I'm 24 and struggle to find a real connection. My last boyfriend was good, but the timing was awful and he wanted to showcase our relationship instead of work on it.
I fell in love with him and was like oh shit. This is serious. I cleaned up my drinking, moved into an apartment with him in NYC, and played it by ear because I trusted him. It took a while to get to that point but he has never broken my trust
It sounds like just finding the right person helps. I am 24 and have never been in a relationship with anyone. Most I have done is gone on two dates with the same guy.
Full disclosure: trust issues for years, keeping friends with benefits and hooking up with them while drunk, didn't have my first serious relationship until I was 22, a ton of patience and understanding from my now husband.
Right now everyone just tells me, "Oh, that's not true! Someone can love you even if your father didn't!" But, you can't just switch that thought off when it has been ingrained into you your entire life.
@Ven, if you don't mind me asking, how do you overcome everything that has happened to form a relationship? I think my biggest barrier right now is feeling like no one could love me when my own father didn't.
I showed a horse who was about to level up.. looked gorgeous, should have placed first. He places 12th, and levels up immediately after. Massive WTF moment.
Marriage is work. Communication. Compromise. Being aware of someone else's emotional needs even when you're feeling like doodoo. But we're doing great at eight years in
I was extremely careful with letting partners into my life on any deep emotional level until I met my husband. I come from a viciously broken family and planned to have my own child, and I wanted to do my absolute best to make sure I chose the right partner for that life
My mom was a single mom of 2 going to school and working full time, yes I am married, BUT if I am going to have a family, I want to have my priorities straight
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