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Mythological
08:44:50 Crowley
I guess I'm going to bed.
Glacier Bay Cove
08:44:36 Arctic Katz
Charm art is gorgeous
MakeEm Fancy
08:44:26 Ally 💜
He is the sweetest boy! He actually was my husband and I's first dog together but because of us having extended hospital stays he ended up bonding with my moms border collie plus he is huge so we decided to let him stay with them <3 We visit often though lol @Walker
Lucky
08:42:35 luvky
Fair enough, fair enough XD
it's been a long week haha
Mythological
08:41:49 Crowley
Exhausted. xD
Sleepwalker Centre
08:41:03 Walker
Ally,
ohh he's so handsome!! I love the "saddle" marking
Lucky
08:40:55 luvky
Myth
Not too bad :) just chilling for the most part
what about you?
MakeEm Fancy
08:40:18 Ally 💜
This is him @Walker
-Click-
Mythological
08:40:17 Crowley
How're you?
Sleepwalker Centre
08:39:35 Walker
luvky,
ohh that is a lot!!
Lucky
08:39:12 luvky
Mythy :)
Mythological
08:39:02 Crowley
My Luvky!
Lucky
08:38:19 luvky
walker
thank you! i've got 16 papers to sit over the next wee while, so a lot of studying to do hahha
Sleepwalker Centre
08:37:33 Walker
Ally,
that's reasonable!! this guy was about 3 years old when I got him haha

ohhh I love a big goof with a tail that could injure you
Morning Glory Farms
08:36:56 Terici/Dino/Trish
Ari, my P1 girl threw a WWW this year, and landed like 70ish on her breed board
Sleepwalker Centre
08:36:48 Walker
luvky,
good luck on exams!! I feel you, I'm finishing up two summer classes
Lucky
08:36:27 luvky
DD
heheh thank you!! hoping she trains well
MakeEm Fancy
08:36:27 Ally 💜
Im still working on potty training my puppy but he is only 2 months lol

Oh yes he is a rather interesting breed combo 🤣 He is a big goof and has a bat for a tail @Walker
Lucky
08:36:07 luvky
Ari
Rerolled her off snowflake appy (no clue why, i was just in a gamblingish mood hahah)
But yes! hoping i can snag some sort of item for her muma next RO

Ahh yeah bout the same over here. Exams are coming up and there's a fair bit of pressure but i'm managing
Sleepwalker Centre
08:35:07 Walker
Ally,
yeah!! he was basically not housetrained when I ended up with him, I had to keep him in my sight at all times or he would 100% make a mess somewhere for the first year at least

and ohh, that's an interesting mix! I love border collies, too

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Mythological
08:44:50 Crowley
I guess I'm going to bed.
Glacier Bay Cove
08:44:36 Arctic Katz
Charm art is gorgeous
MakeEm Fancy
08:44:26 Ally 💜
He is the sweetest boy! He actually was my husband and I's first dog together but because of us having extended hospital stays he ended up bonding with my moms border collie plus he is huge so we decided to let him stay with them <3 We visit often though lol @Walker
Lucky
08:42:35 luvky
Fair enough, fair enough XD
it's been a long week haha
Mythological
08:41:49 Crowley
Exhausted. xD
Sleepwalker Centre
08:41:03 Walker
Ally,
ohh he's so handsome!! I love the "saddle" marking
Lucky
08:40:55 luvky
Myth
Not too bad :) just chilling for the most part
what about you?
MakeEm Fancy
08:40:18 Ally 💜
This is him @Walker
-Click-
Mythological
08:40:17 Crowley
How're you?
Sleepwalker Centre
08:39:35 Walker
luvky,
ohh that is a lot!!
Lucky
08:39:12 luvky
Mythy :)
Mythological
08:39:02 Crowley
My Luvky!
Lucky
08:38:19 luvky
walker
thank you! i've got 16 papers to sit over the next wee while, so a lot of studying to do hahha
Sleepwalker Centre
08:37:33 Walker
Ally,
that's reasonable!! this guy was about 3 years old when I got him haha

ohhh I love a big goof with a tail that could injure you
Morning Glory Farms
08:36:56 Terici/Dino/Trish
Ari, my P1 girl threw a WWW this year, and landed like 70ish on her breed board
Sleepwalker Centre
08:36:48 Walker
luvky,
good luck on exams!! I feel you, I'm finishing up two summer classes
Lucky
08:36:27 luvky
DD
heheh thank you!! hoping she trains well
MakeEm Fancy
08:36:27 Ally 💜
Im still working on potty training my puppy but he is only 2 months lol

Oh yes he is a rather interesting breed combo 🤣 He is a big goof and has a bat for a tail @Walker
Lucky
08:36:07 luvky
Ari
Rerolled her off snowflake appy (no clue why, i was just in a gamblingish mood hahah)
But yes! hoping i can snag some sort of item for her muma next RO

Ahh yeah bout the same over here. Exams are coming up and there's a fair bit of pressure but i'm managing
Sleepwalker Centre
08:35:07 Walker
Ally,
yeah!! he was basically not housetrained when I ended up with him, I had to keep him in my sight at all times or he would 100% make a mess somewhere for the first year at least

and ohh, that's an interesting mix! I love border collies, too

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Sucky Work January 9, 2024 08:19 PM

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I currently work as a CNA providing care for clients in their home. Overall, I enjoy my job and it pays well, but the company I work for who sets up your schedule and what not really sucks.

To get to the point, about a month ago I told them that starting in January I could only work 15 hours a week because I am in school and my classes this semester are homework intensive.

A couple days ago, they called me and told me they need me to work 20 hours a week and I felt forced to say yes. I was hoping to make it work, but I learned that I really need those extra 5 hours for studying. You may be wondering why I said yes in the first place and the answer is because everytime I have said no to requests like this, they tell me I still have to do it. So basically they ask you out of courtesy, but if you give an answer they don't like they force you to do it.

Next week I am planning on telling them I am sorry, but I can't keep my commitment to work 20 hours a week because I don't have enough time to do my schoolwork. I know they will guilt trip me and tell me I still have to do it, so I guess my question is how do I respond?

Do I tell them I felt like I had no choice but to say yes in the first place? Do I threaten to quit? Honestly, if they can't respect my request to only work 15 hours a week I will quit because I am in school to get a better paying job which takes priority. However, I would much rather keep this job if possible because it pays well for a CNA.

Edited at January 9, 2024 08:29 PM by Shadow Ridge Ranch
Sucky Work January 9, 2024 08:54 PM


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If you already told them you can only work 15 hours a week, stick with that. Don't beat around the bush or sugarcoat it with too many "I'm sorry, but...". Sometimes you need to be a little assertive, otherwise, they'll keep asking you to work longer.
Sucky Work January 11, 2024 12:20 PM

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I have spent the last 4 days trying to cope with going into work and doing schoolwork and I have already decided there isn't enough time for me to do both so I put in my two weeks notice.

My classes this semester are pretty intense and require a lot of effort so even only working 15 hours a week doesn't give me enough time.


Edited at January 11, 2024 12:21 PM by Shadow Ridge Ranch
Sucky Work January 11, 2024 12:35 PM


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I think you made the right choice<3
Sucky Work January 11, 2024 07:58 PM


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I walked off a job when the scheduler where I worked tried to force me into working more than I could. She nearly killed me two or three times all ready with over work. So you made the right call in putting in your two weeks notice.
Sucky Work January 18, 2024 06:45 AM


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As someone who's in university and also working about 20 hours a week, I understand the feeling and I think you made the right decision. It is quite a lot of effort to maintain a part time job while also keeping up with full time studies especially if your courses are homework intensive and require lots of time spent outside of the classroom. If the company can't respect your scheduling requests then it's probably better to just focus on school, or if you really want, try and find somewhere that's more accommodating of your scheduling needs.
I work as a supervisor at a grocery store and while my boss was definitely not happy about me telling her I can only do three days a week, she ultimately did respect that.
Sucky Work January 25, 2024 12:28 PM

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It is my second to last day and they asked me to work an extra shift today. I told them no and they responded by telling me I don't have a choice and that they are adding it to my schedule. I would walk out, but then I would be abandoning my client which I can't do.

I am not holding back at the exit interview tomorrow. I'm going to tell them just how shitty it has been working for them.

Edited at January 25, 2024 12:31 PM by Shadow Ridge Ranch
Sucky Work January 25, 2024 02:08 PM


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I am so sorry it is so hard. Why do bosses not listen? Don't they want to keep your experience?
You have to be tough to ensure your future. You have made the correct decision.

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