My husband has a couple friends who are girls- but they are either in serious relationships or married, and I know them too lol. They do not text him first- and usually it is me they text first lol. To which I usually send them his way because I do not know what is going on in his circle half the time. But I trust him- he has come to me in the past with issues and asked how he should proceed if it involved a female. I have been cheated on in the past and it left me majority scarred. So he knows and understands my jealous behavior and is always overly willing to resolve it
i told him i dont care if you have apps but if youre going to disrespect me by talking to strangers like that...enough to the point that they seek me out to say "hey this is your partner right?" its just awful.
Vetta, I'm sorry to tell you but just because you tell him he cant doesnt mean he wont if he truely wants to...just saying. Telling him he can't is a form of control and not healthy it's a red flag in any relationship. But the best of luck to you..
@luna yea he used to be like that...but things have just gone downhill and its rough. i have been contacted by a girl once before who was contacted by him via snap. like found me on facebook to let me know. and when confronted there was a massive conversation but things were never really the same after that.
Luna I don't control him, he chooses to not have women, of course he has co workers, but he's not a guy that's even remotely interested in being in the same room as other females unless it means business, I'm not gonna let him have some weird hook up text app
My husband is allowed to have apps and friends. I am not going to control him in any way hes allowed to be able to talk to whomever he wants. If you trust your partner you shouldn't need to tell them what they can and can't have. If they respect you enough then they should know better and not cross the obvious lines