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Versailles
03:47:45 Versa
Del,
Well, she was whiny in general, too. I was too small to pick up a german shepherd safely and refused, suddenly it was passed off as "refusing work."

Amongst other things.

One time she snapped at me for "snarking" at her when I said, in a polite tone, "alright, I understand" to something she explained.
Escott Estate
03:46:17 ~Del~
Versa,

Thats such an odd reason to fire someone lol
Escott Estate
03:45:45 ~Del~
If thats truly how it is there, then I would start looking for a new position. Working in an environment where you have to constantly second guess yourself is stressful. Not good for the mental :)
Versailles
03:43:19 Versa
My prior internship I got "fired" from. Why? An older lady who was overseeing me and all of my daily activities dropped a can of treats on the floor. She looked really in pain when she bent over to pick them up, so I offered to help.

She looked like I just screamed an insult at her...
Angels angels
03:42:56 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Del
But like I said there is always two workers and we do it all together. The main person I work with and do everything with is the Manager, which is the owners second in command
Escott Estate
03:41:54 ~Del~
Sometimes people will explain how to do something one way but actually complete the task another. We dont always completely verbalize our process. There might be some unspoken rules that are at play here that you can only see if you shadow the task. Im sure this is frustrating.
Angels angels
03:41:41 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Wichypoo
Yep. That is one of the main reasons I left my last job. I worked there for almost 6 years and did everything the same way all those years which is the way I was taught and told by the owner. Then suddenly everything I was doing was wrong.
SandWitch Arabians
03:40:35 Witchypoo
I hate those kinds of Bosses. What's right one day, is wrong the next.
Angels angels
03:40:28 [1k+ brindles] Angel
I mean two workers work every day and we do everything together.
Escott Estate
03:39:44 ~Del~
I would ask to shadow the owner or a coworker again for those tasks. Maybe a step in the task is escaping you and you don’t even realize it.
Transformers Acres
03:39:42 Geek, Eek
Witchypoo

Well, the owner can't have it both ways. They can't train their employees one way, and do the same thing a different way. It's just gonna confuse, and piss off said workers. They get paid to do what they're trained to do.
Angels angels
03:38:24 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Witchypoo
The way I was trained is the way she says it is supposed to be done. I seriously don't understand
Angels angels
03:37:44 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Del
I think so but I don't know. She will say one thing one day then say it is wrong another day. I only do things the way I was told or shown to do but then it is wrong.
SandWitch Arabians
03:37:23 Witchypoo
You're just a 'worker bee'.
Do what you're told, regardless of how you were trained.
Escott Estate
03:36:11 ~Del~
Is the owner the type is person where they need to do things themselves in order for it to feel like it was done right? The issue could have nothing to do with you personally. Are there other workers there you could ask to see if there is something that you might be missing?
Angels angels
03:35:01 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Witchypoo
I thought I was. I was doing everything the way I was trained
Willow Wood Stable
03:34:46 Lo 🌙
And honestly I think getting the upgrade early on made it easier for me to grasp the game early on, too. I feel like I’ve been here way longer than I have.
SandWitch Arabians
03:34:35 Witchypoo
The owner calls the shots.
Do it their way.
Willow Wood Stable
03:34:10 Lo 🌙
I went about 5 days 😂
Snitches' Stitches
03:34:04 Snitch
Angel
I could never work in a pet store, pretty sure I'd throttle someone lol

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Versailles
03:47:45 Versa
Del,
Well, she was whiny in general, too. I was too small to pick up a german shepherd safely and refused, suddenly it was passed off as "refusing work."

Amongst other things.

One time she snapped at me for "snarking" at her when I said, in a polite tone, "alright, I understand" to something she explained.
Escott Estate
03:46:17 ~Del~
Versa,

Thats such an odd reason to fire someone lol
Escott Estate
03:45:45 ~Del~
If thats truly how it is there, then I would start looking for a new position. Working in an environment where you have to constantly second guess yourself is stressful. Not good for the mental :)
Versailles
03:43:19 Versa
My prior internship I got "fired" from. Why? An older lady who was overseeing me and all of my daily activities dropped a can of treats on the floor. She looked really in pain when she bent over to pick them up, so I offered to help.

She looked like I just screamed an insult at her...
Angels angels
03:42:56 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Del
But like I said there is always two workers and we do it all together. The main person I work with and do everything with is the Manager, which is the owners second in command
Escott Estate
03:41:54 ~Del~
Sometimes people will explain how to do something one way but actually complete the task another. We dont always completely verbalize our process. There might be some unspoken rules that are at play here that you can only see if you shadow the task. Im sure this is frustrating.
Angels angels
03:41:41 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Wichypoo
Yep. That is one of the main reasons I left my last job. I worked there for almost 6 years and did everything the same way all those years which is the way I was taught and told by the owner. Then suddenly everything I was doing was wrong.
SandWitch Arabians
03:40:35 Witchypoo
I hate those kinds of Bosses. What's right one day, is wrong the next.
Angels angels
03:40:28 [1k+ brindles] Angel
I mean two workers work every day and we do everything together.
Escott Estate
03:39:44 ~Del~
I would ask to shadow the owner or a coworker again for those tasks. Maybe a step in the task is escaping you and you don’t even realize it.
Transformers Acres
03:39:42 Geek, Eek
Witchypoo

Well, the owner can't have it both ways. They can't train their employees one way, and do the same thing a different way. It's just gonna confuse, and piss off said workers. They get paid to do what they're trained to do.
Angels angels
03:38:24 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Witchypoo
The way I was trained is the way she says it is supposed to be done. I seriously don't understand
Angels angels
03:37:44 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Del
I think so but I don't know. She will say one thing one day then say it is wrong another day. I only do things the way I was told or shown to do but then it is wrong.
SandWitch Arabians
03:37:23 Witchypoo
You're just a 'worker bee'.
Do what you're told, regardless of how you were trained.
Escott Estate
03:36:11 ~Del~
Is the owner the type is person where they need to do things themselves in order for it to feel like it was done right? The issue could have nothing to do with you personally. Are there other workers there you could ask to see if there is something that you might be missing?
Angels angels
03:35:01 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Witchypoo
I thought I was. I was doing everything the way I was trained
Willow Wood Stable
03:34:46 Lo 🌙
And honestly I think getting the upgrade early on made it easier for me to grasp the game early on, too. I feel like I’ve been here way longer than I have.
SandWitch Arabians
03:34:35 Witchypoo
The owner calls the shots.
Do it their way.
Willow Wood Stable
03:34:10 Lo 🌙
I went about 5 days 😂
Snitches' Stitches
03:34:04 Snitch
Angel
I could never work in a pet store, pretty sure I'd throttle someone lol

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I need help. February 8, 2025 08:01 PM


lilly fields
 
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Ok so I am actually about to explode from anger over this and I need to vent. I am a teen so that will make the age gap make more sense. My neighbor, E is 8 and she is insane. She goes in our backyard when we aren't home and plays with our chickens. She throws them around and feeds them random things that can be poisonous. Whenever I tell her to stop she throws a fit and storms home and way over blows things to her mom. The only reason I know this is because her older brother who is a decent human being tells me. We have a sea shell collection and she will smash it because it is "fun" and then she will steal our shells. My mom wont let me put a lock on our gate or call the police when she goes in without permission and refuses to leave.
Edit: forgot to add this but they are moving at the end of the School year and they are leaving there dog behind (which she treats like crap by the way) and we where thinking about adopting him. Our last dog died when I was in first grade. Now she went and told her mom a bunch of lies and said I told her I would just put him in a cage if I got him. We don't even own a cage but her mom always believes her so my only chance to get a dog is shot.

Edited at February 9, 2025 08:19 AM by lilly fields
I need help. February 8, 2025 09:07 PM


RFS Thoroughbreds
 
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Have you gone and talked to E's parents yet?If not then I'd advise doing that and if they try to say 'oh,she's only 8' then you simply tell them,and I mean TELL them about her tossing and feeding your chickens random things and about the seashell fiasco.If you do talk to them and they don't do anything,then get a lock.See what happens then.
I need help. February 8, 2025 09:40 PM


Versailles
 
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You know. You CAN talk to authorities yourself, who can then speak to the parent and demand they pay more attention to their child. Your age does not matter. They WILL come out. Not only is she doing property damage, but she is endangering the lives of animals. It is better that it is dealt with now, rather than when actual fines come up and her family can't deal with them.
I need help. February 8, 2025 10:37 PM


RFS Thoroughbreds
 
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Versailles said:
You know. You CAN talk to authorities yourself, who can then speak to the parent and demand they pay more attention to their child. Your age does not matter. They WILL come out. Not only is she doing property damage, but she is endangering the lives of animals. It is better that it is dealt with now, rather than when actual fines come up and her family can't deal with them.


This.Versa explained better then me.
I need help. February 9, 2025 08:31 AM


lilly fields
 
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Ok so like RFS said I have talked to her parents multiple times and they just say yeah well I'll talk to her but she's 8. What can I do.
Well not let her go to nieghbors houses and go in there backyard for one.
for versa, I wish and I have begged my mom but I don't have a phone and she always says she's only 8 let it go. My family doesn't like chickens like I do so they don't get it. But if a chance comes to press charges against her oh I will take them down.
I need help. February 9, 2025 11:44 AM


Hummingbird Meadows
 
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What if you buy the lock yourself? Or honestly, if I saw her doing those things I would run out and threaten her and tell her if she comes back into the yard you will call the police. Heck, even just scream at her to, "Get out of my yard now!"

Edited at February 9, 2025 11:45 AM by Revel Ranch
I need help. February 9, 2025 11:53 AM


Pegasus Lane
 
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Yelling and drawing attention is great. Also taking videos as proof for her parents, and in the possible future; the police, as proof :)
I need help. February 9, 2025 02:15 PM


Versailles
 
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It does not matter if they do not like chickens as much as you do. This child wandering into your yard and causing damage is neglectful towards the child's welfare and her parents could have charges pressed simply on that if anybody finds out. If a chicken dies to something poisonous, it's neglectful on both sides. We're talking money, not a slight shrug and "well they're just chickens." You guys own these animals, and therefore it is YOUR responsibility to pay attention to their needs and make the right decisions. Furthermore, if the child gets hurt on your property, her parents sound like the type to sue YOU instead of realizing their own faults. If nothing else, these parents need authorities called for lack of attention paid to their kid. Get evidence. Get a lock.
I need help. February 9, 2025 06:09 PM


Hawkeye Farms
 
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Get a lock. If your parents argue over it with you, say you spent your money to protect your livestock and property. Get security cameras if you can to keep an eye on your chickens. Get no tresspassing signs and put them on your fences as well. Let the girl's parents know that you are offically telling them if their daughter comes on to your property again (once you have the no tresspass sign up since they will now know you mean business) that you will call the police to talk to her for tresspass. If it happens again you'll have her charged with tresspass (age doesn't matter for tresspass charges.). And if you have video evidence of her abusing your chickens throw on animal abuse to the list of charges as well.

Also as Revel says if you catch her in your yard scream bloody murder at her to draw attention to her until you get the no tresspass signs up. I don't recommend hitting the kid unless you see her actually abusing the chicken on your property, since her parents could charge you with battery, but screaming and doing a bluff charge at her might scare her enough to let her know you mean business about protecting what's yours.

I need help. February 9, 2025 06:47 PM


lilly fields
 
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Sounds good. I actually do have a lock so I will try and put that up

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