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Fantasy Horses
10:57:27 Fantasy | Fanta
Nice Solar! That's a good thing to be sidetracked by lol
Embervale Acres
10:37:28 Solar Phoenix
well...I got a little distracted breeding for a PPP XD
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Rainbow
10:12:00 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
People are weird in general lol
Tobiano Lady
10:09:57 Tobi 👻
People are weird for being weird about divorced parents.
Rainbow
10:06:45 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
Oh wow, yeah, you were an infant! Whatever your parents did has nothing to do with you at that point. I don't know why someone would judge a kid for having divorced parents. That's just wild.
Lunar Wilds
10:06:38 Lux - AAs
Bird
He didn’t realize, he backtracked some once he was told but he also had a habit of mansplaining that made it very funny to be a part of haha
Hummingbird Meadows
10:05:25 Bird
@Lux, sounds like he needed to vent. That or didn't realize everyone at the table had divorced parents. XD
Lunar Wilds
10:05:10 Lux - AAs
Bird
I’m sorry they were so close minded about it
Lunar Wilds
10:04:35 Lux - AAs
Bird
I once went on a double date where the other’s guy talked about how traumatic their parents amicable divorce was and how we didn’t know how divorce could be damaging for kids (they were 17 when it happened). While divorce can be traumatic and damaging, he was talking to a table full of people with divorced parents
Hummingbird Meadows
10:03:44 Bird
@Rainy, I have been looked down on it for my whole life even though I wasn't even 1 when it happened. It sucks.
Rainbow
10:03:06 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
That's a shame. It's not like you had any control over that!
Rainbow
10:02:28 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Tobi
Yeah, it can be annoying for sure. I think everyone does it to a degree, though.

Hummingbird Meadows
09:58:10 Bird
This was a different guy too, not the tree guy.
Hummingbird Meadows
09:57:54 Bird
On a different date the guy wanted to know about what it's like being a kid to divorced parents. He was extremely turned off by the fact my parents were divorced. =/
Hummingbird Meadows
09:56:31 Bird
I think it was the fact that he talked about his special interest and himself for the whole hour and a half that bothered me.
Snitches' Stitches
09:55:45 Snitch
Trees in general. He always had to stop whatever we were doing and identify them
Afterglow Radio
09:55:14 Tobi | SA
Yeah the special interest talk isn't bad. Just can be for the wrong person lol

The talking about yourself the whole time tho?? That's crazy. I always worry that I talk too much about myself just in one simple conversation lol
Hummingbird Meadows
09:54:12 Bird
@Snitch, was he fascinated with tree rings too?
Rainbow
09:54:07 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Then again, I'm very likely to talk people's ears off about my special interests, so yannow. No one's perfect lol.
Snitches' Stitches
09:53:51 Snitch
Bird
You literally just described my ex lmao

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Fantasy Horses
10:57:27 Fantasy | Fanta
Nice Solar! That's a good thing to be sidetracked by lol
Embervale Acres
10:37:28 Solar Phoenix
well...I got a little distracted breeding for a PPP XD
-HEE Click-
Rainbow
10:12:00 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
People are weird in general lol
Tobiano Lady
10:09:57 Tobi 👻
People are weird for being weird about divorced parents.
Rainbow
10:06:45 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
Oh wow, yeah, you were an infant! Whatever your parents did has nothing to do with you at that point. I don't know why someone would judge a kid for having divorced parents. That's just wild.
Lunar Wilds
10:06:38 Lux - AAs
Bird
He didn’t realize, he backtracked some once he was told but he also had a habit of mansplaining that made it very funny to be a part of haha
Hummingbird Meadows
10:05:25 Bird
@Lux, sounds like he needed to vent. That or didn't realize everyone at the table had divorced parents. XD
Lunar Wilds
10:05:10 Lux - AAs
Bird
I’m sorry they were so close minded about it
Lunar Wilds
10:04:35 Lux - AAs
Bird
I once went on a double date where the other’s guy talked about how traumatic their parents amicable divorce was and how we didn’t know how divorce could be damaging for kids (they were 17 when it happened). While divorce can be traumatic and damaging, he was talking to a table full of people with divorced parents
Hummingbird Meadows
10:03:44 Bird
@Rainy, I have been looked down on it for my whole life even though I wasn't even 1 when it happened. It sucks.
Rainbow
10:03:06 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
That's a shame. It's not like you had any control over that!
Rainbow
10:02:28 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Tobi
Yeah, it can be annoying for sure. I think everyone does it to a degree, though.

Hummingbird Meadows
09:58:10 Bird
This was a different guy too, not the tree guy.
Hummingbird Meadows
09:57:54 Bird
On a different date the guy wanted to know about what it's like being a kid to divorced parents. He was extremely turned off by the fact my parents were divorced. =/
Hummingbird Meadows
09:56:31 Bird
I think it was the fact that he talked about his special interest and himself for the whole hour and a half that bothered me.
Snitches' Stitches
09:55:45 Snitch
Trees in general. He always had to stop whatever we were doing and identify them
Afterglow Radio
09:55:14 Tobi | SA
Yeah the special interest talk isn't bad. Just can be for the wrong person lol

The talking about yourself the whole time tho?? That's crazy. I always worry that I talk too much about myself just in one simple conversation lol
Hummingbird Meadows
09:54:12 Bird
@Snitch, was he fascinated with tree rings too?
Rainbow
09:54:07 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Then again, I'm very likely to talk people's ears off about my special interests, so yannow. No one's perfect lol.
Snitches' Stitches
09:53:51 Snitch
Bird
You literally just described my ex lmao

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22-2023 Is... rough. August 27, 2023 05:36 PM


Bluebonnet Estates
 
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To start, this year has been rough. For a lot of people, so I've mostly kept shut, there's been a lot of loss and that part of life. But I can't keep it all bottled up the way it is. Some of this actually happened very late 2022 and I will have it in order.
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Early December of 2022 I lost my heart horse when he was only 9. My boy came from a slaughter pen and took lots of time to get where he was, and he was the true reason I stuck with horses, as I started falling out of the industry. He was an abassador for a resucue I volunteer at. He colicked, then had a very severe EPM attack following, and he was too weak to continue fighting. The 5 years I had him and he changed the every way I look at life.
This is my boy. He was named Shipwreck, my bestest boy.
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The same month, on December 21st, I lost my cat of 14 years, Oliver, he lost his battle against Sarcoma, cancer. He fought it since July, and it was a constant struggle, with it going away and coming back, but no surgery could remove it as it was attached to his ribs. I love that cat with all my life.
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I then lost my cat Zoe in July at the ripe old age of 20, she was an absolutely amazing cat, and I actually do not remember life before I got her. She was the bestest girl till the end. She got dementia and had a hard time finding food or water. She was always a super friendly snot

(Zoe is the Calico, that photo recent, you can see how frail she was)
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Then today, I found out one of my close friends that moved away has been dead for 9 months due to suicide. I knew him since middle school. His parents did not like me at all so I think that's why I wasn't told. They knew how good of friends we were, but they disregarded it all. When I got in touch and asked why I was never told, they said they didn't think it was important enough. They weren't nice people, they didn't even treat their children well.
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Its just been rough losing so many important animals and people in my life at once
22-2023 Is... rough. August 27, 2023 05:45 PM


Kingfisher Cove
 
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Oh my goodness, that is a lot of loss to process and go through. I don't know what to say excpet that I am sorry. As someone who has lost a beloved pet I can honestly say that time does help heal the heartbreak. It probably isn't what you want to hear right now, but I hope you can give yourself the time to mourn the loss of those you love.

I have found that talking about it can help too. If you ever need to vent please please feel free to PM me.

After such a hard year and so much loss I would encourage you to find things to look forward to. Maybe going to a movie, going out of town for the weekend, or buying yourself something. These little things will help you bear the heavy weight of grief.
22-2023 Is... rough. August 27, 2023 06:26 PM


Bluebonnet Estates
 
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Painted Pony Farms said:
Oh my goodness, that is a lot of loss to process and go through. I don't know what to say excpet that I am sorry. As someone who has lost a beloved pet I can honestly say that time does help heal the heartbreak. It probably isn't what you want to hear right now, but I hope you can give yourself the time to mourn the loss of those you love.

I have found that talking about it can help too. If you ever need to vent please please feel free to PM me.

After such a hard year and so much loss I would encourage you to find things to look forward to. Maybe going to a movie, going out of town for the weekend, or buying yourself something. These little things will help you bear the heavy weight of grief.


Thank you so much, I really do appreciate it so much ❤️
22-2023 Is... rough. August 27, 2023 09:30 PM


Bluebonnet Estates
 
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Managed to squeeze it out of his parents that he is buried, now I need to figure out where. Seems now that his parents know their cover is blown they are a bit more cooperative
22-2023 Is... rough. September 1, 2023 10:21 AM


The midnight stand
 
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That's good to hear but also extremly sad. I'm so sorry to hear this. Hope you are doing ok.

Bluebonnet Estates said:
Managed to squeeze it out of his parents that he is buried, now I need to figure out where. Seems now that his parents know their cover is blown they are a bit more cooperative


22-2023 Is... rough. October 5, 2023 09:22 PM


Bluebonnet Estates
 
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Absolute worst thing possible happened. My mare, my only OTTB mare, the dam of my amazing up and coming gelding, and the dam of my high potential yearling, the mare I planned to breed to an amazing stud next year, and possibly my favorite broodmare, had a ruptured ulcer. Very slim chance of her surviving, heavily debated the surgery, but it was very expensive with such a slim chance of survival. Ultra seemed too far in, we made the unbearable decision to put my girl down. I love her with all my heart. I will miss every inch of the personality she held. All the sass, spunk, clumsiness, and just her overall personality. One of my more expressive horses I've owned. I will Love her forever and always. With all my heart </3

Edited at October 5, 2023 09:52 PM by Bluebonnet Estates
22-2023 Is... rough. October 5, 2023 09:43 PM


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That is by far the saddest thing I have read all week, you never truly move on from a horse loved like that. Just know you did the right thing. it can be hard to accept that oftentimes, but keep moving forward with her in your heart<3
22-2023 Is... rough. October 6, 2023 12:33 AM


Stormsong Manor

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Deepest condolences. I'm so sorry to hear about all the loss you've had in your life. The hardest, but also one of the most graceful, things about being a human amongst animal friends is that we can help them move on peacefully. I hope you're coping okay; my inbox is always open if you need an ear.
22-2023 Is... rough. October 21, 2023 01:30 PM


Bluebonnet Estates
 
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When I thought this year could not possibly get worse 😣
One of my closest friends (been friends since Freshman Year of HS, we were both on swim team and were actually on a relay team together) was just diagnosed with Rhabdo. As of now, there is a 50/50 shot she pulls through. She's currently hospitalized, she's not doing better nor worse so we will see.
it's rough especially because as of the 13th of this month, it's been 1 full year since one of my other extremely close friends died of suicide

Edited at October 21, 2023 01:32 PM by Bluebonnet Estates
22-2023 Is... rough. October 24, 2023 11:16 PM


Bluebonnet Estates
 
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Holy fuck this month sucks. I have a friend hospitalized for Rhabdo, a friend hospitalized for a deadly skin disease, another friend hospitalized with a shattered foot after an accident, and a really good family friend just recently passed. All this month. Not to mention the animal deaths too. I lost my Ultra girl, and a extremely close friend just lost her Service dog.

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