Skye's Paradise
05:49:41 Just call me Pickle
How long will you be on for Wraith?
Fireball Stables
05:49:33 Flicka/Indy
I remember taking my first horse trail riding this was when I had no confidence and wasn't very good at riding well I got off to walk her haha she was having no of it tried to run me over multiple times. I soon got really confident with her and went out nearly every nice day we had
Oak valley
05:43:17 Olive Oil
Our*
Oak valley
05:42:44 Olive Oil
It was a pretty terrifying experience, first time he's ever reared with a rider on his back. Somehow I stayed on and got back in control before he could get seriously injured. At lie old place we had to rude along a very busy road then cross the main road, we didn't actually get onto the common at that place. At this place we have to get down the drive and cross the main road. We can either go to the muddy place straight across from us or go down a very quiet lane to get onto another part
Wraithcry Farm
05:39:07 Crazy Cat Lady
Yes that would make a difference lol. I’m not doing trails right now because I just don’t have a horse that can handle it. The horse I am looking at would though.
Oak valley
05:38:45 Olive Oil
We're taking baby steps now, edging further down the drive every time we go down
Blueberry Valley
05:38:17 blue // pride
Yeah, the lag is odd...
Oak valley
05:37:38 Olive Oil
@Wraith
It was a bit of a stupid mistake I made, we'd only just moved to a new place and I assumed he was going to be fine, it also didn't help that we turned away from a horse he barely knew
Wraithcry Farm
05:37:12 Crazy Cat Lady
I really hate this lag.
Oak valley
05:36:20 Olive Oil
Lol I just attempted to refresh the chat and it froze for like 5 minutes straight
Wraithcry Farm
05:36:15 Crazy Cat Lady
You need to make sure he isn’t doing that. Some endurance rides can have a lot of horses there doing a lot of different things. And some people aren’t to good at controlling their horses either. I’ve had someone brush against me,
My horse didn’t even blink, I just guided her through the situation and moved on.
Angels angels
05:31:27 *has 400+ brindles*
I feel so thirsty but I keep drinking water and it hurts my stomach because its full of water
Sandpiper Hollow
05:29:42 Piper
Of course lol. I try helping out the rest of the store as my department is dead today and a grate popped off of what I was stocking and wacked me in the face and busted my lip open
Oak valley
05:29:19 Olive Oil
This was at a new yard we'd just moved to
Oak valley
05:28:29 Olive Oil
One time we attempted to go on a hack with another horse, he was being rather spriteful and silly, decided to try and turn back, he reared up and nearly bolted onto the road
Oak valley
05:26:49 Olive Oil
Roleys never been on a hack before really, he used to be a wild boy on Dartmoor, not sure what he'll do when we actually get onto the common. He's amazing in traffic we're just focusing on getting him down the drive confidently, that way we can cross the road and go the short way to the common
Wraithcry Farm
05:25:08 Crazy Cat Lady
I have done 100-200 mile rides. I want get back into doing that again, but for now baby steps lol
Oak valley
05:25:04 Olive Oil
S is a rating meaning Superb, SSS means the horse rates Superb in Dressage, Cross Country and Jumping
Wolf Creek Stables
05:24:04 
what is an SSS horse?
Oak valley
05:20:14 Olive Oil
I've never really done anything like it before. Every year a local equestrian club does a 10 mile pleasure ride, thinking of aiming for that next year, I think Roley will love that sort of thing

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Relationship Help... July 31, 2019 10:36 PM

Capricorn Elites
 
Posts: 62
#413442
So I've been dating this guy named Taylor for 3 months now. At first our relationship was going pretty well but he started to get mad at me for the dumbest shit. He wanted me to send nudes and such but I kept telling him no, he would get so mad at me and say shit like "Oh you dont trust me enough." I always told him i did trust him i just dont do that and he wouldnt understand, but after a few hours he would get over it and act like nothing had happen. Another thing he does in our relationship is "joke" around. He would tell me shit like oh im going to a strip club, my one girl friend looked cute today and i still like her or he would say he is spending the night at her house. Now i get very mad over this and cry because im hurt. After i tell him that im done he quickly says he was "joking" and that he was kidding. He does this shit all the time so i dont know if he is actually serious about joking or what, i tell him it hurts me and upsets me but he keeps on doing it any way. Along with these things he would tell me things like "Oh i dont care about your feelings when your upset", "Oh stop being such a fucking cry baby", "I could care less if you get jealous or not" and he would 'joke' about calling me a bitch. I domt know what to do anymore, i really should end it with him but he use to be so nice and be my best friend. Its hard cutting people out of ypur life when you have known them for so long, but yet again he does this to me. Its like im only his little sex toy, i dont even know if he cares about me. This relationship has given me so much stress, my mental health isnt the greatest right now either but im trying to stay strong


Edit: i left him over a week ago :)

Edited at August 18, 2019 11:50 PM by Capricorn Elites
Relationship Help... July 31, 2019 10:53 PM

Jellos Warmbloods
 
Posts: 7527
#413453
AH yes. time to break out the old person wisdom.

If you're not happy in the relationship now, you will be even more miserable later. People dont change. No matter what they say, it just doesnt happen like that.

3 months is a very very very short time.

I think you should leave and enjoy the single life for a bit. Theres billions of people out there. Never settle.
Relationship Help... July 31, 2019 10:54 PM

MooseAcres
 
Posts: 807
#413454
Break up with him! The relationship your describing is not healthy for you! You have to think about your health first, if he is making you feel like shit and he is lying its not ok! I know it's hard but it's for the best.
Relationship Help... July 31, 2019 10:55 PM

Capricorn Elites
 
Posts: 62
#413457


Jellos Warmbloods said:
AH yes. time to break out the old person wisdom.

If you're not happy in the relationship now, you will be even more miserable later. People dont change. No matter what they say, it just doesnt happen like that.

3 months is a very very very short time.

I think you should leave and enjoy the single life for a bit. Theres billions of people out there. Never settle.


I know its not long but its so hard, i really want him to change but your right
Relationship Help... July 31, 2019 10:57 PM

Capricorn Elites
 
Posts: 62
#413459


MooseAcres said:
Break up with him! The relationship your describing is not healthy for you! You have to think about your health first, if he is making you feel like shit and he is lying its not ok! I know it's hard but it's for the best.


It really sucks honestly, he use to be such a great guy but now he turned into this. I dont even know why he is lying like that either
Relationship Help... August 1, 2019 12:22 PM

FirstLightFarms
 
Posts: 48
#414018
Boy BYE ain't no man worth your tears
Relationship Help... August 2, 2019 08:20 AM
Dreamweaver
 
Posts: 30
#414651
Honestly, if you are three months into the relationship and you are already not happy then end it now. He's not worth it, obviously, his true colours are coming out now that he thinks he has you 'hooked'. The longer you stay with him the worse it will get.
Relationship Help... August 2, 2019 03:06 PM

Mediterranean
 
Posts: 528
#414847
Getting mad at you for not sending nudes is a big fat nope. Making "jokes" like that which are OBVIOUSLY going to hurt you is completely toxic.

Of course, I don't know him personally and it may be harsh to say, but he sounds horrible. The way he is treating you is absolutely not okay and I know it'll hurt to break off your relationship, but it'll hurt even more in the long run if you continue.

And if anyone ever says to you "I don't care about how you feel" cut them out of your life.

It's made me really annoyed that you've been treated this way and I'm really sorry, you don't deserve it. Chin up <3

Edited at August 2, 2019 03:13 PM by Mediterranean
Relationship Help... August 3, 2019 05:34 PM

Golden Meadows
 
Posts: 2075
#415732
Kick his selfish stupid ass out of your life. I know it hurts, but just remember its not about what he was , it's about what he is .
Relationship Help... August 5, 2019 07:48 PM
Stethoscope Stables
 
Posts: 372
#417356
Honestly, he's not boyfriend material. You deserve someone who is going to honor and cherish you. A lot of guys I've seen like this get dangerous later, so, ending it now is probably best for you.

Cheer up! You'll find the right guy soon.

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