Lunalovegood |
Lo thanks |
Sweet Valley |
Yes I'd say if you want to keep her as a friend that's your decision, but distance yourself from her. She criticized your hobby, and it sounds like she was mean to you as well. I gotta go. |
Lunalovegood |
Lo i have never had friends at school so it isnt much change to me, they are all just one big headache |
Willow Wood Stable |
You have to remember I've been out of school for quite some time, so I'm probably hyper-analyzing. My main point is, do what makes you happy and fuck anyone that wants to keep you from doing so. |
Sweet Valley |
Yes and as well as your leg muscles you use other ones as well. That's why beginner horse riders are usually sore because they used muscles they don't normally use in daily life or anything else! |
Willow Wood Stable |
If I'm being very real with you, it's probably better to not keep someone like that around for the sake of keeping your only "friend." I know at your age it may seem like you need to have friends, and to keep them no matter the circumstances and harm they expose you to, but as you mature you'll find that friends like that just cause you stress and heartache. Friends are people that you can be your authentic self around, and who don't feel the need to speak down on your interests. |
Sweet Valley |
Yes, and you have to learn things about each induvidual horse as well! And bond with them, take care of them; horse riding in general is excercise and nothing can match up to it because it's special! |
Peachy |
I wish that riding was just sitting there sometimes xD sounds like jealousy to me, loony! you have a hobby you love, and that's awesome. |
Lunalovegood |
Anna exactly you use your leg muscles that are your largest muscles (i think) also lucky, you get to be home schooled |
Embervale Acres |
I've never understood the "the horse does all the work" mentality about horseriding. You're on the back of a thousand pound prey animal trying to get it to do what you want. It's definitely not easy, even with well trained horses |
Sweet Valley |
Yeah really! And on a horse you don't sit there! You use muscles that you probably don't use in P.E. and honestly, being in fresh air and stuff and bonding with your horse is better (to me) than P.E. I don't do P.E. tho cuz I'm homeschooled lol |
Peachy |
lo, simple is best sometimes :) I ran out of my coffee cake creamer so, cupcake today :P zomb, gosh, felt. I need a nothing week!! enjoy :D |
Lunalovegood |
Lo i know but she is all that i have (other than my online friends) |
Lunalovegood |
Anna She asked what sports i played and then said "Thats why you dont like P.E. you are not active, all you do on a horse is sit there" so she didn't just insult me she insulted all of the equestrian community |
Sweet Valley |
Horse riding is a good hobby; if I had a horse I'd be riding all day long! (everyday) |
Willow Wood Stable |
Agreed. Anyone genuinely insulting you regarding something you love is not a friend. There's a difference between them teasing you about it in a lighthearted manner and genuinely insulting you for it. |
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Sweet Valley |
Yes I'd say if you want to keep her as a friend that's your decision, but distance yourself from her. She criticized your hobby, and it sounds like she was mean to you as well. I gotta go. |
Lunalovegood |
Lo i have never had friends at school so it isnt much change to me, they are all just one big headache |
Willow Wood Stable |
You have to remember I've been out of school for quite some time, so I'm probably hyper-analyzing. My main point is, do what makes you happy and fuck anyone that wants to keep you from doing so. |
Sweet Valley |
Yes and as well as your leg muscles you use other ones as well. That's why beginner horse riders are usually sore because they used muscles they don't normally use in daily life or anything else! |
Willow Wood Stable |
If I'm being very real with you, it's probably better to not keep someone like that around for the sake of keeping your only "friend." I know at your age it may seem like you need to have friends, and to keep them no matter the circumstances and harm they expose you to, but as you mature you'll find that friends like that just cause you stress and heartache. Friends are people that you can be your authentic self around, and who don't feel the need to speak down on your interests. |
Sweet Valley |
Yes, and you have to learn things about each induvidual horse as well! And bond with them, take care of them; horse riding in general is excercise and nothing can match up to it because it's special! |
Peachy |
I wish that riding was just sitting there sometimes xD sounds like jealousy to me, loony! you have a hobby you love, and that's awesome. |
Lunalovegood |
Anna exactly you use your leg muscles that are your largest muscles (i think) also lucky, you get to be home schooled |
Embervale Acres |
I've never understood the "the horse does all the work" mentality about horseriding. You're on the back of a thousand pound prey animal trying to get it to do what you want. It's definitely not easy, even with well trained horses |
Sweet Valley |
Yeah really! And on a horse you don't sit there! You use muscles that you probably don't use in P.E. and honestly, being in fresh air and stuff and bonding with your horse is better (to me) than P.E. I don't do P.E. tho cuz I'm homeschooled lol |
Peachy |
lo, simple is best sometimes :) I ran out of my coffee cake creamer so, cupcake today :P zomb, gosh, felt. I need a nothing week!! enjoy :D |
Lunalovegood |
Lo i know but she is all that i have (other than my online friends) |
Lunalovegood |
Anna She asked what sports i played and then said "Thats why you dont like P.E. you are not active, all you do on a horse is sit there" so she didn't just insult me she insulted all of the equestrian community |
Sweet Valley |
Horse riding is a good hobby; if I had a horse I'd be riding all day long! (everyday) |
Willow Wood Stable |
Agreed. Anyone genuinely insulting you regarding something you love is not a friend. There's a difference between them teasing you about it in a lighthearted manner and genuinely insulting you for it. |
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