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MakeEm Fancy
10:36:54 Ally 💜
Mother in laws are ridiculous
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:36:49 Fog
These hoes really are thinking they birthed your child!! The audacity
Snitches' Stitches
10:36:07 Snitch
My ex's parents were part of the reason I broke up with him, among other things. I didn't want to be their family 😣
Wraithcry Farm
10:36:07 Trigger 🐾
Her number 1 thing is being obsessed with me and hubby having children when we currently have no desire to be parents. She gets sneaky though. The lady bought a whole wardrobe for our kid that is not happening.
MakeEm Fancy
10:35:29 Ally 💜
And then my husbands step mom thinks that if she is hateful to us we will change our daughters name 🀦🏻‍♀️ like its not changing 🀣
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:35:08 Fog
Oh 100%, Ally! I've heard so many stories in fb groups (in-law groups) of their mother in law just showing up and demanding to be in the delivery room

Agreed, Sting!!
MakeEm Fancy
10:34:20 Ally 💜
My mother in law is the same. She doesnt understand that no means no @Trigger
Wraithcry Farm
10:33:29 Trigger 🐾
She is just pushy. I have to repeat tell her no and when you already deal with childish adults for 80 hours or more a week working for social services you really really really do not want to deal with that outside of it. So I just blocked her. But I am the drama. Make it make sense.
Narran Park
10:33:25 Sting
Offt. Normalize cutting toxic people off, Including family.
They're for the streets.
MakeEm Fancy
10:33:25 Ally 💜
I honestly know that if we would have told her she would be at the hospital despite our wishes to not have people around besides of course who we wanted in the delivery room. She has no control and thinks she is entitled to so much when she isnt
Lucky Ranch
10:32:28 luhckeigh
My MIL is lovely my own mother leaves some things to be desired thoughπŸ˜‚πŸ₯²
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:31:40 Fog
Love that for you, Ally! My in-laws haven't met our son, who is now three. Lifes good <3
MakeEm Fancy
10:30:57 Ally 💜
You should have seen her reaction when we didnt tell her I was at the hospital and waited days until we told her we had the baby πŸ€— It was an amazing feeling and I 100% would do it again
MakeEm Fancy
10:29:16 Ally 💜
My mother in law crosses boundaries as well but since we rarely are around her anymore its becoming less and less which has been amazing
Wraithcry Farm
10:28:58 Trigger 🐾
Then runs to my husband and says “We do not do drama”

Ma’am, first off you were the one blowing up my phone, and secondly all I did was block you. What drama?
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:28:44 Fog
Don't get me started in mother in-laws lol!
Wraithcry Farm
10:27:48 Trigger 🐾
Sounds like my mother in law ally. Who repeatedly crosses boundaries until I said enough was enough and blocked her everywhere.
MakeEm Fancy
10:27:42 Ally 💜
Like the downright entitlement she thinks she has to think Im going to rename my child because she doesnt like the name πŸ™„ like no ma'am not happening
MakeEm Fancy
10:26:46 Ally 💜
I feel like its not just about kindness respect its about the dang entitlement people think they have in someones life. Im currently dealing and have dealt with a family member who thinks they can try to blackmail me into doing stuff or thinking they can dictate what I do and dont do....
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:24:23 Fog
Ooh looks exciting, Ally!!

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MakeEm Fancy
10:36:54 Ally 💜
Mother in laws are ridiculous
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:36:49 Fog
These hoes really are thinking they birthed your child!! The audacity
Snitches' Stitches
10:36:07 Snitch
My ex's parents were part of the reason I broke up with him, among other things. I didn't want to be their family 😣
Wraithcry Farm
10:36:07 Trigger 🐾
Her number 1 thing is being obsessed with me and hubby having children when we currently have no desire to be parents. She gets sneaky though. The lady bought a whole wardrobe for our kid that is not happening.
MakeEm Fancy
10:35:29 Ally 💜
And then my husbands step mom thinks that if she is hateful to us we will change our daughters name 🀦🏻‍♀️ like its not changing 🀣
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:35:08 Fog
Oh 100%, Ally! I've heard so many stories in fb groups (in-law groups) of their mother in law just showing up and demanding to be in the delivery room

Agreed, Sting!!
MakeEm Fancy
10:34:20 Ally 💜
My mother in law is the same. She doesnt understand that no means no @Trigger
Wraithcry Farm
10:33:29 Trigger 🐾
She is just pushy. I have to repeat tell her no and when you already deal with childish adults for 80 hours or more a week working for social services you really really really do not want to deal with that outside of it. So I just blocked her. But I am the drama. Make it make sense.
Narran Park
10:33:25 Sting
Offt. Normalize cutting toxic people off, Including family.
They're for the streets.
MakeEm Fancy
10:33:25 Ally 💜
I honestly know that if we would have told her she would be at the hospital despite our wishes to not have people around besides of course who we wanted in the delivery room. She has no control and thinks she is entitled to so much when she isnt
Lucky Ranch
10:32:28 luhckeigh
My MIL is lovely my own mother leaves some things to be desired thoughπŸ˜‚πŸ₯²
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:31:40 Fog
Love that for you, Ally! My in-laws haven't met our son, who is now three. Lifes good <3
MakeEm Fancy
10:30:57 Ally 💜
You should have seen her reaction when we didnt tell her I was at the hospital and waited days until we told her we had the baby πŸ€— It was an amazing feeling and I 100% would do it again
MakeEm Fancy
10:29:16 Ally 💜
My mother in law crosses boundaries as well but since we rarely are around her anymore its becoming less and less which has been amazing
Wraithcry Farm
10:28:58 Trigger 🐾
Then runs to my husband and says “We do not do drama”

Ma’am, first off you were the one blowing up my phone, and secondly all I did was block you. What drama?
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:28:44 Fog
Don't get me started in mother in-laws lol!
Wraithcry Farm
10:27:48 Trigger 🐾
Sounds like my mother in law ally. Who repeatedly crosses boundaries until I said enough was enough and blocked her everywhere.
MakeEm Fancy
10:27:42 Ally 💜
Like the downright entitlement she thinks she has to think Im going to rename my child because she doesnt like the name πŸ™„ like no ma'am not happening
MakeEm Fancy
10:26:46 Ally 💜
I feel like its not just about kindness respect its about the dang entitlement people think they have in someones life. Im currently dealing and have dealt with a family member who thinks they can try to blackmail me into doing stuff or thinking they can dictate what I do and dont do....
Foggy Mtn PONs
10:24:23 Fog
Ooh looks exciting, Ally!!

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Strengthening excercises July 12, 2023 01:57 PM


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I have 3 horses my self, and one younger girls boards her 18 year old Arab there. She rides once a week or so and allows me to ride him as well. He lost a ton of top line over the winter, and is overall pretty green. His owner also needs quite a bit of help with her seat. Anybody have any good horse and/or rider exercises? Bonus points if they can be done in or include a round pen!

Edited at July 12, 2023 01:58 PM by HMH Reality Check
Strengthening excercises July 12, 2023 05:26 PM


TenaciTea
 
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I would recommend lunging- may need to be done on a line for control reasons. Lots of trot work without someone on his back will help. He shouldn't just be moving around under saddle.
Also, walking/backing up and down hills to engage his hind end, and trotting poles/raised poles/cavalettis can help with that as well.
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These were all things we were advised to do with Zippy, and they've definitely helped- though his topline was in pretty good shape to begin with. I'm not as certain about rider seat, unless you have a specific example of what she's struggling with?

Edited at July 12, 2023 05:29 PM by TenaciTea
Strengthening excercises July 12, 2023 07:00 PM


FirstLightFarms

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Trail ride! Go on different terrains, up and down hills, across streams, etc etc. Nothing better for developing topline and seat
Strengthening excercises July 12, 2023 07:13 PM


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Flat work in a surcingle and over poles

Edited at July 12, 2023 07:14 PM by DaisyMeadowEventing
Strengthening excercises July 13, 2023 02:00 PM


Cadence Farms

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For the rider: trot/canter with no stirrups on the lunge.
Strengthening excercises July 13, 2023 02:19 PM


Bluebonnet Estates
 
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I used the have a... questionable seat 😅
what my trainer always did was put me on bareback and we walked over poles, and worked up to trot, that can help a lot and it helped me a ton. If the horse is not comfortable barwback then try the exercise with a saddle but stirrupless

Edited at July 13, 2023 03:08 PM by Bluebonnet Estates
Strengthening excercises July 14, 2023 09:19 AM


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Neck and leg stretches for the horse, balance exercises (without or without an excercise ball) and/or yoga for the rider. Or make her ride blindfolded so she's more focused on how she's sitting/moving with the horse. And I mean supervised riding in a controlled environment XD
Strengthening excercises July 15, 2023 09:12 AM


Wild Winnie Equine
 
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I would definitely recommend stirupless and/or bareback work along with balancing exercises on a lunge like having her sit tall and hold her arms out straight and into a circle motion. Another good thing is to have her lean back and picture the seat as if she's glued to it and being held down.
Strengthening excercises July 17, 2023 04:10 PM

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Riding without stirrups trotting and cantering on and off the lunge would help a lot. The first time I cantered without stirrups was off the lunge on a spicy horse lol.

Edited at July 17, 2023 04:13 PM by Tigerlily Valley

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