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MakeEm Fancy
10:36:54 Ally 💜
Mother in laws are ridiculous
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:36:49 Fog
These hoes really are thinking they birthed your child!! The audacity
Snitches' Stitches
10:36:07 Snitch
My ex's parents were part of the reason I broke up with him, among other things. I didn't want to be their family 😣
Wraithcry Farm
10:36:07 Trigger 🐾
Her number 1 thing is being obsessed with me and hubby having children when we currently have no desire to be parents. She gets sneaky though. The lady bought a whole wardrobe for our kid that is not happening.
MakeEm Fancy
10:35:29 Ally 💜
And then my husbands step mom thinks that if she is hateful to us we will change our daughters name 🀦🏻‍♀️ like its not changing 🀣
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:35:08 Fog
Oh 100%, Ally! I've heard so many stories in fb groups (in-law groups) of their mother in law just showing up and demanding to be in the delivery room

Agreed, Sting!!
MakeEm Fancy
10:34:20 Ally 💜
My mother in law is the same. She doesnt understand that no means no @Trigger
Wraithcry Farm
10:33:29 Trigger 🐾
She is just pushy. I have to repeat tell her no and when you already deal with childish adults for 80 hours or more a week working for social services you really really really do not want to deal with that outside of it. So I just blocked her. But I am the drama. Make it make sense.
Narran Park
10:33:25 Sting
Offt. Normalize cutting toxic people off, Including family.
They're for the streets.
MakeEm Fancy
10:33:25 Ally 💜
I honestly know that if we would have told her she would be at the hospital despite our wishes to not have people around besides of course who we wanted in the delivery room. She has no control and thinks she is entitled to so much when she isnt
Lucky Ranch
10:32:28 luhckeigh
My MIL is lovely my own mother leaves some things to be desired thoughπŸ˜‚πŸ₯²
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:31:40 Fog
Love that for you, Ally! My in-laws haven't met our son, who is now three. Lifes good <3
MakeEm Fancy
10:30:57 Ally 💜
You should have seen her reaction when we didnt tell her I was at the hospital and waited days until we told her we had the baby πŸ€— It was an amazing feeling and I 100% would do it again
MakeEm Fancy
10:29:16 Ally 💜
My mother in law crosses boundaries as well but since we rarely are around her anymore its becoming less and less which has been amazing
Wraithcry Farm
10:28:58 Trigger 🐾
Then runs to my husband and says “We do not do drama”

Ma’am, first off you were the one blowing up my phone, and secondly all I did was block you. What drama?
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:28:44 Fog
Don't get me started in mother in-laws lol!
Wraithcry Farm
10:27:48 Trigger 🐾
Sounds like my mother in law ally. Who repeatedly crosses boundaries until I said enough was enough and blocked her everywhere.
MakeEm Fancy
10:27:42 Ally 💜
Like the downright entitlement she thinks she has to think Im going to rename my child because she doesnt like the name πŸ™„ like no ma'am not happening
MakeEm Fancy
10:26:46 Ally 💜
I feel like its not just about kindness respect its about the dang entitlement people think they have in someones life. Im currently dealing and have dealt with a family member who thinks they can try to blackmail me into doing stuff or thinking they can dictate what I do and dont do....
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:24:23 Fog
Ooh looks exciting, Ally!!

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MakeEm Fancy
10:36:54 Ally 💜
Mother in laws are ridiculous
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:36:49 Fog
These hoes really are thinking they birthed your child!! The audacity
Snitches' Stitches
10:36:07 Snitch
My ex's parents were part of the reason I broke up with him, among other things. I didn't want to be their family 😣
Wraithcry Farm
10:36:07 Trigger 🐾
Her number 1 thing is being obsessed with me and hubby having children when we currently have no desire to be parents. She gets sneaky though. The lady bought a whole wardrobe for our kid that is not happening.
MakeEm Fancy
10:35:29 Ally 💜
And then my husbands step mom thinks that if she is hateful to us we will change our daughters name 🀦🏻‍♀️ like its not changing 🀣
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:35:08 Fog
Oh 100%, Ally! I've heard so many stories in fb groups (in-law groups) of their mother in law just showing up and demanding to be in the delivery room

Agreed, Sting!!
MakeEm Fancy
10:34:20 Ally 💜
My mother in law is the same. She doesnt understand that no means no @Trigger
Wraithcry Farm
10:33:29 Trigger 🐾
She is just pushy. I have to repeat tell her no and when you already deal with childish adults for 80 hours or more a week working for social services you really really really do not want to deal with that outside of it. So I just blocked her. But I am the drama. Make it make sense.
Narran Park
10:33:25 Sting
Offt. Normalize cutting toxic people off, Including family.
They're for the streets.
MakeEm Fancy
10:33:25 Ally 💜
I honestly know that if we would have told her she would be at the hospital despite our wishes to not have people around besides of course who we wanted in the delivery room. She has no control and thinks she is entitled to so much when she isnt
Lucky Ranch
10:32:28 luhckeigh
My MIL is lovely my own mother leaves some things to be desired thoughπŸ˜‚πŸ₯²
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:31:40 Fog
Love that for you, Ally! My in-laws haven't met our son, who is now three. Lifes good <3
MakeEm Fancy
10:30:57 Ally 💜
You should have seen her reaction when we didnt tell her I was at the hospital and waited days until we told her we had the baby πŸ€— It was an amazing feeling and I 100% would do it again
MakeEm Fancy
10:29:16 Ally 💜
My mother in law crosses boundaries as well but since we rarely are around her anymore its becoming less and less which has been amazing
Wraithcry Farm
10:28:58 Trigger 🐾
Then runs to my husband and says “We do not do drama”

Ma’am, first off you were the one blowing up my phone, and secondly all I did was block you. What drama?
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:28:44 Fog
Don't get me started in mother in-laws lol!
Wraithcry Farm
10:27:48 Trigger 🐾
Sounds like my mother in law ally. Who repeatedly crosses boundaries until I said enough was enough and blocked her everywhere.
MakeEm Fancy
10:27:42 Ally 💜
Like the downright entitlement she thinks she has to think Im going to rename my child because she doesnt like the name πŸ™„ like no ma'am not happening
MakeEm Fancy
10:26:46 Ally 💜
I feel like its not just about kindness respect its about the dang entitlement people think they have in someones life. Im currently dealing and have dealt with a family member who thinks they can try to blackmail me into doing stuff or thinking they can dictate what I do and dont do....
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:24:23 Fog
Ooh looks exciting, Ally!!

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. September 20, 2017 02:35 PM

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Edited at March 27, 2022 07:31 AM by BlueMist Farms
. September 20, 2017 04:47 PM

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Try a senior feed. America doesn't have the brand I use, but any senior or "high fat" food should work. If you can, mix it with soaked beet pulp. That's what worked for my dude!
. September 21, 2017 11:37 PM


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I've had lots of luck with BlueBonnet feeds. They have one specifically designed for horses like chief

http://bluebonnetfeeds.com/intensify-omega-force/

Edited at September 21, 2017 11:41 PM by Beltane Eventers
. September 23, 2017 08:25 PM


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My old girl has done well on Nutrena SafeChoice Senior. She has Cushing's and this feed (plus meds) keeps her at a proper weight. As a bonus it smells amazing :)
. September 24, 2017 02:08 PM


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Purina Ultium has been working pretty well for us. We have a younger Arabian gelding on pasture 24/7 that still doesn't like to keep weight on (no issues - just how he is) so that's what he gets and does well on! Good luck with your older man :D
. September 30, 2017 11:24 PM


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I really don't understand why people feed so much grain. Argh I hate the stuff!

Grain is carbohydrate with very low protein levels, most of you will know the risks associated with grain feeding - change in pH in the stomach etc

If you want weight gain, then look at feeding a high fat and protein supplement. Depending on the quality of your grass and hay you are feeding that will depend. I'm not sure about America, here in New Zealand we feed cold pressed rapeseed oil to our horses which is 100% fat and has vitamin E, omegas etc. I also make a rapeseed meal/ chia blend which is high in fibre and contains all the essential amino acids for weight gain and muscle development.

I cannot stress enough the importance of fibre - ad lib! again not sure on what you have available but slow hay feeder nets are wonderful. Yes they can help with weight gain, however in an older horse that might have compromised teeth action it might not work? but for your others it might be an option?
If teeth are compromised then mixing feeds with chaff - as dust free as you can find- I never feed dry chaff - always add water

Hope this helps? I've just been interrupted :)
. October 1, 2017 11:11 AM


Coruscant Farm
 
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Brackenfield while I do agree that proper forage should be the majority of their diet - in fact the very mare I mentioned above was strictly pasture and hay for 11 years and thrived on it - grain does have its place with some horses and can be a helpful boost. My horse was an air fern and kept in good weight just by smelling grass but age (she's nearly 30) and Cushing's have caught up with her, and she needs the extra calories now. Nothing about her diet changed...her body changed, and what worked food-wise for 11 years didn't work anymore. She's back to a good weight again with proper dietary adjustments and medication - and for what it's worth she is still mostly on pasture - but I can't deny that she gets super excited for her grain. That little boost of happiness in her old age is pretty special, and I'm glad it helps her feel good.

Edited at October 1, 2017 11:13 AM by Coruscant Farm
. October 11, 2017 12:28 PM

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For seniors, Nutrena SafeChoice has great feeds. I personally really like Tribute feeds, specifically the Maturity feed. Both feeds have done wonders for older horses in my experience.
. October 11, 2017 07:13 PM


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Beltane Eventers said:
I've had lots of luck with BlueBonnet feeds. They have one specifically designed for horses like chief

http://bluebonnetfeeds.com/intensify-omega-force/


I went to a feed seminar the other day for this feed, they pack lots of vitamins and minerals into it so you don't have so much for supplementing.
Also every bag you get has the same ingredients. They never change anything, where as lots of other company's do. It's also made in a ionophore free mill so you don't have to worry about contamination.

Edited at October 11, 2017 07:14 PM by Beltane Eventers
. October 13, 2017 03:03 PM

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Nutrena Senior Feed should be good! I feed my horse Nutrena SafeChoice original and he looks great! (He's 13)

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