| Angel Haven |
| Ivy, that sucks, I know how that feels. |
Overcast and Calm| Gypsy Family Farm |
| Ivy; I don't know who Wylder is, but I do know a LOT about fandom and fandom relationships. They can be very difficult to maintain, because when you are friends over one shared interest, sometimes it can fracture very easily; and that's okay. It happens. It's hard as well because when you are young you have all the physical and mental changes making everything ten times more intense. Were any of these friends IRL friends? |
| Crestwood Eq. |
| this was not how i planned to feel on the days coming ot my birthday. but whatever. my mom flipped her lid at me on my 10th birthday for god knows why. |
| Crestwood Eq. |
| i've always been the person who thought so and so was her bestie, but i wasn't their bestie. |
| Sunni |
| But afterwards she came up to apologize. Took a year but XD. one of her family told a lie about my family talking trash. Never happened, they just missed understood. We where talking about my brothers jumping in the pool and ripping holes in the bottom of it. |
| Crestwood Eq. |
| Arctic i guess. i hate life. i've tried and tried my whole life to please people. i've said sorry to people i know wont accept it. i've done all i can. im not perfect. there are so many things in my life that i should've been said sorry to for, but you know, i wasn't. i've lost too many people in my life that i try my hardest to keep the people i can. AND NO ONE WILL EVER TALK ABOUT MY WYLDER LIKE THAT! |
| Sunni |
| Ivy, sounds like you might be putting your friendship into people who don't really know how friendship works. Friendship is about understanding, flexibility, being there. Me and my best friend Cameron, have been together since kindergarten. We have fought before one was pretty nasty. |
| Gypsy Family Farm |
| And that's okay, Ivy; forgive me if it sounds like I am talking down to you, I'm absolutely not. But you may not have found your person yet. I gather that you are younger, correct me if I am wrong, and it's hard to stay with people some times while everyone is growing and changing. I had a best friend until I was about twelve, and then after that I had a lot of really good friends, but not one person alone, if that makes sense? |
| The Old Gods |
| to be honest, if you keep getting dropped by friends, it's probably a sign to examine yourself and your behavior. |
| Crestwood Eq. |
| arctic thanks. this girl (her brother said that to me). she was my best friend. sad truth reveal. i've never had a best friend that stayed for over 8 months. |
| Glacier Bay Cove |
| Not sure what is going on, but I will always be a friend to you, Crestwood |
| Gypsy Family Farm |
| Also? If you have lost friends over this, they weren't real friends, they were fandom friends. (I've been there. Still hurts.) |
| Gypsy Family Farm |
| Ivy, that sounds like a good person to block if you can; this kind of social media bullying can escalate and it's already pretty personal. |
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| Gypsy Family Farm |
| Ivy; I don't know who Wylder is, but I do know a LOT about fandom and fandom relationships. They can be very difficult to maintain, because when you are friends over one shared interest, sometimes it can fracture very easily; and that's okay. It happens. It's hard as well because when you are young you have all the physical and mental changes making everything ten times more intense. Were any of these friends IRL friends? |
| Crestwood Eq. |
| this was not how i planned to feel on the days coming ot my birthday. but whatever. my mom flipped her lid at me on my 10th birthday for god knows why. |
| Crestwood Eq. |
| i've always been the person who thought so and so was her bestie, but i wasn't their bestie. |
| Sunni |
| But afterwards she came up to apologize. Took a year but XD. one of her family told a lie about my family talking trash. Never happened, they just missed understood. We where talking about my brothers jumping in the pool and ripping holes in the bottom of it. |
| Crestwood Eq. |
| Arctic i guess. i hate life. i've tried and tried my whole life to please people. i've said sorry to people i know wont accept it. i've done all i can. im not perfect. there are so many things in my life that i should've been said sorry to for, but you know, i wasn't. i've lost too many people in my life that i try my hardest to keep the people i can. AND NO ONE WILL EVER TALK ABOUT MY WYLDER LIKE THAT! |
| Sunni |
| Ivy, sounds like you might be putting your friendship into people who don't really know how friendship works. Friendship is about understanding, flexibility, being there. Me and my best friend Cameron, have been together since kindergarten. We have fought before one was pretty nasty. |
| Gypsy Family Farm |
| And that's okay, Ivy; forgive me if it sounds like I am talking down to you, I'm absolutely not. But you may not have found your person yet. I gather that you are younger, correct me if I am wrong, and it's hard to stay with people some times while everyone is growing and changing. I had a best friend until I was about twelve, and then after that I had a lot of really good friends, but not one person alone, if that makes sense? |
| The Old Gods |
| to be honest, if you keep getting dropped by friends, it's probably a sign to examine yourself and your behavior. |
| Crestwood Eq. |
| arctic thanks. this girl (her brother said that to me). she was my best friend. sad truth reveal. i've never had a best friend that stayed for over 8 months. |
| Glacier Bay Cove |
| Not sure what is going on, but I will always be a friend to you, Crestwood |
| Gypsy Family Farm |
| Also? If you have lost friends over this, they weren't real friends, they were fandom friends. (I've been there. Still hurts.) |
| Gypsy Family Farm |
| Ivy, that sounds like a good person to block if you can; this kind of social media bullying can escalate and it's already pretty personal. |
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