09:54:24 Hummer I really am so happy for you and that you get to experience that! |
09:53:32 Ven | KNN I fell in love with him and was like oh shit. This is serious. I cleaned up my drinking, moved into an apartment with him in NYC, and played it by ear because I trusted him. It took a while to get to that point but he has never broken my trust |
09:53:16 Hummer It sounds like just finding the right person helps. I am 24 and have never been in a relationship with anyone. Most I have done is gone on two dates with the same guy. |
09:52:25 Ven | KNN Full disclosure: trust issues for years, keeping friends with benefits and hooking up with them while drunk, didn't have my first serious relationship until I was 22, a ton of patience and understanding from my now husband. |
09:51:33 Hummer Right now everyone just tells me, "Oh, that's not true! Someone can love you even if your father didn't!" But, you can't just switch that thought off when it has been ingrained into you your entire life. |
09:50:54 General Froggy! If you go reading through some of my geldings show reports.. you'll hear "Oh what the hell?" fly a lot, LOLL. They're quite odd. |
09:49:50 Hummer @Ven, if you don't mind me asking, how do you overcome everything that has happened to form a relationship? I think my biggest barrier right now is feeling like no one could love me when my own father didn't. |
09:49:23 General Froggy! I showed a horse who was about to level up.. looked gorgeous, should have placed first. He places 12th, and levels up immediately after. Massive WTF moment. |
09:48:09 Ven | KNN He's so tall, I can't even. |
09:47:54 Ven | KNN Marriage is work. Communication. Compromise. Being aware of someone else's emotional needs even when you're feeling like doodoo. But we're doing great at eight years in |
09:47:31 General Froggy! Oh Link has gotten so much older so quick, it's unbelievable. >.< |
09:47:04 Hummer @Ven, hearing that you found success though is so reassuring from someone who has a toxic family. |
09:46:28 Ven | KNN Link is almost 6 now and I couldn't ask for a better father for my kid |
09:45:20 Ven | KNN I was extremely careful with letting partners into my life on any deep emotional level until I met my husband. I come from a viciously broken family and planned to have my own child, and I wanted to do my absolute best to make sure I chose the right partner for that life |
09:40:00 Hummer @Helix, I get that. I grew up with a single Mom too which ingrained in me the need to be able to get a job to support myself. |
09:38:41 #Vettechnician My mom was a single mom of 2 going to school and working full time, yes I am married, BUT if I am going to have a family, I want to have my priorities straight |
09:38:39 Wander why couldn't you have one more P so I could keep you?
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09:37:31 Ally 💜 The shelter said she needed 3 more boosters and a rabies vaccination. Im just looking for a good vet currently |
09:36:55 #Vettechnician Plus the other reason why I didn't want to be a vet, is because I pulled out $4500 in loans for my degree, and it was 3-years(a year of prerequisites) vs $100,000+ in loans. I am also almost 30, so I want to start having a family, so I didn't want to be in school for 8+ years and have kids, I know it can be done, I just didn't want it |
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