what's best for you and your human family is important, but in the end, what's most important is what's best for the dog you're trying to take care of. if his medical needs worsen, that would be even more of a strain on your family, and if you just aren't able to give him the care he truly needs (and I know you're trying your best to do so) it would honestly be the kindest thing to rehome him to someone who is able to do so |