) My family managed to get into the red carpet premier of the new Ahsoka series this coming Thursday.
I hate 2023. August 18, 2023 02:34 PM

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Oh I'm so sorry for you! I agree, 2023 has been pretty terrible for me too. Losing a friend, losing the best teacher I have had in my whole life. Life kinda sucks sometimes in general. Sorry again for your friend. I hope things work themselves out for you and "J".

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