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ZequineZ
04:40:40 ZEZ - ZZ
My accountant rejected my advances :(
Nightingales Ridge
04:30:56 Issy
Gemstone I like it...if it based on looks its a faulty microwave that turned him crisp ;)
Nightingales Ridge
04:29:49 Issy
Accountant*
Nightingales Ridge
04:29:39 Issy
My accounting gifting me love potion is a sign he loves it
ZequineZ
04:23:23 ZEZ - ZZ
Definitely worth keeping in my opinion lol
Galloping_Gems
04:20:50 Gemstone
I spaced off and was looking at google for a name and I looked back and I had typed microwave, I was laughing to hard to change it so I left it πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
ZequineZ
04:19:41 ZEZ - ZZ
Hey look maybe it means something πŸ˜‚
Galloping_Gems
04:18:30 Gemstone
-HEE Click-
Guys, this boys name πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ what the fuck is wrong with my brainπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
ZequineZ
04:14:27 ZEZ - ZZ
I successfully got Nigel all cleaned πŸ’ͺ🏼
ZequineZ
04:11:48 ZEZ - ZZ
It does kinda haha

This ones gonna look so good when she grows up
-HEE Click-
Wild_Potatoes
04:08:11 
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Flaxen and red roan look so cute together. Kinda like a strawberry cookie or something like that that πŸ˜‚
Alpine Acres
04:04:24 Lily
ZZ
he is xD
ZequineZ
04:04:08 ZEZ - ZZ
Ooo he’s fancy lily
ZequineZ
04:03:39 ZEZ - ZZ
All my first horses are looong passed πŸ₯² I still have some straws I hold onto but best I ever did at the time was PEE so theyre just for questing
Alpine Acres
04:03:16 Lily
-HEE Click-
love the ones with dapples :D
Wild_Potatoes
04:02:14 
Major win Zez
Wild_Potatoes
04:01:00 
-HEE Click-
Makes me sad to see some of my first horses so old πŸ₯²
ZequineZ
04:00:45 ZEZ - ZZ
This little girly got some cute dapples and she’s not a browns/bay/buckskin so win win
-HEE Click-
ZequineZ
03:58:17 ZEZ - ZZ
lol that’s a cool little marking
ZequineZ
03:57:55 ZEZ - ZZ
I’m starting to settle more on X, though my patures are still half half from my age old habit of not caring if I mix breed lol next RO I’m making the effort for all my X mares to go to X studs

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ZequineZ
04:40:40 ZEZ - ZZ
My accountant rejected my advances :(
Nightingales Ridge
04:30:56 Issy
Gemstone I like it...if it based on looks its a faulty microwave that turned him crisp ;)
Nightingales Ridge
04:29:49 Issy
Accountant*
Nightingales Ridge
04:29:39 Issy
My accounting gifting me love potion is a sign he loves it
ZequineZ
04:23:23 ZEZ - ZZ
Definitely worth keeping in my opinion lol
Galloping_Gems
04:20:50 Gemstone
I spaced off and was looking at google for a name and I looked back and I had typed microwave, I was laughing to hard to change it so I left it πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
ZequineZ
04:19:41 ZEZ - ZZ
Hey look maybe it means something πŸ˜‚
Galloping_Gems
04:18:30 Gemstone
-HEE Click-
Guys, this boys name πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ what the fuck is wrong with my brainπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
ZequineZ
04:14:27 ZEZ - ZZ
I successfully got Nigel all cleaned πŸ’ͺ🏼
ZequineZ
04:11:48 ZEZ - ZZ
It does kinda haha

This ones gonna look so good when she grows up
-HEE Click-
Wild_Potatoes
04:08:11 
-HEE Click-
Flaxen and red roan look so cute together. Kinda like a strawberry cookie or something like that that πŸ˜‚
Alpine Acres
04:04:24 Lily
ZZ
he is xD
ZequineZ
04:04:08 ZEZ - ZZ
Ooo he’s fancy lily
ZequineZ
04:03:39 ZEZ - ZZ
All my first horses are looong passed πŸ₯² I still have some straws I hold onto but best I ever did at the time was PEE so theyre just for questing
Alpine Acres
04:03:16 Lily
-HEE Click-
love the ones with dapples :D
Wild_Potatoes
04:02:14 
Major win Zez
Wild_Potatoes
04:01:00 
-HEE Click-
Makes me sad to see some of my first horses so old πŸ₯²
ZequineZ
04:00:45 ZEZ - ZZ
This little girly got some cute dapples and she’s not a browns/bay/buckskin so win win
-HEE Click-
ZequineZ
03:58:17 ZEZ - ZZ
lol that’s a cool little marking
ZequineZ
03:57:55 ZEZ - ZZ
I’m starting to settle more on X, though my patures are still half half from my age old habit of not caring if I mix breed lol next RO I’m making the effort for all my X mares to go to X studs

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Cousin Moving in August 4, 2022 09:51 PM


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Today I found out that my cousin is probably going to be moving in and it has made me very anxious and upset. Why? My cousin has a lot of behavioral issues (I think she has antisocial personality disorder) and is abusive towards her parents. She refuses to go to school or therapy. Her parents don't know how to enforce boundaries with her and it has created a lot of tension in their home.

I live at home with my Mom and the two of us are very happy living together. But, for some reason my Mom thinks it would be a good idea for my cousin to move in with us.

I don't want my cousin to live in the one place I feel safe! Why should I have to suffer because her parents refuse parent her? My Mom is making me feel guilty because she says I don't care about my cousin or my family which is not true. Their family didn't do anything for me when I was severely depressed so why should I go out of my way to do something for them?

My Mom is hardly ever home so wouldn't have to deal with my cousin, but I would. My biggest fear is having to accomodate her so she doesn't flip out. I am not comfortable with her using my car and wouldn't be surprised if she asked to use my debit card or tried to steal my keys.

I can not move out for at least another 2 years until I am finished with my program. I am not ok with this and need advice!

Edited at August 4, 2022 10:01 PM by Silver Isle Eventing
Cousin Moving in August 5, 2022 09:04 AM


Stormsong Manor

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I would recommend having a family meeting and laying down some solid boundaries and rules before she moves in.
Cousin Moving in August 5, 2022 09:57 AM


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I second this

Stormsong Manor said:
I would recommend having a family meeting and laying down some solid boundaries and rules before she moves in.


Cousin Moving in August 5, 2022 09:33 PM


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Lay down rules and boundries as Stormsong said. If she doesn't like them then she can find another relative to move in with. And maybe moving in with you and your mother may give your cousin the stability she needs in her life since it sounds like she doesn't have any.
Cousin Moving in August 5, 2022 11:11 PM


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Unfortunately, she doesn't follow any boundaries or rules at her own home so why whould she follow them here?

Stormsong Manor said:
I would recommend having a family meeting and laying down some solid boundaries and rules before she moves in.

Edited at August 5, 2022 11:15 PM by Silver Isle Eventing
Cousin Moving in August 5, 2022 11:18 PM


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That's what you have to work out.
"If you don't comply with this/overstep these boundaries/ break this rule then this will happen."
if she acts like a child, then treat her like one.
Rules and boundaries are key, but there also need to be consequences for when/if these rules are broken.
Not only to teach her that she can't do as she pleases, but also to protect you and your mom from anything she tries to do to defy you.
Cousin Moving in August 8, 2022 08:54 PM


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This is so true. Probably the best thing to do^^

Another thing I would do is this: Come up with a list of everything that concerns you, and add all of your reasons. I would sit my mother down and as her to listen and now talk until I am finished talking. This way, she is forced to listen to everything you have to say and think about it without interrupting you or butting in. Come up with your own list of boundaries(what would make you fee unsafe, and for each neg. write down a "solution" for it). Then, work with your mother, talk everything through, and come up with a solution that takes both of your POVs into account. Thorough communication is the only way you can come to a reasonable agreement that takes care of both you and your mother. So whatever you decide to do, just make sure you are talking about it together.


The Mystic One said:
That's what you have to work out.
"If you don't comply with this/overstep these boundaries/ break this rule then this will happen."
if she acts like a child, then treat her like one.
Rules and boundaries are key, but there also need to be consequences for when/if these rules are broken.
Not only to teach her that she can't do as she pleases, but also to protect you and your mom from anything she tries to do to defy you.



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