| Gemstone Stable |
| *big hug lol Not bug hug. |
Afternoon Showers, Sleet Possible| Gemstone Stable |
| @AL Thank you for the words of wisdom and encouragement. *bug hug* And yes, I've gotten some rejection practice too. I keep messing it up with the younger guy coworkers. Ugh, they have no clue I have social anxitey... Oddly the guy I like and kinda avoid has some of the same sysptoms, why can't those younger guys see that? Dunno. |
| Gemstone Stable |
| @jazzy lol ;P @AL Exactly! One reason why I like this lady. She's kind and thoughtful. I can make mistakes or kinda address I don't know how to say it... and she will nicely correct if she needs to. I'm not the same person as when I started work in September, and definitely not the same person as when I started working with this gal! XD |
| Motonemi |
| Yeah, rejection is never fun but dealing with pain and discomfort is also part of the growing as a person school :) You will be just fine |
| Gemstone Stable |
| @saddled Yup. lol She did say we'd make a nice couple. I think we have to get used to working together first, then friends maybe. THEN maybe more. :) @AL *nods* And yes, I'm slowly getting there. I can express myself without being fearful of what others will think. I still fear rejection some though... Oh, and I have more of a backbone now too. :) |
| Motonemi |
| But I can promise one thing: as you experience things and learn how to handle them, you will grow more and more confident |
| Motonemi |
| I dont know if this will help you but one of the things that helped me was repeating to myself that I was permitted the same things as everyone else |
| Gemstone Stable |
| @AL I have social anxiety and just over all lack of social experience. I was mainly homeschooled and such. I never went through the growing up with peers and feeling about guys. >.> |
| Saddled Sass Stables |
| i've met a lot of people like this, who think how cute the pretty little romance will be, but they won't give it time or space to grow. they want to feel good about the cute thing right now. |
| Gemstone Stable |
| @AL Yeah, same. I'd just a bit intidimated by the fact he's gonna know somethings up for sure. Even if its just her trying to get two folks together, like some people do. She's definitely well meaning, she's very nice and such |
| Gemstone Stable |
| I finally got it off my chest at work, that I like one of my coworkers. I said I'm only interested in being friends right now, nothing more. I need to work on my social problems, yad-dah yad-dah. Only problem is, she ended walking off and asking him if he was single. O.o He's gonna put two and two together... us two gals have been working together whenever we can for a few months. *faceplam* |
| Swank Plateau |
| Min thank you for sharing! I'm one of those who are curious as to what your maps get you. |
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| Gemstone Stable |
| @AL Thank you for the words of wisdom and encouragement. *bug hug* And yes, I've gotten some rejection practice too. I keep messing it up with the younger guy coworkers. Ugh, they have no clue I have social anxitey... Oddly the guy I like and kinda avoid has some of the same sysptoms, why can't those younger guys see that? Dunno. |
| Gemstone Stable |
| @jazzy lol ;P @AL Exactly! One reason why I like this lady. She's kind and thoughtful. I can make mistakes or kinda address I don't know how to say it... and she will nicely correct if she needs to. I'm not the same person as when I started work in September, and definitely not the same person as when I started working with this gal! XD |
| Motonemi |
| Yeah, rejection is never fun but dealing with pain and discomfort is also part of the growing as a person school :) You will be just fine |
| Gemstone Stable |
| @saddled Yup. lol She did say we'd make a nice couple. I think we have to get used to working together first, then friends maybe. THEN maybe more. :) @AL *nods* And yes, I'm slowly getting there. I can express myself without being fearful of what others will think. I still fear rejection some though... Oh, and I have more of a backbone now too. :) |
| Motonemi |
| But I can promise one thing: as you experience things and learn how to handle them, you will grow more and more confident |
| Motonemi |
| I dont know if this will help you but one of the things that helped me was repeating to myself that I was permitted the same things as everyone else |
| Gemstone Stable |
| @AL I have social anxiety and just over all lack of social experience. I was mainly homeschooled and such. I never went through the growing up with peers and feeling about guys. >.> |
| Saddled Sass Stables |
| i've met a lot of people like this, who think how cute the pretty little romance will be, but they won't give it time or space to grow. they want to feel good about the cute thing right now. |
| Gemstone Stable |
| @AL Yeah, same. I'd just a bit intidimated by the fact he's gonna know somethings up for sure. Even if its just her trying to get two folks together, like some people do. She's definitely well meaning, she's very nice and such |
| Gemstone Stable |
| I finally got it off my chest at work, that I like one of my coworkers. I said I'm only interested in being friends right now, nothing more. I need to work on my social problems, yad-dah yad-dah. Only problem is, she ended walking off and asking him if he was single. O.o He's gonna put two and two together... us two gals have been working together whenever we can for a few months. *faceplam* |
| Swank Plateau |
| Min thank you for sharing! I'm one of those who are curious as to what your maps get you. |
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