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I don't really want to share this with anyone irl, I prefer keeping my home life to myself with people I know. But It's killing me to not tell anyone. My parents have been together for 20 years or so. And there have been multiple instances with my mum cheating and my dad always forgave her. And it's hapened to just come up once more, however with me the middle kid are now at reasonable ages where we get a little more involved and neither of us want to see our dad in constant fear this whole life hes built for his wife and us kids is a lie on her behalf. And my sister and I are making it obvious, how hard it is to watch him upset time and time again. Not to mention how I too feel betrayed, like we just aren't good enough for mum. Or fear one day we'll wake up and find out shes taken off for another family. So here I am, haven't spoken more than a few words to my mother today and sure as hell haven't even looked at her. Doesn't help she thought it wasn't a big deal because it happened 3 years ago, cried saying dad was the one at fault for making her bored. For all we know this could be going on right now and she just isn't telling us, it sucks! I never wanted seperate parents, but i feel that right now thats what will happen. And it'd better than having situations like this come up every 6 or so years. |
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I'm sorry this is happening/ been happening to you. I'm a middle child too and I'm not sure if this is related but its been on my chest for a while too. Last month at a family party my dad got drunk, and when we got to the hotel we were staying at, my mom and dad started to fight. And it was really bad. Me and my siblings were crying in the middle of the parking lot as my mom and dad screamed at each other. My dad said he was done with her, and she was ANGRY. People were starting to stare, and a security guy was watching us. I almost had a panic attack then and there. We contemplated going home, but we were 2 hours away, and my dad said he wanted to stay there. We finally got in the hotel and everyone was looking at us. We got 2 separate rooms, one for me,my sister and my mom, and one for my dad and my brothers. They kept knocking on our door cause they were scared to sleep alone with him. Everything worked out in the end though. In the morning when my dad was sober, he apologized a LOT and hugged us all, especially my mom. I know they love each other, but it was still traumatic. I hope everything works out with you, and I hope you're happy soon❤ |
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Arcticstar's Herd said:
I'm sorry this is happening/ been happening to you. I'm a middle child too and I'm not sure if this is related but its been on my chest for a while too. Last month at a family party my dad got drunk, and when we got to the hotel we were staying at, my mom and dad started to fight. And it was really bad. Me and my siblings were crying in the middle of the parking lot as my mom and dad screamed at each other. My dad said he was done with her, and she was ANGRY. People were starting to stare, and a security guy was watching us. I almost had a panic attack then and there. We contemplated going home, but we were 2 hours away, and my dad said he wanted to stay there. We finally got in the hotel and everyone was looking at us. We got 2 separate rooms, one for me,my sister and my mom, and one for my dad and my brothers. They kept knocking on our door cause they were scared to sleep alone with him. Everything worked out in the end though. In the morning when my dad was sober, he apologized a LOT and hugged us all, especially my mom. I know they love each other, but it was still traumatic. I hope everything works out with you, and I hope you're happy soon❤
Oh gosh! thats horrible! |
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