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Rainbow
10:12:00 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
People are weird in general lol
Tobiano Lady
10:09:57 Tobi 👻
People are weird for being weird about divorced parents.
Rainbow
10:06:45 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
Oh wow, yeah, you were an infant! Whatever your parents did has nothing to do with you at that point. I don't know why someone would judge a kid for having divorced parents. That's just wild.
Lunar Wilds
10:06:38 Lux - AAs
Bird
He didn’t realize, he backtracked some once he was told but he also had a habit of mansplaining that made it very funny to be a part of haha
Hummingbird Meadows
10:05:25 Bird
@Lux, sounds like he needed to vent. That or didn't realize everyone at the table had divorced parents. XD
Lunar Wilds
10:05:10 Lux - AAs
Bird
I’m sorry they were so close minded about it
Lunar Wilds
10:04:35 Lux - AAs
Bird
I once went on a double date where the other’s guy talked about how traumatic their parents amicable divorce was and how we didn’t know how divorce could be damaging for kids (they were 17 when it happened). While divorce can be traumatic and damaging, he was talking to a table full of people with divorced parents
Hummingbird Meadows
10:03:44 Bird
@Rainy, I have been looked down on it for my whole life even though I wasn't even 1 when it happened. It sucks.
Rainbow
10:03:06 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
That's a shame. It's not like you had any control over that!
Rainbow
10:02:28 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Tobi
Yeah, it can be annoying for sure. I think everyone does it to a degree, though.

Hummingbird Meadows
09:58:10 Bird
This was a different guy too, not the tree guy.
Hummingbird Meadows
09:57:54 Bird
On a different date the guy wanted to know about what it's like being a kid to divorced parents. He was extremely turned off by the fact my parents were divorced. =/
Hummingbird Meadows
09:56:31 Bird
I think it was the fact that he talked about his special interest and himself for the whole hour and a half that bothered me.
Snitches' Stitches
09:55:45 Snitch
Trees in general. He always had to stop whatever we were doing and identify them
Afterglow Radio
09:55:14 Tobi | SA
Yeah the special interest talk isn't bad. Just can be for the wrong person lol

The talking about yourself the whole time tho?? That's crazy. I always worry that I talk too much about myself just in one simple conversation lol
Hummingbird Meadows
09:54:12 Bird
@Snitch, was he fascinated with tree rings too?
Rainbow
09:54:07 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Then again, I'm very likely to talk people's ears off about my special interests, so yannow. No one's perfect lol.
Snitches' Stitches
09:53:51 Snitch
Bird
You literally just described my ex lmao
MakeEm Fancy
09:49:46 Ally 💜
XD
Rainbow
09:49:14 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
Oh lord. That's how to impress a lady (I'm assuming), wow her with tree facts and make sure to emphasize how great you are (sarcasm)

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Rainbow
10:12:00 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
People are weird in general lol
Tobiano Lady
10:09:57 Tobi 👻
People are weird for being weird about divorced parents.
Rainbow
10:06:45 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
Oh wow, yeah, you were an infant! Whatever your parents did has nothing to do with you at that point. I don't know why someone would judge a kid for having divorced parents. That's just wild.
Lunar Wilds
10:06:38 Lux - AAs
Bird
He didn’t realize, he backtracked some once he was told but he also had a habit of mansplaining that made it very funny to be a part of haha
Hummingbird Meadows
10:05:25 Bird
@Lux, sounds like he needed to vent. That or didn't realize everyone at the table had divorced parents. XD
Lunar Wilds
10:05:10 Lux - AAs
Bird
I’m sorry they were so close minded about it
Lunar Wilds
10:04:35 Lux - AAs
Bird
I once went on a double date where the other’s guy talked about how traumatic their parents amicable divorce was and how we didn’t know how divorce could be damaging for kids (they were 17 when it happened). While divorce can be traumatic and damaging, he was talking to a table full of people with divorced parents
Hummingbird Meadows
10:03:44 Bird
@Rainy, I have been looked down on it for my whole life even though I wasn't even 1 when it happened. It sucks.
Rainbow
10:03:06 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
That's a shame. It's not like you had any control over that!
Rainbow
10:02:28 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Tobi
Yeah, it can be annoying for sure. I think everyone does it to a degree, though.

Hummingbird Meadows
09:58:10 Bird
This was a different guy too, not the tree guy.
Hummingbird Meadows
09:57:54 Bird
On a different date the guy wanted to know about what it's like being a kid to divorced parents. He was extremely turned off by the fact my parents were divorced. =/
Hummingbird Meadows
09:56:31 Bird
I think it was the fact that he talked about his special interest and himself for the whole hour and a half that bothered me.
Snitches' Stitches
09:55:45 Snitch
Trees in general. He always had to stop whatever we were doing and identify them
Afterglow Radio
09:55:14 Tobi | SA
Yeah the special interest talk isn't bad. Just can be for the wrong person lol

The talking about yourself the whole time tho?? That's crazy. I always worry that I talk too much about myself just in one simple conversation lol
Hummingbird Meadows
09:54:12 Bird
@Snitch, was he fascinated with tree rings too?
Rainbow
09:54:07 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Then again, I'm very likely to talk people's ears off about my special interests, so yannow. No one's perfect lol.
Snitches' Stitches
09:53:51 Snitch
Bird
You literally just described my ex lmao
MakeEm Fancy
09:49:46 Ally 💜
XD
Rainbow
09:49:14 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
Oh lord. That's how to impress a lady (I'm assuming), wow her with tree facts and make sure to emphasize how great you are (sarcasm)

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Life sucks July 4, 2025 02:08 PM


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It is so hard to live each day with a man who loves money and beer. I know he cares but it isn't enough. I have no friends, no one I can talk to because 6 years ago I moved 1800 miles from my home. The one sister I have here barely speaks to me. I am so lonely. I have no money to do anything or go anywhere. I know I made my own bed and have to lie in it. I really miss my home and friends, but they have pretty much move on without me, so going back isn't the answer even if I could afford it. I never should have moved.
Life sucks July 4, 2025 04:38 PM


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This sounds so hard, I am so sorry you have to go through this. Please know that so many people's inboxes on here are open and friendly. It's not the same as talking in person, but every little thing helps. If you need to vent or simply ask advice, I am available and so are so many others. You are loved <3
Life sucks July 14, 2025 10:10 AM


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Oh my dear.
You don't have to lie in this bed, I know it not the same, but remember Tina Turner. Make a plan, it may take 6 months or a year, get out when you can.
My sister's husband kept wasting their money, she had to get out. Now she has a small bungalow by the sea, no mortgage. He is renting a flat.
Hard, hard, but you are the only one one who can make that change.
God bless and good luck.

Edited at July 14, 2025 10:11 AM by ZeroZero
Life sucks July 14, 2025 01:37 PM


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ZeroZero said:
Oh my dear.
You don't have to lie in this bed, I know it not the same, but remember Tina Turner. Make a plan, it may take 6 months or a year, get out when you can.
My sister's husband kept wasting their money, she had to get out. Now she has a small bungalow by the sea, no mortgage. He is renting a flat.
Hard, hard, but you are the only one one who can make that change.
God bless and good luck.


I find this to be very kind wisdom. Please, consider what Zero said! I promise things do get better <3
Life sucks July 14, 2025 03:03 PM


Stormsong Manor

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I'm really sorry to hear you're having a hard time <3 If you're unable to relocate back to where your family and friends are, and feel alone, I would look for volunteer opportunities, community groups or clubs, a public library, etc, just to maybe make a friend or two (or even a friend group!) for some support. If you're able to work, a part-time job is also a really good start, provided you have reliable transportation. It's way easier said than done, I know, but we have your back here, and there's always a reason to push forward to happier times <3
Life sucks July 14, 2025 09:07 PM


Cadence Farms

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If your boyfriend struggles with addiction there are some support groups for loved ones of addicts. (For people whose have loved ones with addiction, not the loved one) Al-Anon is in a lot of cities. If you feel more comfortable with online help, Al-Anon has some support online. You can pm me if you need help finding support. There are some unoffical forums as well. Sorry you are going through this. :(

Edited at July 14, 2025 09:33 PM by Cadence Farms
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Sending lots of love and prayers <3
You'll get through it and everyone here and most in RL are there to help you <3
My inbox is open if you need

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