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Mythological
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Mythological
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How have I been up for 12 hours? I didn't get out of bed till 7:30...
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Myth!
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Squizard!
Peachy
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hey DD! how you today? :D
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Dash and Duchess
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Peach!
Peachy
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puck! you still here?
Arizonia Arabians
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I had high hopes for him
Arabs of the Anglos
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-HEE Click- Just got this cute brindle colt!
Pragma
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Lol I don't understand how my barns get out of hand so quickly.
Sweet Valley
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Oh lol puck.
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Puck
Ahh. Time for some cleaning. I see
FirstLightFarms
04:50:30 puck
My account is such a mess. I've been neglecting it for months. I had one level five rider assigned to a level 9 mare and another level 5 assigned to five other random horses. I've no idea what was happening 😂😭
Pon Brats
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That wk 4 is
Insignia Elites
04:50:08 Em
Im excited for this filly :) -HEE Click-
Sweet Valley
04:49:54 Anna/Jewel
Pon, you had me scared with your Eeew lol
Vancouver
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Puck
You sure-sure? Lol
Pon Brats
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Eeew.
-HEE Click-
Vancouver
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AL
Thanks ^^

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Mythological
05:04:25 Crowley
Hello Tobi!
Mythological
05:04:14 Crowley
How have I been up for 12 hours? I didn't get out of bed till 7:30...
Tobiano Lady
05:03:44 Tobi 👻
Myth!
Mythological
05:03:17 Crowley
Squizard!
Peachy
05:03:09 peach | abbi
hey DD! how you today? :D
Mythological
05:03:07 Crowley
Hello Prag
Dash and Duchess
05:02:54 DD | ~Squizard~
Peach!
Peachy
05:02:19 peach | abbi
puck! you still here?
Arizonia Arabians
05:00:09 
-HEE Click-
I had high hopes for him
Arabs of the Anglos
04:55:15 
-HEE Click- Just got this cute brindle colt!
Pragma
04:54:39 Prag/Liz
Lol I don't understand how my barns get out of hand so quickly.
Sweet Valley
04:51:39 Anna/Jewel
Oh lol puck.
Vancouver
04:51:25 Ana / Van
Puck
Ahh. Time for some cleaning. I see
FirstLightFarms
04:50:30 puck
My account is such a mess. I've been neglecting it for months. I had one level five rider assigned to a level 9 mare and another level 5 assigned to five other random horses. I've no idea what was happening 😂😭
Pon Brats
04:50:22 
That wk 4 is
Insignia Elites
04:50:08 Em
Im excited for this filly :) -HEE Click-
Sweet Valley
04:49:54 Anna/Jewel
Pon, you had me scared with your Eeew lol
Vancouver
04:49:42 Ana / Van
Puck
You sure-sure? Lol
Pon Brats
04:49:17 
Eeew.
-HEE Click-
Vancouver
04:48:55 Ana / Van
AL
Thanks ^^

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Sucky Work January 9, 2024 08:19 PM

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I currently work as a CNA providing care for clients in their home. Overall, I enjoy my job and it pays well, but the company I work for who sets up your schedule and what not really sucks.

To get to the point, about a month ago I told them that starting in January I could only work 15 hours a week because I am in school and my classes this semester are homework intensive.

A couple days ago, they called me and told me they need me to work 20 hours a week and I felt forced to say yes. I was hoping to make it work, but I learned that I really need those extra 5 hours for studying. You may be wondering why I said yes in the first place and the answer is because everytime I have said no to requests like this, they tell me I still have to do it. So basically they ask you out of courtesy, but if you give an answer they don't like they force you to do it.

Next week I am planning on telling them I am sorry, but I can't keep my commitment to work 20 hours a week because I don't have enough time to do my schoolwork. I know they will guilt trip me and tell me I still have to do it, so I guess my question is how do I respond?

Do I tell them I felt like I had no choice but to say yes in the first place? Do I threaten to quit? Honestly, if they can't respect my request to only work 15 hours a week I will quit because I am in school to get a better paying job which takes priority. However, I would much rather keep this job if possible because it pays well for a CNA.

Edited at January 9, 2024 08:29 PM by Shadow Ridge Ranch
Sucky Work January 9, 2024 08:54 PM


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If you already told them you can only work 15 hours a week, stick with that. Don't beat around the bush or sugarcoat it with too many "I'm sorry, but...". Sometimes you need to be a little assertive, otherwise, they'll keep asking you to work longer.
Sucky Work January 11, 2024 12:20 PM

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I have spent the last 4 days trying to cope with going into work and doing schoolwork and I have already decided there isn't enough time for me to do both so I put in my two weeks notice.

My classes this semester are pretty intense and require a lot of effort so even only working 15 hours a week doesn't give me enough time.


Edited at January 11, 2024 12:21 PM by Shadow Ridge Ranch
Sucky Work January 11, 2024 12:35 PM


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I think you made the right choice<3
Sucky Work January 11, 2024 07:58 PM


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I walked off a job when the scheduler where I worked tried to force me into working more than I could. She nearly killed me two or three times all ready with over work. So you made the right call in putting in your two weeks notice.
Sucky Work January 18, 2024 06:45 AM


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As someone who's in university and also working about 20 hours a week, I understand the feeling and I think you made the right decision. It is quite a lot of effort to maintain a part time job while also keeping up with full time studies especially if your courses are homework intensive and require lots of time spent outside of the classroom. If the company can't respect your scheduling requests then it's probably better to just focus on school, or if you really want, try and find somewhere that's more accommodating of your scheduling needs.
I work as a supervisor at a grocery store and while my boss was definitely not happy about me telling her I can only do three days a week, she ultimately did respect that.
Sucky Work January 25, 2024 12:28 PM

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It is my second to last day and they asked me to work an extra shift today. I told them no and they responded by telling me I don't have a choice and that they are adding it to my schedule. I would walk out, but then I would be abandoning my client which I can't do.

I am not holding back at the exit interview tomorrow. I'm going to tell them just how shitty it has been working for them.

Edited at January 25, 2024 12:31 PM by Shadow Ridge Ranch
Sucky Work January 25, 2024 02:08 PM


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I am so sorry it is so hard. Why do bosses not listen? Don't they want to keep your experience?
You have to be tough to ensure your future. You have made the correct decision.

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