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Stormsong Manor said:
What a baby. Tell him to get his whiny ass in the kitchen and cook his own food. Not going to lie... from this post alone, this "man" wouldn't last thirty seconds in my company. If the rest of this relationship is the same as this type of interaction, literally dump his ass on the curb outside. I'm all for constructive criticism here and there, especially if you ask "how's the food?" but wanting you to be *the best* while he just sits there and has a passive aggressive tantrum? Adios, amigo. Sounds like his mother or whomever raised him never made him grow up, and let him behave like a misogynistic brat.
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You deserve to be happy, you deserve to be with someone who makes you happy. A roast chicken, homemade apple pie, and baked potatoes, that is what I call a B-day meal. Stand up for yourself, your strong and fully capable of doing so!!! |
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roast chicken? apple pie? crispy potatoes? damn thats amazing! Honestly without trying to be rude, he sounds like a whiny brat. Next time he does that, hand him the spatula and tell him to go cook his own food. |
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Paradox Elites said:
Thank you all ❤ I'm feeling a little better...still just in a weird numb, haze kind of thing where I just want to go to sleep forever and I have zero motivation to do anything. It's hard to explain. It's gotten to the point where I dont know if I am thinking straight sometimes. I think about if I should leave. I feel alone, my parents just moved away halfway across the country, my one friend lives equally far. We have animals, what would I do with them? I can't drive because of my disability, so I depend on him for that. I'm just worried and I don't know what to do and then whenever I think about going I feel like I'm a horrible person. But then there's the part of me that says that I deserve someone who didn't treat me this way. And then I think "you're overreacting, it isnt that bad, you're breaking your promise". Ugh.
You're not a horrible person for wanting to be in a relationship with someone who makes you feel good and lifts you up. You do deserve someone who doesn't treat you like a maid and who doesn't expect you to cook "perfectly" for them. You're not overreacting, you're being reasonable and it sounds like your expectations (constructive criticism instead of pure negativity and complaints, someone who's not behaving like a whiny 3-yr-old, someone who makes you feel good) are absolutely realistic. I understand what you mean about breaking your promise, but if you did decide this relationship isn't right for you then that's okay. Better to break that promise now and deal with that, than deal with an unhappy relationship for however long the rest of your lives last. *hugs* Hope things improve and that you have a good day! |
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That sounds like borderline domestic abuse |
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Sunny
