Charmed Estates said:

Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this, friend. I don't know how long you've been together, but sometimes things get really tough when the honeymoon phase wears off, per se. Sometimes dudes are completely oblivious to the fact that they're hurting you, too. I'd ask him some open ended questions to give him a shot at saying if there is something he needs to get off his chest, or explain, etc. I would also explain that communication is really important to you/that you want to work it out with him because he is really important to you, and ask him what steps he thinks you both could take to improve communication. I know it really hurts to go through rough patches with people you love, and just know we are here for moral support <3

Oof I passed out into a almost a deep sleep and I didn't hear the alarm on my phone that goes off for my cat's 2 o'clock feeding time >~<"

Edit: I went to go feed her but my grandma stopped me to tell me my mom already fed my furbaby for me while I was resting

I might do some arts for some of the horses that I have either grown attached to or that had me at hello xD (If I feel comfortable enough with the idea also I might edit this post sooo yeee xD)

1. Prince: https://horseeden.com/horse.php?id=17065024

2. Mystery: https://horseeden.com/horse.php?id=18647255

3. Storm: https://horseeden.com/horse.php?id=19307350

4. Armonía: https://horseeden.com/horse.php?id=20044221

5. Balada: https://horseeden.com/horse.php?id=20501720

Amhain Dull Liath said:

Do le arts!

So I have an update on the relationship drama. I had an epiphany yesterday and I think I have realized why he's pushing me away. I tend to be a very clingy and over-bearing person and I think that's part of the problem. I'm thinking he's gotten tired of it and just hasn't told me what's bothering him. A possible reason behind him not communicating could be because he doesn't want me to lash out at him. No one wants to get lashed out on lol Plus, he's not a very sensitive person so he'd be very blunt about it which would've hurt my feelings because I am pretty sensitive. Anyways, I did some research too to see if I was annoying him and multiple things he is doing is pointing to the fact that I am annoying him according to my research. For example, when I'm talking, he doesn't really look at me and when we are around others he doesn't even pay attention to me. That was one of the things my research said. Another thing said that when a girlfriend is being too clingy, their boyfriend might try to find ways to avoid them which is what he does sometimes. I'm not saying that it's all my fault but I am definitely not innocent in this situation. He has made several comments to people that I've been annoying and too impatient which is very rude on his part but still. I think I'm starting to understand the full situation better.

Also, Rish you made me cry with your secret admirer thing xD They we're happy tears though. Thank you <3 I think I needed to read that today