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Heya so i was set another riding lesson on saturday 25th july but i didnt want to go back *ive been riding since 2016* and i dont know why i didnt want to go back , was i scared? did i lose my confidence? if i lost my confidence what over ? nothing bad happened and last weekend i didnt go either , i honestly dont know whats wrong because i love that sport and i dont want to go bac for some unknown reason , im also set to have a lesson on saturday this week and i dont know why im contemplating to go or not so any help / advice would help , please , please , please help me get back into doing what i love most >~< |
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possibly try a new barn? maybe you're not clicking with the one you're at |
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You should definitely go. It's the best way to get your confidence back! I do the same thing with art/riding/biking, etc. The best way to go back to anything, is to just keep doing it! You can only gain more confidence by practicing/getting back into practice! Good luck! ^^ |
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FirstLightFarms said:
possibly try a new barn? maybe you're not clicking with the one you're at
ive been going to that barn since i started and ive met the horse of a lifetime thats suits my personality and riding ability really well , it was all really good until july 25th when i didnt wanna go back which im trying to figure out why , but thank you ill look into it ^^ |
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Maybe your trainor? Ive gone through 4 before I found one that I felt like I was improving with... |
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CC Mustangs said:
You should definitely go. It's the best way to get your confidence back! I do the same thing with art/riding/biking, etc. The best way to go back to anything, is to just keep doing it! You can only gain more confidence by practicing/getting back into practice! Good luck! ^^
thank you! im still unsure about going but ill try and focus more on other stuff if i do go:D |
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Wintergreen Gardens said:
Maybe your trainor? Ive gone through 4 before I found one that I felt like I was improving with...
been with her since 2016 and she's the only trainer im allowed to work with at the barn i ride at cause i dont get along with the others xD |
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Perhaps talking with a shrink would help you solve the problem. No one on HEE knows you well enough, or was privi to the events leading up to your refusal to go, to offer any suggestions really. |
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Perhaps your interests are starting to change? You can love and adore horses to the worlds end and not want to ride. Having been riding since 2016 might mean your ready to do something else or it was a 4 year phase? I used to love riding and one day, I just started preferring groundwork and grooming, even just sitting and watching my boy graze. |
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You could just be in a slump? I go through those sometimes as well where I feel less motivated. I just push through and keep going, I always bounce back and get the motivation again too. I'd go back and just see what happens and see how you feel. If you're lacking in the confidence department tell your trainer, I'm sure they can help bring that confidence and desire to ride back lol |
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