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Rainbow
10:12:00 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
People are weird in general lol
Tobiano Lady
10:09:57 Tobi 👻
People are weird for being weird about divorced parents.
Rainbow
10:06:45 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
Oh wow, yeah, you were an infant! Whatever your parents did has nothing to do with you at that point. I don't know why someone would judge a kid for having divorced parents. That's just wild.
Lunar Wilds
10:06:38 Lux - AAs
Bird
He didn’t realize, he backtracked some once he was told but he also had a habit of mansplaining that made it very funny to be a part of haha
Hummingbird Meadows
10:05:25 Bird
@Lux, sounds like he needed to vent. That or didn't realize everyone at the table had divorced parents. XD
Lunar Wilds
10:05:10 Lux - AAs
Bird
I’m sorry they were so close minded about it
Lunar Wilds
10:04:35 Lux - AAs
Bird
I once went on a double date where the other’s guy talked about how traumatic their parents amicable divorce was and how we didn’t know how divorce could be damaging for kids (they were 17 when it happened). While divorce can be traumatic and damaging, he was talking to a table full of people with divorced parents
Hummingbird Meadows
10:03:44 Bird
@Rainy, I have been looked down on it for my whole life even though I wasn't even 1 when it happened. It sucks.
Rainbow
10:03:06 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
That's a shame. It's not like you had any control over that!
Rainbow
10:02:28 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Tobi
Yeah, it can be annoying for sure. I think everyone does it to a degree, though.

Hummingbird Meadows
09:58:10 Bird
This was a different guy too, not the tree guy.
Hummingbird Meadows
09:57:54 Bird
On a different date the guy wanted to know about what it's like being a kid to divorced parents. He was extremely turned off by the fact my parents were divorced. =/
Hummingbird Meadows
09:56:31 Bird
I think it was the fact that he talked about his special interest and himself for the whole hour and a half that bothered me.
Snitches' Stitches
09:55:45 Snitch
Trees in general. He always had to stop whatever we were doing and identify them
Afterglow Radio
09:55:14 Tobi | SA
Yeah the special interest talk isn't bad. Just can be for the wrong person lol

The talking about yourself the whole time tho?? That's crazy. I always worry that I talk too much about myself just in one simple conversation lol
Hummingbird Meadows
09:54:12 Bird
@Snitch, was he fascinated with tree rings too?
Rainbow
09:54:07 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Then again, I'm very likely to talk people's ears off about my special interests, so yannow. No one's perfect lol.
Snitches' Stitches
09:53:51 Snitch
Bird
You literally just described my ex lmao
MakeEm Fancy
09:49:46 Ally 💜
XD
Rainbow
09:49:14 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
Oh lord. That's how to impress a lady (I'm assuming), wow her with tree facts and make sure to emphasize how great you are (sarcasm)

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Rainbow
10:12:00 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
People are weird in general lol
Tobiano Lady
10:09:57 Tobi 👻
People are weird for being weird about divorced parents.
Rainbow
10:06:45 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
Oh wow, yeah, you were an infant! Whatever your parents did has nothing to do with you at that point. I don't know why someone would judge a kid for having divorced parents. That's just wild.
Lunar Wilds
10:06:38 Lux - AAs
Bird
He didn’t realize, he backtracked some once he was told but he also had a habit of mansplaining that made it very funny to be a part of haha
Hummingbird Meadows
10:05:25 Bird
@Lux, sounds like he needed to vent. That or didn't realize everyone at the table had divorced parents. XD
Lunar Wilds
10:05:10 Lux - AAs
Bird
I’m sorry they were so close minded about it
Lunar Wilds
10:04:35 Lux - AAs
Bird
I once went on a double date where the other’s guy talked about how traumatic their parents amicable divorce was and how we didn’t know how divorce could be damaging for kids (they were 17 when it happened). While divorce can be traumatic and damaging, he was talking to a table full of people with divorced parents
Hummingbird Meadows
10:03:44 Bird
@Rainy, I have been looked down on it for my whole life even though I wasn't even 1 when it happened. It sucks.
Rainbow
10:03:06 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
That's a shame. It's not like you had any control over that!
Rainbow
10:02:28 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Tobi
Yeah, it can be annoying for sure. I think everyone does it to a degree, though.

Hummingbird Meadows
09:58:10 Bird
This was a different guy too, not the tree guy.
Hummingbird Meadows
09:57:54 Bird
On a different date the guy wanted to know about what it's like being a kid to divorced parents. He was extremely turned off by the fact my parents were divorced. =/
Hummingbird Meadows
09:56:31 Bird
I think it was the fact that he talked about his special interest and himself for the whole hour and a half that bothered me.
Snitches' Stitches
09:55:45 Snitch
Trees in general. He always had to stop whatever we were doing and identify them
Afterglow Radio
09:55:14 Tobi | SA
Yeah the special interest talk isn't bad. Just can be for the wrong person lol

The talking about yourself the whole time tho?? That's crazy. I always worry that I talk too much about myself just in one simple conversation lol
Hummingbird Meadows
09:54:12 Bird
@Snitch, was he fascinated with tree rings too?
Rainbow
09:54:07 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Then again, I'm very likely to talk people's ears off about my special interests, so yannow. No one's perfect lol.
Snitches' Stitches
09:53:51 Snitch
Bird
You literally just described my ex lmao
MakeEm Fancy
09:49:46 Ally 💜
XD
Rainbow
09:49:14 Rainy/Prism/Chrome
Bird
Oh lord. That's how to impress a lady (I'm assuming), wow her with tree facts and make sure to emphasize how great you are (sarcasm)

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Life Struggles October 1, 2024 04:30 AM


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Sooo, RL has been rough the past couple of months, and I just sorta need to write down whats happening instead of holding it all inside :)
Basically this goes back to August, in August, I recieved the news that a mare I was super close with and learned a lot of stuff with had to be put down, she had cushings, lost a bunch of weight and was around 35, so she was already near the end, and a huge heat wave was about to come with multiple 115 days in a row so the owners decided to put her down. I also recieved the news that the horse I work with the most/ride the most/have been with for 4 years won't be coming to my house to spend the winter. She's going to someone who is off/on for the past 2 years, I mean I sorta knew that was going to happen, but it's frustrating because I know I can give the mare a good home, and I know the mare better, the reason she is getting the mare is because her form was turned in before mine.
Anyways, that's just the horse drama,
I started school, and it was ok, I got into the classes I wanted, but I don't know anyone in them, which really stresses me out, I know maybe 1 or 2 people in class, I know college will be like that, but like I was looking forward to getting to stay with my friends, and becuase we are in different classes, some of them have shunned me, and won't talk to me. I'm really busy, the classes are harder than I though, and I'm so busy with XC, FFA, and homework, I don't have any time to myself. And I just can't mentally handle it, while all this is going on. Going into September, I'm trying to get my Licence, and the DMV just won't help me becuase of the fact I need to change my address, but apparently it's too much work and "not apart" of their job to cross reference one thing, like I can get my passport so much easier than my licence, which makes no sence, anyways I finally passed that. I'm starting to do well at XC, I'm our #4 Varsity girls runner, so I'm doing decent in terms of running, then I do the sprint and hills workout and hurt something in my knee, the pain has been at 10 multiple times, and is usually at around a 4-5 while walking around school, the school stairs don't help with that. Anyways, went to the doctor, they X-Rayed, nothing is wrong with the bone, but it could be something in my Meniscus, or another ligament, so I'm waiting for the MRI place to call me back, and I need to start PT. I'm so frustrated, I haven't really been able to run in a week, and I feel trapped, and am starting to get burnt out with everything, it's just so much to handle, and the best way to describe it is being trapped in a glass marble with water all around, threating to break the bubble, I'm safe, but the water is about to rush in, and I just don't know what to do if that happens.
I also sorta feel like I'm failing since I'm not perfect, I feel like I have to be perfect all the time and everywhere otherwise I'm just failing, for example, my parents keep comparing me to my little sisters, who have perfect grades, they are in middle school, the youngest does XC, but the middle one between me and the youngest, doesn't do any sports, or extracirriculars, and so she has more time to study and maintain perfect 100% in every single class. School has also come easily for her, for me it hasn't I've always struggled, and hence have had to let myself not get worked up over stuff I can't control, school has always been hard, and I don't think I could ever get those perfect 100% A's. My parents want me to be more like my siblings grade-wise but I don't see how it's possible. My grades are a mix of A's and B's as well which I feel aren't that bad? I mean I wish I could get all A's but I don't have the time or the resources to get those.
So I've decided to take a semi-hiatus from HEE, I just can't handle anymore stress in my life becuase of my AP/Honors Classes, FFA, Sports, PT, etc, and I need to take a break so I can recover mentally.
This is just skimming the surface of my stress, and I feel so much more inside as well that I just don't know how to put into words.

Edited at October 1, 2024 04:37 AM by Wolf Dancer
Life Struggles October 2, 2024 08:48 PM


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I'm sorry wolf, it will get better!

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