The other thing to consider is that since I am genuinely afraid of people, being afraid or uncomfortable with touch could follow that same path. It could be a few things.
I've always wondered, as I do display some signs of it. But I don't like to self-diagnose. The only things I have been diagnosed with are social phobia, selective mutism, and ADHD. I have considered going through autism screening.
Unfortunately I just have no interest in guys. Like at all. I've always been a rather shy individual, and in my past relationships, I was never very interested in things such as hugs. I doubt I'd be comfortable ever having my own kid lol. But adopting? My heart has been set on giving a needy kid a home.
No idea. But hey, I'll gladly watch that baby. He's my future nephew.
Versa
Agreed. I want to be financially stable first, before I have kids. And I want to adopt some kids who are older, who have a harder time being adopted. It's expensive, but those kids deserve a loving, stable home too.
You know what? I never wanted my own kids, but several times I considered adopting. Perhaps I'll be a foster home instead, there's too many awful stories of kids being taken away from people doing awful things to them. I can't with humans anymore.
Fern, yep, 19 years old, her partner is 20. She quit Giant because it was, in her words, 'Mentally and emotionally draining'.
Yet here I am, wanting to work, so I have money, boost my own mental health. Can't work, cause I can't drive yet, can't find a job.
Versa, I love my little cousins, I do. But I can't handle everything at once. Like I told my aunt, what's everyone gonna do when me, my parents, and brother leave? Said 2 year old cousin LOVES his uncle and aunt (my parents), and he's with me all the damn time. I play with him all the time.
That thought is still sending shivers. I couldn't imagine. I never would've thought. If it's true people have kids for attention, it puts a rock in my stomach.
My sister is 19, and is having her own baby in a few weeks. She has bought NOTHING. She had 3 onesies to her name.
My mom spent 70 bucks on 7 boxes of clothes, bought a car seat, baby swing, pack and play, basically everything. Like, dude, the hell? Then my sister said if we moved closer to her, I could be a daily babysitter.
Sister= no job.
Sister's fiancée= excuses to not work.
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If you feed Senior Blend to your senior horse they will have a 10% decreased chance in dying
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Chilly and Clear with Dropping Temps
