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Hummingbird Meadows
10:58:40 Bird
@Ari, I appreciate the advice. I have been working with a therapist, but she reduced her hours and I had to switch to one that worked with my schedule. I hope it works out because my mental health hasn't been good lately.
Glacier Bay Cove
10:58:34 Arctic Katz
Geek, I wouldn't. Your new dog might be missing a leg, but she deserves a loving home
The Joker
10:56:49 Ari <3
Bird

It's not that the choices you've made aren't good choices, they are just your own and not other people's. And a victim mentality will make your brain box yourself in far more than anyone else's decisions will for you :) don't get caught up in that, it won't do you any good
Dash and Duchess
10:55:16 DD | ~Squizard~
Bin, Ooo could be >.> that'd be a dream 🤩
Dash and Duchess
10:54:47 DD | ~Squizard~
Ari, you got this! XD just think about how good sleep is going to be after the grain!
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Ah well, I've got to poof! See yall!
Transformers Acres
10:54:05 Geek, Eek
My mom got me a three-legged dog for emotional support and therapy. She's cute and all, but I have no idea if I'll reject her or not. I still want my puppy back. :(
Pearlescent Shores
10:54:02 Bin/Bingus
With 3/3 grey foals and no gene test, that mare might actually be GG o.o

Or just likes to pass on shine unlike my grey girl :')
Hummingbird Meadows
10:53:55 Bird
@Ari, it just feels like I have tried to make good choices, but almost all the struggles in my life are from the poor decisions of others.
The Joker
10:53:21 Ari <3
DD

Same! Just got in from training, I'm starting horse feed then I'm gonna make tea and try not to fall asleep before I run out grain 😂
The Joker
10:52:43 Ari <3
McFossil
Tell me about it x.x when did the world become so expensive
Dash and Duchess
10:52:37 DD | ~Squizard~
Ari, doing good! About to go crash after a long day XD how're you?
Dash and Duchess
10:52:07 DD | ~Squizard~
Bin, it is *^* the Gg Ch eprl To possibility... 🤩
BluebonnetCreekRanch
10:51:45 BluebonnetBree
Bird - I'm 27 and was married and now divorced it's not all it's cracked up to me trust me lol
The Joker
10:51:23 Ari <3
I'm 22 and I broke up with someone to focus on horses more competitively, whereas my sister was with her fiancé at my age. It's comparing apples to oranges when you compare your life with other people's, especially because you all make different choices which take you to different points in life
MC Ace
10:50:52 McFossil
Ari tells no lives. Living isn't cheap. Being married really isn't cheap XD
The Joker
10:49:45 Ari <3
Hi DD! How are you?

Bird
Here people usually get married and have kids later than that, nobody can afford to start a family early unless they come from a rich family 😂
MC Ace
10:49:38 McFossil
Thanks DD!
I kept his dam for the shine XD
Pearlescent Shores
10:48:59 Bin/Bingus
DD you gotta, that's too shiny to pass up *-*
MC Ace
10:48:55 McFossil
Thanks Bingus~
I nearly gelded him. I own his bottom dam line and nearly FR'd the EWE mare, but thought eh why not? Maybe she'll pay me back XD
Hummingbird Meadows
10:48:51 Bird
@Ari, comparison has been a big struggle with me lately. I'm 25 and most people where I live have kids by that point. Good old Utah.

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Hummingbird Meadows
10:58:40 Bird
@Ari, I appreciate the advice. I have been working with a therapist, but she reduced her hours and I had to switch to one that worked with my schedule. I hope it works out because my mental health hasn't been good lately.
Glacier Bay Cove
10:58:34 Arctic Katz
Geek, I wouldn't. Your new dog might be missing a leg, but she deserves a loving home
The Joker
10:56:49 Ari <3
Bird

It's not that the choices you've made aren't good choices, they are just your own and not other people's. And a victim mentality will make your brain box yourself in far more than anyone else's decisions will for you :) don't get caught up in that, it won't do you any good
Dash and Duchess
10:55:16 DD | ~Squizard~
Bin, Ooo could be >.> that'd be a dream 🤩
Dash and Duchess
10:54:47 DD | ~Squizard~
Ari, you got this! XD just think about how good sleep is going to be after the grain!
-
Ah well, I've got to poof! See yall!
Transformers Acres
10:54:05 Geek, Eek
My mom got me a three-legged dog for emotional support and therapy. She's cute and all, but I have no idea if I'll reject her or not. I still want my puppy back. :(
Pearlescent Shores
10:54:02 Bin/Bingus
With 3/3 grey foals and no gene test, that mare might actually be GG o.o

Or just likes to pass on shine unlike my grey girl :')
Hummingbird Meadows
10:53:55 Bird
@Ari, it just feels like I have tried to make good choices, but almost all the struggles in my life are from the poor decisions of others.
The Joker
10:53:21 Ari <3
DD

Same! Just got in from training, I'm starting horse feed then I'm gonna make tea and try not to fall asleep before I run out grain 😂
The Joker
10:52:43 Ari <3
McFossil
Tell me about it x.x when did the world become so expensive
Dash and Duchess
10:52:37 DD | ~Squizard~
Ari, doing good! About to go crash after a long day XD how're you?
Dash and Duchess
10:52:07 DD | ~Squizard~
Bin, it is *^* the Gg Ch eprl To possibility... 🤩
BluebonnetCreekRanch
10:51:45 BluebonnetBree
Bird - I'm 27 and was married and now divorced it's not all it's cracked up to me trust me lol
The Joker
10:51:23 Ari <3
I'm 22 and I broke up with someone to focus on horses more competitively, whereas my sister was with her fiancé at my age. It's comparing apples to oranges when you compare your life with other people's, especially because you all make different choices which take you to different points in life
MC Ace
10:50:52 McFossil
Ari tells no lives. Living isn't cheap. Being married really isn't cheap XD
The Joker
10:49:45 Ari <3
Hi DD! How are you?

Bird
Here people usually get married and have kids later than that, nobody can afford to start a family early unless they come from a rich family 😂
MC Ace
10:49:38 McFossil
Thanks DD!
I kept his dam for the shine XD
Pearlescent Shores
10:48:59 Bin/Bingus
DD you gotta, that's too shiny to pass up *-*
MC Ace
10:48:55 McFossil
Thanks Bingus~
I nearly gelded him. I own his bottom dam line and nearly FR'd the EWE mare, but thought eh why not? Maybe she'll pay me back XD
Hummingbird Meadows
10:48:51 Bird
@Ari, comparison has been a big struggle with me lately. I'm 25 and most people where I live have kids by that point. Good old Utah.

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Leasing? March 29, 2021 10:26 AM

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HMH Reality Check said:
Well, you become responsible for this other person's horse, so condition and injuries are blamed on you. Leasing from a friend isn't always the best idea. I leased this pretty Palomino AQHA gelding from this lady who collected Western Pleasure AQHA and just let them sit. We got him jumping and dressage and he was going well, until the lady decides that she didn't want him jumping or being ridden at all, got super pissed at us and took him away. People care about there horses and have many reasons for leasing, wether it be no time or new horse, if something happens to the lease horse, (skinny, injury, vice) the owner isn't going to be happy, and it's going to be your fault. Horses always come with strings and instructions and it's just a pain.
She sounds like the worst kind of person. She's part of why it costs so much to buy a horse to learn with and try competing at a low level. This is part of why I wouldn't want to lease. Get a nice horse, start training them, really click with the horse and bond with them, and then boom, the owner decides it's off and now you're out the time and money you put into a horse you never really got to use. There's plenty of good horses that go through sales every day, so if I want something new and can't find anything I like for sale, I hit up a nearby salebarn. At worst, I end up with a good project horse.
Leasing? March 30, 2021 06:09 AM


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A lot of good points about the problems you could potentially run into while leasing. Communication is absolutely key between you and the owner to help avoid these situations (ideally a legal contract is drawn up to outline rights, responsibilities, and terms for breaking the lease on both sides).
However, I cannot stress enough how permanent buying a horse can be! I've known too many people who jumped into horse ownership and gotten stuck with an animal that was unsuitable, or quickly ran into financial trouble because they didn't fully understand all the costs that come with horse ownership. There are pros and cons to buying and leasing, and you need to evaluate your individual situation to determine which is best for you right now.
Leasing? April 2, 2021 06:27 PM


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EmeraldHillsFarm said:
A lot of good points about the problems you could potentially run into while leasing. Communication is absolutely key between you and the owner to help avoid these situations (ideally a legal contract is drawn up to outline rights, responsibilities, and terms for breaking the lease on both sides).
However, I cannot stress enough how permanent buying a horse can be! I've known too many people who jumped into horse ownership and gotten stuck with an animal that was unsuitable, or quickly ran into financial trouble because they didn't fully understand all the costs that come with horse ownership. There are pros and cons to buying and leasing, and you need to evaluate your individual situation to determine which is best for you right now.


Wise words. I completely agree with what you said, especially getting a contract in place if you're going to lease (or buy!! Make sure you get a bill of sale!)

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