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South Rock Valley
05:30:59 
hi! I'm a returning player with no memory if this game... if you have any tips for starting out or breeding my mail is open!!
Calela Eventing
05:19:07 Cali
I have an addiction for capturing Knaps, my poor capture passes are going down the drain
Golden Crest
04:30:26 | Eve
Adding on that obviously, the horse needs to be grey, that isn't what I mean <3
Golden Crest
04:29:52 | Eve
Do you need certain genes to get dapple grey or are some greys just shitheads with re rolls? Lol
Boulder Creek
01:24:05 
All I was doing was trying to sort out what letters went with what age group....and then I fell...
into the crazy mind warp tunnel of trying to understand

Quitting Time
Boulder Creek
01:22:24 
I think I twisted myself into a knot then

haha,

thanks for the reminder/head bonk
x.x
KPH Equestrian
01:17:38 Rapcoon | Jester
boulder
the bred horses started as 1, the Oct wild started at 2, and the Nov wild started at 3 ^^; wilds are funky like that lol
Namerik Stables
01:14:17 Rose
-HEE Click- well damn wasn't expecting that colour
Boulder Creek
01:11:20 
Huh
I feel like the guy from Always Sunny with the board

I have two late Septembers (bred), 2 mid October - different days (wild), mid November (wild)
all stating they are 11 years old with different birth years.

I have a handful of late October (bred) who state they are 10 with the birth year 183

...this is messing with my brain and spreadsheets
Santana Rising
12:55:15 San
Happens either with wilds, or if you breed them shortly before RO on the first day of the month
Boulder Creek
12:53:33 
I have two horses who are the same age - but born in two different months
KPH Equestrian
12:46:41 Rapcoon | Jester
good! xD
Fantasy Horses
12:32:28 Fantasy | Fanta
KPH
you inspired me to search for dumbledore memes lol
Golden Heart
12:32:24 Gold
San

oop xD
Golden Heart
12:30:47 Gold
oop works now lol, idk what that was

Santana Rising
12:28:57 San
-HEE Click- of course now that I used all 15 bravery trainings for today she has to reveal she's WC
Golden Heart
12:28:09 Gold
Lily

yup
Fantasy Horses
12:22:01 Fantasy | Fanta
Blue
Love it! Right now i have writer's block so I'm not adding any weird posts >.<
Alpine Acres
12:18:17 Lily
Gold
Are all your riders paid and assigned to the horses you want to enter?
Golden Heart
12:17:10 Gold
Hey yall, every time i enter a show it says oops T-T

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South Rock Valley
05:30:59 
hi! I'm a returning player with no memory if this game... if you have any tips for starting out or breeding my mail is open!!
Calela Eventing
05:19:07 Cali
I have an addiction for capturing Knaps, my poor capture passes are going down the drain
Golden Crest
04:30:26 | Eve
Adding on that obviously, the horse needs to be grey, that isn't what I mean <3
Golden Crest
04:29:52 | Eve
Do you need certain genes to get dapple grey or are some greys just shitheads with re rolls? Lol
Boulder Creek
01:24:05 
All I was doing was trying to sort out what letters went with what age group....and then I fell...
into the crazy mind warp tunnel of trying to understand

Quitting Time
Boulder Creek
01:22:24 
I think I twisted myself into a knot then

haha,

thanks for the reminder/head bonk
x.x
KPH Equestrian
01:17:38 Rapcoon | Jester
boulder
the bred horses started as 1, the Oct wild started at 2, and the Nov wild started at 3 ^^; wilds are funky like that lol
Namerik Stables
01:14:17 Rose
-HEE Click- well damn wasn't expecting that colour
Boulder Creek
01:11:20 
Huh
I feel like the guy from Always Sunny with the board

I have two late Septembers (bred), 2 mid October - different days (wild), mid November (wild)
all stating they are 11 years old with different birth years.

I have a handful of late October (bred) who state they are 10 with the birth year 183

...this is messing with my brain and spreadsheets
Santana Rising
12:55:15 San
Happens either with wilds, or if you breed them shortly before RO on the first day of the month
Boulder Creek
12:53:33 
I have two horses who are the same age - but born in two different months
KPH Equestrian
12:46:41 Rapcoon | Jester
good! xD
Fantasy Horses
12:32:28 Fantasy | Fanta
KPH
you inspired me to search for dumbledore memes lol
Golden Heart
12:32:24 Gold
San

oop xD
Golden Heart
12:30:47 Gold
oop works now lol, idk what that was

Santana Rising
12:28:57 San
-HEE Click- of course now that I used all 15 bravery trainings for today she has to reveal she's WC
Golden Heart
12:28:09 Gold
Lily

yup
Fantasy Horses
12:22:01 Fantasy | Fanta
Blue
Love it! Right now i have writer's block so I'm not adding any weird posts >.<
Alpine Acres
12:18:17 Lily
Gold
Are all your riders paid and assigned to the horses you want to enter?
Golden Heart
12:17:10 Gold
Hey yall, every time i enter a show it says oops T-T

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Cousin Moving in August 4, 2022 09:51 PM


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Today I found out that my cousin is probably going to be moving in and it has made me very anxious and upset. Why? My cousin has a lot of behavioral issues (I think she has antisocial personality disorder) and is abusive towards her parents. She refuses to go to school or therapy. Her parents don't know how to enforce boundaries with her and it has created a lot of tension in their home.

I live at home with my Mom and the two of us are very happy living together. But, for some reason my Mom thinks it would be a good idea for my cousin to move in with us.

I don't want my cousin to live in the one place I feel safe! Why should I have to suffer because her parents refuse parent her? My Mom is making me feel guilty because she says I don't care about my cousin or my family which is not true. Their family didn't do anything for me when I was severely depressed so why should I go out of my way to do something for them?

My Mom is hardly ever home so wouldn't have to deal with my cousin, but I would. My biggest fear is having to accomodate her so she doesn't flip out. I am not comfortable with her using my car and wouldn't be surprised if she asked to use my debit card or tried to steal my keys.

I can not move out for at least another 2 years until I am finished with my program. I am not ok with this and need advice!

Edited at August 4, 2022 10:01 PM by Silver Isle Eventing
Cousin Moving in August 5, 2022 09:04 AM


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I would recommend having a family meeting and laying down some solid boundaries and rules before she moves in.
Cousin Moving in August 5, 2022 09:57 AM


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I second this

Stormsong Manor said:
I would recommend having a family meeting and laying down some solid boundaries and rules before she moves in.


Cousin Moving in August 5, 2022 09:33 PM


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Lay down rules and boundries as Stormsong said. If she doesn't like them then she can find another relative to move in with. And maybe moving in with you and your mother may give your cousin the stability she needs in her life since it sounds like she doesn't have any.
Cousin Moving in August 5, 2022 11:11 PM


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Unfortunately, she doesn't follow any boundaries or rules at her own home so why whould she follow them here?

Stormsong Manor said:
I would recommend having a family meeting and laying down some solid boundaries and rules before she moves in.

Edited at August 5, 2022 11:15 PM by Silver Isle Eventing
Cousin Moving in August 5, 2022 11:18 PM


The Mystic One
 
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That's what you have to work out.
"If you don't comply with this/overstep these boundaries/ break this rule then this will happen."
if she acts like a child, then treat her like one.
Rules and boundaries are key, but there also need to be consequences for when/if these rules are broken.
Not only to teach her that she can't do as she pleases, but also to protect you and your mom from anything she tries to do to defy you.
Cousin Moving in August 8, 2022 08:54 PM


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This is so true. Probably the best thing to do^^

Another thing I would do is this: Come up with a list of everything that concerns you, and add all of your reasons. I would sit my mother down and as her to listen and now talk until I am finished talking. This way, she is forced to listen to everything you have to say and think about it without interrupting you or butting in. Come up with your own list of boundaries(what would make you fee unsafe, and for each neg. write down a "solution" for it). Then, work with your mother, talk everything through, and come up with a solution that takes both of your POVs into account. Thorough communication is the only way you can come to a reasonable agreement that takes care of both you and your mother. So whatever you decide to do, just make sure you are talking about it together.


The Mystic One said:
That's what you have to work out.
"If you don't comply with this/overstep these boundaries/ break this rule then this will happen."
if she acts like a child, then treat her like one.
Rules and boundaries are key, but there also need to be consequences for when/if these rules are broken.
Not only to teach her that she can't do as she pleases, but also to protect you and your mom from anything she tries to do to defy you.



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