| tired | November 7, 2021 11:55 AM |
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Edit - thank you all for the kind words and advice. |
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| tired | November 7, 2021 01:26 PM |
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Take a weekend for yourself and before you leave tell any involved parties that until they can treat you like a person, they aren't qualified to have opinions of you. If he can't do that then it's probably not a relationship you should stay in. |
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| tired | November 7, 2021 03:43 PM |
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you can talk to me i relate :( its hard and painfull one day i was so close to giving up |
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| tired | November 10, 2021 09:14 PM |
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Hon if your bf or hubby is doing stuff like that to you, and making you feel like shit drop his ass like a bad habit. People who do that to others are abusers, and don't give a shit about anyone but themselves. I hate to say this he's not going to change even if he says he will. He will get better for a little bit and then go back to the old habits, and then it'll escelate into something far worse. For your own sake I suggest you run from this guy and don't look back. And if you're wondering..... yes I do speak from experience with relationships like this. |
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| tired | November 10, 2021 09:23 PM |
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People have to want to change. If he's aware of how he makes you feel and he doesn't want to/put in the effort to change, put yourself first and get out of the relationship. |
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| tired | November 12, 2021 11:01 AM |
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Hawkeye Farms said:
Hon if your bf or hubby is doing stuff like that to you, and making you feel like shit drop his ass like a bad habit. People who do that to others are abusers, and don't give a shit about anyone but themselves. I hate to say this he's not going to change even if he says he will. He will get better for a little bit and then go back to the old habits, and then it'll escelate into something far worse. For your own sake I suggest you run from this guy and don't look back. And if you're wondering..... yes I do speak from experience with relationships like this.
Stormsong Manor said:
People have to want to change. If he's aware of how he makes you feel and he doesn't want to/put in the effort to change, put yourself first and get out of the relationship.
This ^ |
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| tired | November 12, 2021 11:27 AM |
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| tired | November 12, 2021 06:36 PM |
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Stormsong Manor said:
People have to want to change. If he's aware of how he makes you feel and he doesn't want to/put in the effort to change, put yourself first and get out of the relationship.
Unfortunately Stormsong people who are abusers like this will change for a little bit, and then go back to old habits. Then things like verbal abuse will escalte into physical and sexual abuse. These people do not change. |
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| tired | November 12, 2021 07:23 PM |
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Hawkeye Farms said:
Stormsong Manor said:
People have to want to change. If he's aware of how he makes you feel and he doesn't want to/put in the effort to change, put yourself first and get out of the relationship.
Unfortunately Stormsong people who are abusers like this will change for a little bit, and then go back to old habits. Then things like verbal abuse will escalte into physical and sexual abuse. These people do not change.
I will disagree with you on that -- SOME people are capable of change IF they put in the work to understand how shitty their behavior is. Gotta get to the root of it all, but to do that, you have to be willing to haul ass to make yourself a better person. Most abusers? The vast, vast majority? They won't change. But some people can and will. I can't entirely speak from experience on that, though... the one boyfriend I had who got physical with me got kicked out of my life immediately. No idea if he was able to change. Don't care. |
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| tired | November 13, 2021 08:36 AM |
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People like that need to want to change, and put the work in to actually do it. |
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