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Ok, so the title might not convay this proparly but here goes: I have never ever ever ever had a crush on anyone, and I honestly thought I was Asexual but then during the beginging of this school year I ment my new friend. And got a crush on her. She is a she/her and so am I so im not straight and im not Asexual, but I dont know what I am, Lesbian, Bi, Pan. Im not one for being paitent lol. I dont know how to respond to this but yeah! Sorry for the weird post, Dusk. |
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You can be asexual but not aromantic. I'm ace, but I still have crushes on people. That being said, sexuality can be a fluid thing and what you are one year may not be what you are the next. If you feel like you need a label, then call yourself whatever feels most accurate at the time, but don't feel like you HAVE to identify as that forever and ever. Things change. :) |
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what puck said <3 - im pansexual, but it took me a long long time to figure out who i was. Its totally OK to not know your sexuality or preferences, dont feel like you need to stick a label on yourself <3 sexuality is an ever changing thing, and it can take a while to settle sometimes. Just dont feel pressured by society to call yourself something. you are who you are, and thats what matters most <3 |
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FirstLightFarms said:
You can be asexual but not aromantic. I'm ace, but I still have crushes on people. That being said, sexuality can be a fluid thing and what you are one year may not be what you are the next. If you feel like you need a label, then call yourself whatever feels most accurate at the time, but don't feel like you HAVE to identify as that forever and ever. Things change. :)
I completely agree with Puck. Don't feel like you have to label yourself just because we live in a world that demands labels. Sexuality is fluid and a spectrum (ie something we really shouldn't be labelling anyways but I digress). It can be confusing but just remember that you don't HAVE to have it figured out. All that matters is what you're feeling in the present moment :) |
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Thank you all so much for clearing it up! |
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I agree with everyone else. I'm bi personally, and it took me a long time to figure out what I was. However things are always constantly in motion and sexuality is always fluid. And the only thing that matters is what you and your partner feel for each other. |
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