I am currently trying to figure out the palettes but still have no idea can someone please send me a link to instructions or just reply to this thanks :)

Here are the guides I use :

Click - This is a guide by The Unknown and it was really helpful when I was first starting.

Click - This is another guide I found. It is really helpful because it explains what codes affect what part of the page, and it also has cool tricks, too.

Click - This is helpful for borders, gradients, transparent stuff, as well as more "advanced" stuff such as text-shadows.

If you need help with anything, I would be more than happy to help.