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Mythological
10:10:59 Crowley
Ooph
Bioshock Manor
10:09:06 Storm
I say bed too. Ran off into a ditch to avoid a girl telling us the exit at the show we were at. Glad my truck is so tall, otherwise would have done serious damage with the foot tall drop off other than a sore neck and scratch on the frame
Mythological
10:07:32 Crowley
Dog says bed time....
Bioshock Manor
10:07:13 Storm
Mythy
Pragma
10:06:57 Prag/Liz
Lol
Mythological
10:04:42 Crowley
Stormy with a chance of meatballs.
Hummingbird Meadows
10:04:02 Bird
You both bring up good points. I'm just trying to put my best foot forward.
Cloud Peak Stables
10:02:47 Cloud
You are definitely not alone in disliking it.
Bioshock Manor
10:02:33 Storm
Honestly, be picky. Be what you want to find. Don't settle for someone just to not be alone
Kangaroo Studs
10:02:04 ZequineZ - ZZ
I’d love a sushi train date myself but everyone’s different, my boyfriend doesn’t like the idea of sushi either much as I want him to do with me and tell him he can get curry he’s just not into it lol no harm suggesting something else.

Also if this guy thinks poorly of you for supposed pickiness, thats on him not you
Hummingbird Meadows
10:01:59 Bird
It's very popular around here. I have gotten many gasps of horror when saying I don't like it.
Bioshock Manor
10:01:46 Storm
Won't catch me on a sushi date
Cloud Peak Stables
10:01:05 Cloud
Yes, it's not a universal favorite. Many people are opposed to it.
Hummingbird Meadows
10:00:32 Bird
Why is it bold? Because some people don't like it?
Cloud Peak Stables
09:59:45 Cloud
Yeah sushi is pretty bold choice for a first date lol
Narran Park
09:58:46 Sting
Nah, be honest with him.
Sushi isn't your thing. No Biggie :)

I wouldn't like to go to a Sushi place for a date either. Maybe a raincheck?
Gypsy Family Farm
09:56:54 
@Bird- not if there is sushi involved! Guy? What guy? Pass the fish.
Hummingbird Meadows
09:56:38 Bird
@Moldy, he said we could go to Mexican since that is my favorite.
Hummingbird Meadows
09:54:54 Bird
I just feel bad saying, I would love to go on a date, but I can't do sushi... I feel like it makes me sound picky.
ghost light stables
09:54:23 moldy bread / ghost
Bird,
Just say you got food poisoning from sushi once and have been disgusted by it ever since. But the date was a nice idea how about coffee lol

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Mythological
10:10:59 Crowley
Ooph
Bioshock Manor
10:09:06 Storm
I say bed too. Ran off into a ditch to avoid a girl telling us the exit at the show we were at. Glad my truck is so tall, otherwise would have done serious damage with the foot tall drop off other than a sore neck and scratch on the frame
Mythological
10:07:32 Crowley
Dog says bed time....
Bioshock Manor
10:07:13 Storm
Mythy
Pragma
10:06:57 Prag/Liz
Lol
Mythological
10:04:42 Crowley
Stormy with a chance of meatballs.
Hummingbird Meadows
10:04:02 Bird
You both bring up good points. I'm just trying to put my best foot forward.
Cloud Peak Stables
10:02:47 Cloud
You are definitely not alone in disliking it.
Bioshock Manor
10:02:33 Storm
Honestly, be picky. Be what you want to find. Don't settle for someone just to not be alone
Kangaroo Studs
10:02:04 ZequineZ - ZZ
I’d love a sushi train date myself but everyone’s different, my boyfriend doesn’t like the idea of sushi either much as I want him to do with me and tell him he can get curry he’s just not into it lol no harm suggesting something else.

Also if this guy thinks poorly of you for supposed pickiness, thats on him not you
Hummingbird Meadows
10:01:59 Bird
It's very popular around here. I have gotten many gasps of horror when saying I don't like it.
Bioshock Manor
10:01:46 Storm
Won't catch me on a sushi date
Cloud Peak Stables
10:01:05 Cloud
Yes, it's not a universal favorite. Many people are opposed to it.
Hummingbird Meadows
10:00:32 Bird
Why is it bold? Because some people don't like it?
Cloud Peak Stables
09:59:45 Cloud
Yeah sushi is pretty bold choice for a first date lol
Narran Park
09:58:46 Sting
Nah, be honest with him.
Sushi isn't your thing. No Biggie :)

I wouldn't like to go to a Sushi place for a date either. Maybe a raincheck?
Gypsy Family Farm
09:56:54 
@Bird- not if there is sushi involved! Guy? What guy? Pass the fish.
Hummingbird Meadows
09:56:38 Bird
@Moldy, he said we could go to Mexican since that is my favorite.
Hummingbird Meadows
09:54:54 Bird
I just feel bad saying, I would love to go on a date, but I can't do sushi... I feel like it makes me sound picky.
ghost light stables
09:54:23 moldy bread / ghost
Bird,
Just say you got food poisoning from sushi once and have been disgusted by it ever since. But the date was a nice idea how about coffee lol

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Stall Issues August 1, 2022 01:46 PM


Florestä
 
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So, I've recently taken my new mare, June, home. A few days after she was trailered home from where she was purchased, I went to visit her at the boarding facility and decided to take her for a hand walk in the indoor arena. I wasn't planning on doing this, but I decided to just because her stall was only ten feet away from the arena. Anyways, when I tried to bring her back into her stall, I faced some issues. I ended up having to ask the stablehand to help me get her in. I tried having someone go behind her, luring her with treats, turning her.. no success. The stablehand had to push on her hind and put pressure on her side to make her enter. And when she did enter, she ran in, almost trampling the other girl who was leading her. I have ideas as to why she was doing this, but resolving the issue is another deal. My ideas of why she did this include the following:
The aisle that the stall is in is a tight fit.
The stall was darker than outside.
The mare is only four years old.
I felt very uncomfortable in this situation because it was a tighter space and I was worried that she'd rear or go up, as she had done that earlier.
I luckily was able to move her to a more open barn on the property, and not the arena stalls. However, she still is hesitant going in, and I'd hate to be in this situation again. I'd rather not be trampled or see her go up.

Edited at August 1, 2022 01:47 PM by Floresta
Stall Issues August 1, 2022 02:06 PM


FirstLightFarms

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Work on getting her confident going through tight spaces. This will translate into loading onto a trailer better, being comfortable in the barn, etc.
What I do for horses like these is set up obstacles, such as tarps tied across jump standards, to give her the sense of walking through something narrow and dark.
When on the ground, work on the ability to "send" her off. While on a lead rope, if you point, she should walk forward. Sort of like lunging, but nothing faster than a walk, and it's off the lead rope. This helps her confidence, since she'll have to walk ahead of you and lead her own way. Once she's good at this, start sending her through the narrow spaces on her own. At first, keep them wide. She should be able to comfortably walk between the tarps without any claustrophobia. Once she's confident with this, you can start narrowing them.
In the meantime, work on changing both of your perspectives. Don't worry about the stall door. Worry about keeping her at your shoulder, about keeping her relaxed and focused on you. The rest will come with time and patience.
Hope this helps!
Stall Issues August 1, 2022 04:12 PM


Florestä
 
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It definitely does! luckily, we had no issues with her in the trailer. She walked right up with no hesitation.
thank you, Puck!

FirstLightFarms said:
Work on getting her confident going through tight spaces. This will translate into loading onto a trailer better, being comfortable in the barn, etc.
What I do for horses like these is set up obstacles, such as tarps tied across jump standards, to give her the sense of walking through something narrow and dark.
When on the ground, work on the ability to "send" her off. While on a lead rope, if you point, she should walk forward. Sort of like lunging, but nothing faster than a walk, and it's off the lead rope. This helps her confidence, since she'll have to walk ahead of you and lead her own way. Once she's good at this, start sending her through the narrow spaces on her own. At first, keep them wide. She should be able to comfortably walk between the tarps without any claustrophobia. Once she's confident with this, you can start narrowing them.
In the meantime, work on changing both of your perspectives. Don't worry about the stall door. Worry about keeping her at your shoulder, about keeping her relaxed and focused on you. The rest will come with time and patience.
Hope this helps!


Stall Issues August 1, 2022 08:41 PM


Foggy Forest Stables
 
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Dont know her back story, which that always helps.. but I did have a horse with this same issue. Making it difficult when they refuse, and letting off pressure when they take even a small step towards what you want? Completely did miracles for me, even in more situations than this. :)
Stall Issues August 2, 2022 09:49 AM


Thistleberry Farm
 
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i absolutely hate it when horses do this because they are so unpredictable and you never know if they are gonna trample you on their way into the stable...
At my yard there is a small step that the horses have to go up to get into their stables, and when i bought my gelding he didnt want to go into his stable because 1, the stable is darker and 2, the step.
An excersise i did that helped a ton was to se up two wide, ideally dark coloured jump wings with a narrow space in the middle of them in an arena. then you just make your horse walk through them, i used a small dressage whip as encouragement, just tapping it on the ground. It helps them to learn that going through doors and dark narrow spaces isnt always too bad. Also found that holding a carrot on the other side of the two wings helped as encouragement.
Good luck with the new mare!
Stall Issues August 2, 2022 01:08 PM


Florestä
 
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Thank you both! <3

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