Luna I don't control him, he chooses to not have women, of course he has co workers, but he's not a guy that's even remotely interested in being in the same room as other females unless it means business, I'm not gonna let him have some weird hook up text app
My husband is allowed to have apps and friends. I am not going to control him in any way hes allowed to be able to talk to whomever he wants. If you trust your partner you shouldn't need to tell them what they can and can't have. If they respect you enough then they should know better and not cross the obvious lines
I don't allow my boyfriend to have apps like that, and honestly it's not controlling it's just respect, I do the same for him. He doesn't even have friends that are girls because he doesn't want me to worry.
Kate, I'm so sorry, those types of relationships are so hard to have to deal with. I wish you the best and hope you're able to find someone who truely makes you happy soon