Ive been so far from the game lately... cant tell if I'm just losing my mind or if this is buggy

No this is correct! I think it's either vitiligo or birdcatcher, a genetic test will show it^^

So there is a gene test and its not necessarily the birdcatcher that has me confused, its the white spot on the hip that I swear should be black... even if its not the layering with it looks really funky

I think that your right, and that this is a layering error, that white spot is very weird lol