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Sunni
10:35:20 Sunni bunny
He had a cavity and wasn't gonna even let them look.
XC
Down South Stud
10:35:07 
I love my stallion but i also would love if he wouldnt add insult to injury and make pretty colts, like sir. Make ugly geldable colts 😭
Sunni
10:34:44 Sunni bunny
Versa with my son not gonna lie...we have to pin and hold him down.
I genuinely feel horrible doing it.
But for the dentist he cannot be awake at all.
He just had a full blown meltdown.
We even changed dentist that specializes in autistic children.
Versailles
10:34:22 Versa
Oh, orange juice actually sounds really yummy right now...
Sunni
10:32:49 Sunni bunny
Down south, not gonna lie the first time I had blood drawn I passed out. XD I was around 18ish I think.
I scared my mom so bad I laughed afterwards.
What's weird is I didn't have a panic attack from it.
It just made me feel extremely tired after.
Guess my blood sugar was low are something.
Orange juice helped.
Hummingbird Meadows
10:32:41 Bird
I work in the medical field. I am positive they aren't going to sedate for shot.
Versailles
10:32:34 Versa
Sunni,
Odd. I mean, I was never rude or mean to my doctors in any way. Never tried to hit them or run away. *Maybe* I could see it for a kid more likely to lash out, but I dunno
Down South Stud
10:31:21 
I would have loved to have been doped up when i was a kid lol, i get blood tests regularly so i just say screw it lol
Sunni
10:31:13 Sunni bunny
Versa, I guess it depends case to Case.
Sunni
10:29:37 Sunni bunny
Star that would be a good question for a doctor.
Versailles
10:28:46 Versa
Sunni,
For sure. But the idea of someone sedating a kid to make them take the needle is outlandish. Never heard of it lol
Sunni
10:28:16 Sunni bunny
Versa a fear of needles is pretty common.
Versailles
10:23:45 Versa
I was HORRIFIED of shots when I was a kid. Like, crying, shaking, stressed, pacing, and overall a wreck. Never once did they ever mention doing that to me. Orally or otherwise
Down South Stud
10:22:40 
As a stud colt anyway
Purnima
10:22:26 Alex
Sounds good, thank you!
Down South Stud
10:22:01 
Id keep him and watch his training first alex
Hummingbird Meadows
10:21:45 Bird
I doubt they would even prescribe something to take orally.
Snitches' Stitches
10:20:45 Snitch
Star
That's really a doctor question, but probably not unless it's for life saving measures. Might just give the kid a chill pill like trazadone or something before the appointment
Hummingbird Meadows
10:19:48 Bird
@Star, I don't think they would ever do that. Sedation is typically given with an IV anyways.
Snitches' Stitches
10:19:27 Snitch
Alex
If you're not planning on breeding him, then gelding would be best for his training

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Sunni
10:35:20 Sunni bunny
He had a cavity and wasn't gonna even let them look.
XC
Down South Stud
10:35:07 
I love my stallion but i also would love if he wouldnt add insult to injury and make pretty colts, like sir. Make ugly geldable colts 😭
Sunni
10:34:44 Sunni bunny
Versa with my son not gonna lie...we have to pin and hold him down.
I genuinely feel horrible doing it.
But for the dentist he cannot be awake at all.
He just had a full blown meltdown.
We even changed dentist that specializes in autistic children.
Versailles
10:34:22 Versa
Oh, orange juice actually sounds really yummy right now...
Sunni
10:32:49 Sunni bunny
Down south, not gonna lie the first time I had blood drawn I passed out. XD I was around 18ish I think.
I scared my mom so bad I laughed afterwards.
What's weird is I didn't have a panic attack from it.
It just made me feel extremely tired after.
Guess my blood sugar was low are something.
Orange juice helped.
Hummingbird Meadows
10:32:41 Bird
I work in the medical field. I am positive they aren't going to sedate for shot.
Versailles
10:32:34 Versa
Sunni,
Odd. I mean, I was never rude or mean to my doctors in any way. Never tried to hit them or run away. *Maybe* I could see it for a kid more likely to lash out, but I dunno
Down South Stud
10:31:21 
I would have loved to have been doped up when i was a kid lol, i get blood tests regularly so i just say screw it lol
Sunni
10:31:13 Sunni bunny
Versa, I guess it depends case to Case.
Sunni
10:29:37 Sunni bunny
Star that would be a good question for a doctor.
Versailles
10:28:46 Versa
Sunni,
For sure. But the idea of someone sedating a kid to make them take the needle is outlandish. Never heard of it lol
Sunni
10:28:16 Sunni bunny
Versa a fear of needles is pretty common.
Versailles
10:23:45 Versa
I was HORRIFIED of shots when I was a kid. Like, crying, shaking, stressed, pacing, and overall a wreck. Never once did they ever mention doing that to me. Orally or otherwise
Down South Stud
10:22:40 
As a stud colt anyway
Purnima
10:22:26 Alex
Sounds good, thank you!
Down South Stud
10:22:01 
Id keep him and watch his training first alex
Hummingbird Meadows
10:21:45 Bird
I doubt they would even prescribe something to take orally.
Snitches' Stitches
10:20:45 Snitch
Star
That's really a doctor question, but probably not unless it's for life saving measures. Might just give the kid a chill pill like trazadone or something before the appointment
Hummingbird Meadows
10:19:48 Bird
@Star, I don't think they would ever do that. Sedation is typically given with an IV anyways.
Snitches' Stitches
10:19:27 Snitch
Alex
If you're not planning on breeding him, then gelding would be best for his training

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Riding Issues January 21, 2022 04:21 PM


Dusk acres
 
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*Disclaimer, I did not know whether to put this in the snark factory or the paddock so if this is in the wrong category please forgive!*

So I've been riding for 4(?) years now. I'm only just now learning how to canter! I feel like at first I was learning a ton and progressing each lesson. But now I just to the same trot work to "Fix my lower leg" but alas, 6 months went by and no progress. I barely ever canter and when I do it's just my instructor saying "no, no! Wrong leg! Wrong leg! Are you listening?!" I used to think it was fine but then my friend started cantering in just a year. Should I get a new instructor? Or am I just a slow learner?

Riding Issues January 21, 2022 04:37 PM


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Everyone learns at a different pace. 'Wrong leg' doesn't tell you much. Does your instructor go into more detail ? You might ask them to show you what they mean.
Riding Issues January 21, 2022 04:39 PM


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As an instructor, I have kids that are ready to canter in six months and kids that are ready in two years and some that will simply never be at that level. Cantering is faster and more unsteady and any weaknesses a rider has at the trot are going to create a dangerous situation at the canter. Everybody learns at their own pace.
The kids that are easiest to teach are the ones that actually put in the work and TRUST me. When I say "heels down", they put their heels down, even if it feels wrong because they've grown used to having their heels up. In this sport, if you're not uncomfortable, you're not going to improve. It's like writing with your opposite hand. Of course it feels wrong. You've been doing it a different way for your whole life. But once you push through that discomfort, and you can write left handed or put your heels down, then a whole world opens up to you.
That being said, it is highly possible that you and your coach aren't meshing. It may be worth visiting another barn, if what she says and how she says it isn't clicking with you. There's nothing wrong with needing a different type of instruction.
Riding Issues January 21, 2022 04:39 PM


Dusk acres
 
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Ive asked them, apparently im cueing for the canter with the wrong leg, ive tried to fix it but nothing workes ; (

SandWitch Arabians said:
Everyone learns at a different pace. 'Wrong leg' doesn't tell you much. Does your instructor go into more detail ? You might ask them to show you what they mean.


Riding Issues January 21, 2022 04:40 PM


Dusk acres
 
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FirstLightFarms said:
As an instructor, I have kids that are ready to canter in six months and kids that are ready in two years and some that will simply never be at that level. Cantering is faster and more unsteady and any weaknesses a rider has at the trot are going to create a dangerous situation at the canter. Everybody learns at their own pace.
The kids that are easiest to teach are the ones that actually put in the work and TRUST me. When I say "heels down", they put their heels down, even if it feels wrong because they've grown used to having their heels up. In this sport, if you're not uncomfortable, you're not going to improve. It's like writing with your opposite hand. Of course it feels wrong. You've been doing it a different way for your whole life. But once you push through that discomfort, and you can write left handed or put your heels down, then a whole world opens up to you.
That being said, it is highly possible that you and your coach aren't meshing. It may be worth visiting another barn, if what she says and how she says it isn't clicking with you. There's nothing wrong with needing a different type of instruction.


Riding Issues January 22, 2022 03:57 PM


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I teach younger kids occasionally, and one thing i can tell you is that everybody had different progress levels. Its taken me 8 years of riding 3 times a week to get me at the level im at. Its hard work!
But i understand its hard. Especially in canter, which is a very different pace to walk or trot! its hard to get used too sometimes. Try talking to your coach about explaining things a little better and more thouroughly. Just like you, i spent 4 years just really learning how to master walk trot and canter before i started jumping and doing dressage and more complicated stuff! a piece of advice ill give you is to not be afraid to stop, take a breath and talk to your instructor about whats going on. If they are telling you "wrong leg!" ask them how to fix it. Ask them how to show you how to get on the correct leg. It took me 4 years to finally realize all i had to do was ask, and stop being scared of my horse and my instructor. If you ever need riding advice for cantering, leg positioning, whatever, just message me! im not a professional by any means but ive been riding for a while now, on a lot of different horses. And just like you its taken me many many years of training to progress! Just remember to always have fun and enjoy everything <3
Riding Issues August 16, 2022 10:23 AM


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I switched instructors and and now can canter!
Riding Issues August 21, 2022 02:24 AM


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Yay, that's so exciting! I hope you're enjoying yourself!

I started riding when I was 6. I cantered on my first ride and properly learned how to canter within the first week.

not only is each rider diffrent, but each instructor is different too. Some don't know how to teach beginners, some don't know how to teach advanced riders. Some(often the ones who had to work harder at it and may not be 'naturally talented') are really good at explaining 'things' thoroughly and clearly(and will re-explain it if asked), and others(often the 'naturally talented' riders) can't or don't know how to explain 'things' properly. It's just a matter of finding an instructor that not only suits your needs, but one who you can trust(and who trusts you), and who will explain 'things' to your understanding. Also one that you get along with, because that is also very important.

I hope you like your new instructor!

Riding Issues August 21, 2022 04:19 PM


Dusk acres
 
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Thank you so much! My old instuctors teaching style did not fit well with my learning style and it took me 3 years to understand that, now im doing so much better and learning so much more!

Helderfontein said:

Yay, that's so exciting! I hope you're enjoying yourself!

I started riding when I was 6. I cantered on my first ride and properly learned how to canter within the first week.

not only is each rider diffrent, but each instructor is different too. Some don't know how to teach beginners, some don't know how to teach advanced riders. Some(often the ones who had to work harder at it and may not be 'naturally talented') are really good at explaining 'things' thoroughly and clearly(and will re-explain it if asked), and others(often the 'naturally talented' riders) can't or don't know how to explain 'things' properly. It's just a matter of finding an instructor that not only suits your needs, but one who you can trust(and who trusts you), and who will explain 'things' to your understanding. Also one that you get along with, because that is also very important.

I hope you like your new instructor!



Riding Issues August 22, 2022 09:22 PM


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Yay, glad to hear it!

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