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Calela Eventing
07:14:17 Cali
Well, I'm going to go and torture myself by socialising. Enjoy actual peace
Calela Eventing
07:13:46 Cali
Alpine
I almost mistook you for DD lol
Your guys colours are similar
Rubygem
07:13:36 Asha ~ Ruby girl :D
-HEE Click-
Yay another wierd name by my sister lol
Mythological
07:13:21 Crowley
DD
Tell me how to make her move! 😭😂
Dash and Duchess
07:12:06 DD | ~Squizard~
Myth, oh yeah xD I kind of hope you make him get you one lol 😂
He sounds awesome lol! Bombproof horses are a gift to the world xD
Alpine Acres
07:11:16 Lily/Alpine
Cali
Oh I will for sure :D Looking forward to seeing how he's come along!
Dash and Duchess
07:09:53 DD | ~Squizard~
Min, xD Absolutely lol! Duchess already has some ...issues... under saddle (we're working on it 😅) but without a bridle, I'd be in the grass too xD
Calela Eventing
07:09:24 Cali
Alpine
When you get back I demand you come see prince, he doesn't look like an overgrown, underweight rat anymore
Mythological
07:08:51 Crowley
DD
Still needs a new halter. Brudy is a statue once mounted.
Dash and Duchess
07:07:48 DD | ~Squizard~
Myth, lol! I'd honestly take you up on that xD Duchess and Marley are...handfuls 😅
Calela Eventing
07:07:28 Cali
AL and SPI

I didn't mean it as completely bombproof, I was more going for he's very reliable.
My parents at first wouldn't let me ride bridleless period so they are warming up to it as they get it know my horse more.
I've found in my experience with horses that less is more.
He and I are more comfortable without a bit.
Jeez, kinda rambling on here. I'll stop now lol, leaving soon anyways
Minerva
07:07:22 Min
Haha DD thats such a mood. My mare would find the nearest patch of grass and that would be us done 🤣🤣
Alpine Acres
07:07:14 Lily/Alpine
I haven't ridden for almost 6 months now due to travelling...so I'm pretty nervous to start at a new riding school after being so comfortable at my old one
Dash and Duchess
07:07:00 DD | ~Squizard~
Myth, speaking of, how is May? :D
Mythological
07:06:48 Crowley
DD
I'll lend you Brudy lol
Mythological
07:06:21 Crowley
May will be mostly bit less here but if she ever goes to a show she WILL have a bit.
Dash and Duchess
07:06:08 DD | ~Squizard~
I honestly really wish I could ride bridleless lol! It's super cool and seems super fun, unfortunately the only horse who wouldn't leave me in another county in about 3 minutes is a chunky lil pony I ride on occasion XD
Alpine Acres
07:05:58 Lily/Alpine
Cali
I agree with Min, meet in the middle by going bitless. That way everyone else will be happy and you will have some form of control if something was to happen. But I totally understand where you're coming from
Mythological
07:05:05 Crowley
Cali
Doesn't matter, shit happens. Horses can be unpredictable. It only takes once for either of you to be seriously hurt. 😕
Alpine Acres
07:03:58 Lily/Alpine
I'm also really into bridleless. After switching from one riding school to the next and learning a few things along the way, I'm a strong believer in bridleless and bitless riding and refuse to ride in harsh bits (such as pelhams) anymore. I've ridden with lots of different trainers and they all have very different opinions, but in the end I think it's up to you to form your own opinion :)

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Calela Eventing
07:14:17 Cali
Well, I'm going to go and torture myself by socialising. Enjoy actual peace
Calela Eventing
07:13:46 Cali
Alpine
I almost mistook you for DD lol
Your guys colours are similar
Rubygem
07:13:36 Asha ~ Ruby girl :D
-HEE Click-
Yay another wierd name by my sister lol
Mythological
07:13:21 Crowley
DD
Tell me how to make her move! 😭😂
Dash and Duchess
07:12:06 DD | ~Squizard~
Myth, oh yeah xD I kind of hope you make him get you one lol 😂
He sounds awesome lol! Bombproof horses are a gift to the world xD
Alpine Acres
07:11:16 Lily/Alpine
Cali
Oh I will for sure :D Looking forward to seeing how he's come along!
Dash and Duchess
07:09:53 DD | ~Squizard~
Min, xD Absolutely lol! Duchess already has some ...issues... under saddle (we're working on it 😅) but without a bridle, I'd be in the grass too xD
Calela Eventing
07:09:24 Cali
Alpine
When you get back I demand you come see prince, he doesn't look like an overgrown, underweight rat anymore
Mythological
07:08:51 Crowley
DD
Still needs a new halter. Brudy is a statue once mounted.
Dash and Duchess
07:07:48 DD | ~Squizard~
Myth, lol! I'd honestly take you up on that xD Duchess and Marley are...handfuls 😅
Calela Eventing
07:07:28 Cali
AL and SPI

I didn't mean it as completely bombproof, I was more going for he's very reliable.
My parents at first wouldn't let me ride bridleless period so they are warming up to it as they get it know my horse more.
I've found in my experience with horses that less is more.
He and I are more comfortable without a bit.
Jeez, kinda rambling on here. I'll stop now lol, leaving soon anyways
Minerva
07:07:22 Min
Haha DD thats such a mood. My mare would find the nearest patch of grass and that would be us done 🤣🤣
Alpine Acres
07:07:14 Lily/Alpine
I haven't ridden for almost 6 months now due to travelling...so I'm pretty nervous to start at a new riding school after being so comfortable at my old one
Dash and Duchess
07:07:00 DD | ~Squizard~
Myth, speaking of, how is May? :D
Mythological
07:06:48 Crowley
DD
I'll lend you Brudy lol
Mythological
07:06:21 Crowley
May will be mostly bit less here but if she ever goes to a show she WILL have a bit.
Dash and Duchess
07:06:08 DD | ~Squizard~
I honestly really wish I could ride bridleless lol! It's super cool and seems super fun, unfortunately the only horse who wouldn't leave me in another county in about 3 minutes is a chunky lil pony I ride on occasion XD
Alpine Acres
07:05:58 Lily/Alpine
Cali
I agree with Min, meet in the middle by going bitless. That way everyone else will be happy and you will have some form of control if something was to happen. But I totally understand where you're coming from
Mythological
07:05:05 Crowley
Cali
Doesn't matter, shit happens. Horses can be unpredictable. It only takes once for either of you to be seriously hurt. 😕
Alpine Acres
07:03:58 Lily/Alpine
I'm also really into bridleless. After switching from one riding school to the next and learning a few things along the way, I'm a strong believer in bridleless and bitless riding and refuse to ride in harsh bits (such as pelhams) anymore. I've ridden with lots of different trainers and they all have very different opinions, but in the end I think it's up to you to form your own opinion :)

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Riding Issues January 21, 2022 04:21 PM


Dusk acres
 
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*Disclaimer, I did not know whether to put this in the snark factory or the paddock so if this is in the wrong category please forgive!*

So I've been riding for 4(?) years now. I'm only just now learning how to canter! I feel like at first I was learning a ton and progressing each lesson. But now I just to the same trot work to "Fix my lower leg" but alas, 6 months went by and no progress. I barely ever canter and when I do it's just my instructor saying "no, no! Wrong leg! Wrong leg! Are you listening?!" I used to think it was fine but then my friend started cantering in just a year. Should I get a new instructor? Or am I just a slow learner?

Riding Issues January 21, 2022 04:37 PM


SandWitch Arabians
 
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Everyone learns at a different pace. 'Wrong leg' doesn't tell you much. Does your instructor go into more detail ? You might ask them to show you what they mean.
Riding Issues January 21, 2022 04:39 PM


FirstLightFarms

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As an instructor, I have kids that are ready to canter in six months and kids that are ready in two years and some that will simply never be at that level. Cantering is faster and more unsteady and any weaknesses a rider has at the trot are going to create a dangerous situation at the canter. Everybody learns at their own pace.
The kids that are easiest to teach are the ones that actually put in the work and TRUST me. When I say "heels down", they put their heels down, even if it feels wrong because they've grown used to having their heels up. In this sport, if you're not uncomfortable, you're not going to improve. It's like writing with your opposite hand. Of course it feels wrong. You've been doing it a different way for your whole life. But once you push through that discomfort, and you can write left handed or put your heels down, then a whole world opens up to you.
That being said, it is highly possible that you and your coach aren't meshing. It may be worth visiting another barn, if what she says and how she says it isn't clicking with you. There's nothing wrong with needing a different type of instruction.
Riding Issues January 21, 2022 04:39 PM


Dusk acres
 
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Ive asked them, apparently im cueing for the canter with the wrong leg, ive tried to fix it but nothing workes ; (

SandWitch Arabians said:
Everyone learns at a different pace. 'Wrong leg' doesn't tell you much. Does your instructor go into more detail ? You might ask them to show you what they mean.


Riding Issues January 21, 2022 04:40 PM


Dusk acres
 
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FirstLightFarms said:
As an instructor, I have kids that are ready to canter in six months and kids that are ready in two years and some that will simply never be at that level. Cantering is faster and more unsteady and any weaknesses a rider has at the trot are going to create a dangerous situation at the canter. Everybody learns at their own pace.
The kids that are easiest to teach are the ones that actually put in the work and TRUST me. When I say "heels down", they put their heels down, even if it feels wrong because they've grown used to having their heels up. In this sport, if you're not uncomfortable, you're not going to improve. It's like writing with your opposite hand. Of course it feels wrong. You've been doing it a different way for your whole life. But once you push through that discomfort, and you can write left handed or put your heels down, then a whole world opens up to you.
That being said, it is highly possible that you and your coach aren't meshing. It may be worth visiting another barn, if what she says and how she says it isn't clicking with you. There's nothing wrong with needing a different type of instruction.


Riding Issues January 22, 2022 03:57 PM


Thistleberry Farm
 
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I teach younger kids occasionally, and one thing i can tell you is that everybody had different progress levels. Its taken me 8 years of riding 3 times a week to get me at the level im at. Its hard work!
But i understand its hard. Especially in canter, which is a very different pace to walk or trot! its hard to get used too sometimes. Try talking to your coach about explaining things a little better and more thouroughly. Just like you, i spent 4 years just really learning how to master walk trot and canter before i started jumping and doing dressage and more complicated stuff! a piece of advice ill give you is to not be afraid to stop, take a breath and talk to your instructor about whats going on. If they are telling you "wrong leg!" ask them how to fix it. Ask them how to show you how to get on the correct leg. It took me 4 years to finally realize all i had to do was ask, and stop being scared of my horse and my instructor. If you ever need riding advice for cantering, leg positioning, whatever, just message me! im not a professional by any means but ive been riding for a while now, on a lot of different horses. And just like you its taken me many many years of training to progress! Just remember to always have fun and enjoy everything <3
Riding Issues August 16, 2022 10:23 AM


Dusk acres
 
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I switched instructors and and now can canter!
Riding Issues August 21, 2022 02:24 AM


Helderfontein
 
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Yay, that's so exciting! I hope you're enjoying yourself!

I started riding when I was 6. I cantered on my first ride and properly learned how to canter within the first week.

not only is each rider diffrent, but each instructor is different too. Some don't know how to teach beginners, some don't know how to teach advanced riders. Some(often the ones who had to work harder at it and may not be 'naturally talented') are really good at explaining 'things' thoroughly and clearly(and will re-explain it if asked), and others(often the 'naturally talented' riders) can't or don't know how to explain 'things' properly. It's just a matter of finding an instructor that not only suits your needs, but one who you can trust(and who trusts you), and who will explain 'things' to your understanding. Also one that you get along with, because that is also very important.

I hope you like your new instructor!

Riding Issues August 21, 2022 04:19 PM


Dusk acres
 
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Thank you so much! My old instuctors teaching style did not fit well with my learning style and it took me 3 years to understand that, now im doing so much better and learning so much more!

Helderfontein said:

Yay, that's so exciting! I hope you're enjoying yourself!

I started riding when I was 6. I cantered on my first ride and properly learned how to canter within the first week.

not only is each rider diffrent, but each instructor is different too. Some don't know how to teach beginners, some don't know how to teach advanced riders. Some(often the ones who had to work harder at it and may not be 'naturally talented') are really good at explaining 'things' thoroughly and clearly(and will re-explain it if asked), and others(often the 'naturally talented' riders) can't or don't know how to explain 'things' properly. It's just a matter of finding an instructor that not only suits your needs, but one who you can trust(and who trusts you), and who will explain 'things' to your understanding. Also one that you get along with, because that is also very important.

I hope you like your new instructor!



Riding Issues August 22, 2022 09:22 PM


Helderfontein
 
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Yay, glad to hear it!

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