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Angels angels
07:40:05 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Ooo I haven't had dominos in so long. It is too far from our house lol
I made meatloaf for dinnee
ghost light stables
07:39:29 moldy bread / ghost
Fantasy

thanks! I've got high hopes for the lil guy
Glacier Bay Cove
07:38:38 Arctic Katz
Having dominoes pizza for supper tonight, where is your pizza coming from, Ally
Fantasy Horses
07:38:35 Fantasy | Fanta
Congrats ghost! He's a beauty <3 Hope he trains well for you!
ghost light stables
07:37:29 moldy bread / ghost
-HEE Click-

First WWE I've bred since I restarted my stable! (I just rated him today lol)
Prismatic
07:36:29 Prism/Chrome/Rainy
Issy
aww
MakeEm Fancy
07:36:15 Ally 💜
Well im off to go eat pizza and binge victorious lol bye guys ^.^
Nightingales Ridge
07:30:56 Issy
My baby is always so active in my belly when I'm trying to sleep so here I am on HEE
MakeEm Fancy
07:30:36 Ally 💜
We didnt adopt this kitten we just found her lol
Glacier Bay Cove
07:29:57 Arctic Katz
I would love to adopt a kitten someday
Glacier Bay Cove
07:29:34 Arctic Katz
All of my cat adoptees were past the kitten stage
MakeEm Fancy
07:28:39 Ally 💜
Peaches is ridiculously cute lol I love her even with the bites
Hummingbird Meadows
07:27:27 Bird
She was a super sweet kitten. Had cute markings too, but the biting turned me off even if it was mostly gentle.
MakeEm Fancy
07:26:39 Ally 💜
Its possible.
Hummingbird Meadows
07:25:16 Bird
@Ally, maybe that is actually why the kitten I saw was biting. Momma stoped taking care of them so the breeder had to bottle feed them.
Mythological
07:24:56 Crowley
Shouldn't be...
MakeEm Fancy
07:24:38 Ally 💜
Im assuming its because I had to nurse her back to health and she thinks im momma
Fantasy Horses
07:24:04 Fantasy | Fanta
Crowley
Sorry... Can't help you there. Is it set to a different time zone?
Mythological
07:23:31 Crowley
Someone want to explain why my phone says it's 12:23 AM??
MakeEm Fancy
07:23:30 Ally 💜
Its literally the only downside of having her. She is a complete sweetheart but the biting hurts. She does it to my husband as well but thankfully doesnt do it with the kids

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Angels angels
07:40:05 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Ooo I haven't had dominos in so long. It is too far from our house lol
I made meatloaf for dinnee
ghost light stables
07:39:29 moldy bread / ghost
Fantasy

thanks! I've got high hopes for the lil guy
Glacier Bay Cove
07:38:38 Arctic Katz
Having dominoes pizza for supper tonight, where is your pizza coming from, Ally
Fantasy Horses
07:38:35 Fantasy | Fanta
Congrats ghost! He's a beauty <3 Hope he trains well for you!
ghost light stables
07:37:29 moldy bread / ghost
-HEE Click-

First WWE I've bred since I restarted my stable! (I just rated him today lol)
Prismatic
07:36:29 Prism/Chrome/Rainy
Issy
aww
MakeEm Fancy
07:36:15 Ally 💜
Well im off to go eat pizza and binge victorious lol bye guys ^.^
Nightingales Ridge
07:30:56 Issy
My baby is always so active in my belly when I'm trying to sleep so here I am on HEE
MakeEm Fancy
07:30:36 Ally 💜
We didnt adopt this kitten we just found her lol
Glacier Bay Cove
07:29:57 Arctic Katz
I would love to adopt a kitten someday
Glacier Bay Cove
07:29:34 Arctic Katz
All of my cat adoptees were past the kitten stage
MakeEm Fancy
07:28:39 Ally 💜
Peaches is ridiculously cute lol I love her even with the bites
Hummingbird Meadows
07:27:27 Bird
She was a super sweet kitten. Had cute markings too, but the biting turned me off even if it was mostly gentle.
MakeEm Fancy
07:26:39 Ally 💜
Its possible.
Hummingbird Meadows
07:25:16 Bird
@Ally, maybe that is actually why the kitten I saw was biting. Momma stoped taking care of them so the breeder had to bottle feed them.
Mythological
07:24:56 Crowley
Shouldn't be...
MakeEm Fancy
07:24:38 Ally 💜
Im assuming its because I had to nurse her back to health and she thinks im momma
Fantasy Horses
07:24:04 Fantasy | Fanta
Crowley
Sorry... Can't help you there. Is it set to a different time zone?
Mythological
07:23:31 Crowley
Someone want to explain why my phone says it's 12:23 AM??
MakeEm Fancy
07:23:30 Ally 💜
Its literally the only downside of having her. She is a complete sweetheart but the biting hurts. She does it to my husband as well but thankfully doesnt do it with the kids

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Is He Okay? August 16, 2024 08:26 PM


SJ_Foundation
 
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I kind of think my father in law might be in psychosis.
On one hand it just looks like he's finding his spirituality and is enthusiastic about it. He has definitely changed drastically since about a year ago. Which seems like it may be a redflag in of itself. But again, up until recently it seemed like it was generally helping him and a good influence, as Spirituality and religion can do.
Im not sure how to feel about his recent actions. And I'm not sure if it's even my place to try and pry. He's been following and listening and getting REALLY into videos pertaining to any kind of spiritual affect. Some of them are familiar to me like Chakras and reiki, but others are like promoting him to not eat or drink, and basically it just feels like he's getting really close to crossing a line of healthy endeavor. Yesterday, he called me. He wanted to talk to me about something he felt inside him. He described them as aliens who cause cancer and illness. And that he feels them moving around. I uhm, I usually don't know what to say so I just listened and tried my best to be supportive of his wellbeing.
Today I went over to his house. He had an appointment with some kind of spiritual healer of something. It was over the phone. A $75 session and my father in law told me the person was going to " move ions" which is something I have no knowledge or experience so I was like cool. After the session he told me that during the session he started shaking and sweating and his heart rate went up. To me it sounded like my anxiety symptoms. Then everything was cool and we hung out. My husband woke up, and his brother came over. When his brother got there I guess he started feeling these symptoms again. He got kinda a strange look in his eye. I tried asking if it could be an anxiety attack but he said no, theres no doubt its inside me. My hubby and the bro left to cash a check and things kinda escalated. He was saying he feels the aliens again moving around, and that its attacking him. He got on the floor and started yelling "get out of me". Then he told me that my daughter and I and everyone should leave. So I left.
I dunno. I don't want to deny his experience, and you know, like sometimes people can tell when there is an illness or injury within their body, and I don't want to deny him that either, in whatever way it manifests. But I don't want to be ignorant to what I've learned about certain psychoactive events. Maybe some of you remember, but at the beginning of the year, I posted in thus forum about an event with him, he like took a gun to the airport and threatened to kill his father, and he like just actually kinda broke. After that event he started to seem a lot better, like a whole new person. And now he's taking all this stuff very seriously, whole heartedly. This past week he's seemed tense. I guess it's just degree of things, it seems on the more extreme side. With his family history too. I dunno. He doesn't like therapy which is okay, but he also thinks my syndrome is in my head, so I wonder if he'd even want to try to seek any kind of mental health help. If it comes to that

Edited at August 16, 2024 08:41 PM by SJ_Foundation
Is He Okay? August 16, 2024 11:10 PM

Heartsong Hollow
 
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So my first impression after reading this is that it sounds a lot like psychosis. While I am not opposed to alternative medicine or religion, if he thinks aliens are crawling around inside him something more serious is going on that is unrelated to either of those. I'm not sure how you can help him since he needs to be the one willing to get help, but my biggest concern would be him accidently hurting himself or someone else, especially if his symptoms are as bad as you describe.

Edited at August 16, 2024 11:12 PM by Revel Ranch
Is He Okay? August 17, 2024 02:24 AM


SJ_Foundation
 
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After taking some time to think about, I think I've made a plan. I'm gonna leave things be. I'm going to research how others have helped family members going through similar and their experience. And if it escalates anymore, I'm going to inform his daughter, my sister in law. I feel like having a close family member advocating for him would be a good move, but is it against my business to inform anyone? I guess the better question is do I want to deal with the personal emotional repercussions of not informing someone.
It's just so hard to tell if he's just describing his feelings very vividly. I have to keep in mind everything that I've learned though. Drastic changes in habit, mood, personality, and belief within a relatively short period of time. Sleep disturbances, sometimes his thoughts seem disorganized but he speaks coherently. He describes outer body experiences, dimensional travel, having psychic abilities like seeing the future, "activations", and other things that i kind of had a hard time following. When he has dreams, he sees them as visions or premonitions . And he describes these things as if it was on a physical realm of reality. And he is very set on it. Other opinions are shut down and don't seem to provoke thought or debate.
This abrupt turn of belief started maybe around May or so.
I've seen some crazy stuff in my life, mostly as a young child, so denying the experience outside of possible health issues seems wrong (though i too have a mental health background). I also want him to be able to enjoy this and heal and stuff. I think that's why I'm pushing the concern away.
I feel better talking about it. His son isn't really in a spot to really help, and his daughter be out of state. So there's a strong chance that if things take a turn, it may be up to me to at least start action.
Is He Okay? August 17, 2024 12:34 PM


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Talk to your family now. See if they have had similar experiences or concerns, and come up with a plan. He needs to see a doctor- whether physical or mental, I don't know, but it's not fair for him to deal with this sort of stress, and there might be something wrong that's fixable. It's better to plan now.
My own dad has some issues that me and my siblings have discussed and planned for, with full awareness of what our family is genetically predisposed to, such as alzheimers, etc. Opening this conversation with your sister in law can save you and the rest of the family a lot of grief.
I'm sorry you're going through this. It is really hard to watch someone you care about rabbithole like this.
Is He Okay? August 21, 2024 07:40 PM


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Your father in law needs to see a doctor ASAP. From what you're describing it's pyschosis that is going on, but his doctor would be the best one to deterime that and the treatment.

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