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Tobiano Lady
11:24:15 Tobi 👻
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Welcome to the world, my first tobi WC SJ PON :P
Wild Wind Stables
11:09:18 Wind
Just got a genetic test on this guy, do you think anyone could be interested in him as a color stud?
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KPH Equestrian
11:06:57 Rapcoon | Jester
Glass
Looks like one of the new ones, I think it's LpLp?
Embervale Acres
11:02:07 Solar Phoenix
I want to say it's hetero, but not 100% sure
Embervale Acres
10:59:51 Solar Phoenix
I started looking for specific color studs XD

and that's because English is multiple languages in a trench coat passing itself off as something entirely different lol
Looking Glass Stable
10:59:42 IA Glass 👋
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Anyone know if this is a homo or hetero Appaloosa pattern?
Fantasy Horses
10:59:26 Fantasy | Fanta
Bye everyone
Fantasy Horses
10:57:55 Fantasy | Fanta
Know what else is weird? the english language. I really hate it.
Fantasy Horses
10:57:27 Fantasy | Fanta
Nice Solar! That's a good thing to be sidetracked by lol
Embervale Acres
10:37:28 Solar Phoenix
well...I got a little distracted breeding for a PPP XD
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Rainbow
10:12:00 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
People are weird in general lol
Tobiano Lady
10:09:57 Tobi 👻
People are weird for being weird about divorced parents.
Rainbow
10:06:45 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
Oh wow, yeah, you were an infant! Whatever your parents did has nothing to do with you at that point. I don't know why someone would judge a kid for having divorced parents. That's just wild.
Lunar Wilds
10:06:38 Lux - AAs
Bird
He didn’t realize, he backtracked some once he was told but he also had a habit of mansplaining that made it very funny to be a part of haha
Hummingbird Meadows
10:05:25 Bird
@Lux, sounds like he needed to vent. That or didn't realize everyone at the table had divorced parents. XD
Lunar Wilds
10:05:10 Lux - AAs
Bird
I’m sorry they were so close minded about it
Lunar Wilds
10:04:35 Lux - AAs
Bird
I once went on a double date where the other’s guy talked about how traumatic their parents amicable divorce was and how we didn’t know how divorce could be damaging for kids (they were 17 when it happened). While divorce can be traumatic and damaging, he was talking to a table full of people with divorced parents
Hummingbird Meadows
10:03:44 Bird
@Rainy, I have been looked down on it for my whole life even though I wasn't even 1 when it happened. It sucks.
Rainbow
10:03:06 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
That's a shame. It's not like you had any control over that!
Rainbow
10:02:28 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Tobi
Yeah, it can be annoying for sure. I think everyone does it to a degree, though.


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Tobiano Lady
11:24:15 Tobi 👻
-HEE Click-
Welcome to the world, my first tobi WC SJ PON :P
Wild Wind Stables
11:09:18 Wind
Just got a genetic test on this guy, do you think anyone could be interested in him as a color stud?
-HEE Click-
KPH Equestrian
11:06:57 Rapcoon | Jester
Glass
Looks like one of the new ones, I think it's LpLp?
Embervale Acres
11:02:07 Solar Phoenix
I want to say it's hetero, but not 100% sure
Embervale Acres
10:59:51 Solar Phoenix
I started looking for specific color studs XD

and that's because English is multiple languages in a trench coat passing itself off as something entirely different lol
Looking Glass Stable
10:59:42 IA Glass 👋
-HEE Click-

Anyone know if this is a homo or hetero Appaloosa pattern?
Fantasy Horses
10:59:26 Fantasy | Fanta
Bye everyone
Fantasy Horses
10:57:55 Fantasy | Fanta
Know what else is weird? the english language. I really hate it.
Fantasy Horses
10:57:27 Fantasy | Fanta
Nice Solar! That's a good thing to be sidetracked by lol
Embervale Acres
10:37:28 Solar Phoenix
well...I got a little distracted breeding for a PPP XD
-HEE Click-
Rainbow
10:12:00 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
People are weird in general lol
Tobiano Lady
10:09:57 Tobi 👻
People are weird for being weird about divorced parents.
Rainbow
10:06:45 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
Oh wow, yeah, you were an infant! Whatever your parents did has nothing to do with you at that point. I don't know why someone would judge a kid for having divorced parents. That's just wild.
Lunar Wilds
10:06:38 Lux - AAs
Bird
He didn’t realize, he backtracked some once he was told but he also had a habit of mansplaining that made it very funny to be a part of haha
Hummingbird Meadows
10:05:25 Bird
@Lux, sounds like he needed to vent. That or didn't realize everyone at the table had divorced parents. XD
Lunar Wilds
10:05:10 Lux - AAs
Bird
I’m sorry they were so close minded about it
Lunar Wilds
10:04:35 Lux - AAs
Bird
I once went on a double date where the other’s guy talked about how traumatic their parents amicable divorce was and how we didn’t know how divorce could be damaging for kids (they were 17 when it happened). While divorce can be traumatic and damaging, he was talking to a table full of people with divorced parents
Hummingbird Meadows
10:03:44 Bird
@Rainy, I have been looked down on it for my whole life even though I wasn't even 1 when it happened. It sucks.
Rainbow
10:03:06 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
That's a shame. It's not like you had any control over that!
Rainbow
10:02:28 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Tobi
Yeah, it can be annoying for sure. I think everyone does it to a degree, though.


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- June 19, 2022 10:31 AM


Lucky Ranch
 
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So my family member in AZ wants me to come visit her and I love her and all and of course I want to visit. The thing is I haven't seen her in over a year and in that time I got a horse on accident 😂
I've had him for a year and I haven't told her, she just knows that I've been working at a barn
I don't think she'll approve of my horse for a multitude of reasons
Is there some way that you guys know to tell her with a best possible outcome or just avoid that convo entirely? I'm not sure 🥲

Edited at November 7, 2023 04:24 PM by Lucky Ranch
- June 19, 2022 10:37 AM


Thistleberry Farm
 
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why wouldnt she approve?
honestly if its that bad just tell her that your like partially sharing the horse with your trainer or something like that. My aunt was fixated for some reason on me never owning a horse and i just told her that he was my friend/trainers horse and that he just let me ride him lol
- June 19, 2022 01:22 PM


FirstLightFarms

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Why does it matter if she approves or not? She's not the one footing the bill. Just be casual about it- "oh, here's a pic of my horse :)".
Sidenote- I never told my mom I got a second horse. I just moved barns a few times and she realized he was at every single barn I moved to and she called me out on it lmao. We're on good terms now
- June 19, 2022 01:38 PM


Lucky Ranch
 
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I value our relationship she can just be petty on occasion? Bring up the 'what else aren't you telling me' or 'life would be easier without that horse' things like that
Yeah I might just bring it up casually LOL
😂 Puck thats amazing
'oh he's just a mascot for a bunch of barns 😅'

Edited at June 19, 2022 01:39 PM by Lucky Ranch
- June 19, 2022 05:37 PM


Savannah Stables
 
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FirstLightFarms said:
Why does it matter if she approves or not? She's not the one footing the bill. Just be casual about it- "oh, here's a pic of my horse :)".
Sidenote- I never told my mom I got a second horse. I just moved barns a few times and she realized he was at every single barn I moved to and she called me out on it lmao. We're on good terms now


That is cracking me up omg
- June 19, 2022 05:45 PM


Kingfisher Cove
 
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I totally get where you are coming from. I would just nicely say, "I appreciate that you are interested in my life, but I don't want to talk about my horse."


If she keeps asking or bothering you about it just keep repeating that. People get the message really quick. ;)

Also, don't feel guilty about setting that boundary. You are not responsible for her feelings and it sounds like there is plenty of other things you can talk about together.

Edited at June 19, 2022 05:45 PM by Silver Isle Eventing
- June 26, 2022 04:27 PM


Lucky Ranch
 
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Silver Isle Eventing said:
I totally get where you are coming from. I would just nicely say, "I appreciate that you are interested in my life, but I don't want to talk about my horse."


If she keeps asking or bothering you about it just keep repeating that. People get the message really quick. ;)

Also, don't feel guilty about setting that boundary. You are not responsible for her feelings and it sounds like there is plenty of other things you can talk about together.


thank you! If it gets to that point I will 100% do that
- June 30, 2022 05:13 AM


Summer
 
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I talk about my horses to non horse people all the time, I don't even care if they aren't interested lol

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