I've noticed a problem with myself. I feel afraid to post on HEE. I struggle with what others think of me, so when I post a suggestion and nobody supports it, or when I make an RP and nobody joins it really takes a toll on me. If this post makes you upset or makes you want to post something mad, or unsupported just don't. Mods, this is not negatively discussing others.

Me and one of my friends actually left HEE for a while because of something similar to this, what i've learned is to just find something you enjoy and stick to it! Wether it's breeding, showing, ratings, bravery, etc. It's much easier to find close friends with similar interests you can discuss. As far as the supporting thing, just don't overthink it too much, what i've kind of told myself is it doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks, it's a game, and you'll never see the people in your life again. You'll find a good friend group to support(by support I mean like, joining rps, etc. like what you mentioned) you eventually I promise! Just give it time.

hi mate <3

this was ctully something i struggled little with a while back. It's hrd becuse there are some stables who re really nice nd populr, and you wnt to be like them. but in relity, they hve been playing for years and years. here's wht i did to mke me feel better bout my stable-

begin to focus one one thing. for example, ISH ratings. this relly helps!

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get yourself a new set/name! i find restarting often helps. so i chnged my name, got some new art, and focused on being hppy on HEE!

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find a friend group

either try nd find a roup of people who re passionte about thins you love, or a person who can be your best HEE buddy! it my take a while, but trust me, once you find your people, you stick.

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other than that, all i reccomend is mybe be more active in chat? people love to talk, and maybe you can express who you are if you talk little more.

hoping this helps <3

Thank you both!

sorry about my posts spelling, my A's on my keyboard arent working very well

lol, it ok

wow, I already feel so much better

lovely name choice!

Be active, kind, and mindful of the rules in chat, and people will start to remember you :) The more active you are in the community, the more people will interact with you. A lot of people become "popular"/well-known on the site because they're artists, they have built up a reputation for having top-notch horses, or they're just plain nice and fun to talk to!

I get this :( my thing is that I'm worried other people will misinterpret me or coming across as rude when I'm not trying to be. I'm not great with social stuff at the best of times never mind online where I can't always explain myself. I just try my best to be kind and help other players out where I can :)